[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by chelseagirl

I'm 34, and he's 26

That's not really too big of a gap, IMHO. If he hasn't learned how to control his temper by now, then he's not going to.

I'm 30. My best friend just turned 26. My fiance is 33. All of us know how to control our anger, and our age differences aren't really an issue.

You are -very- young. Leave the jerk, and find someone who doesn't have serious emotional and mental issues. Trust me on this; I've had a LOT of experience with folks who refused to learn how to control themselves: Things will NEVER get better. They will only get worse.