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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
Uh huh..
The problem is, it seems, that you may not be able to tell when someone is messing with you, and when they are serious. Sure, someone may mess with you and say they saw a ghost when they didn't, but what if they are serious, and actually saw what they believe is a ghost?
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If they weren't serious, I wouldn't be pissed :P But I see your point. No point in discussing this any further.
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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
Ahh, the truth reveals itself even further.
It seems that you aren't upset about the idea of ghosts as much as you are upset at the idea that these folks claimed that your father talked to them.
Now that I can understand; when my mom died, my sister's best friend claimed that she heard my mom talking to her and telling her to stop crying, and that she was okay now. [My mom was in a lot of pain right before she died.]
I know that grief does a lot of bizarre things to folks, so it's entirely possible that this was simply some kind of hallucination on the friend's part, or quite possibly a lie.
Or, it actually happened. [I can actually see my mom doing this sort of thing; it's totally in her character.]
Either way, though, I can understand why it would upset you. If you want to talk to someone about losing a parent, feel free to PM me or email me at [email protected].
*hugs* and I'm sorry for your loss. [I'm not sure if I said that before.]
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You seem like a nice person, thanks for saying this. Though my father died a couple years ago, I was more annoyed by people telling me stuff about my father that he would never normally say. Even if its 'good' things, when I think about my father I want to remember the things he did do and did say.
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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
It was agonizing, but the only thing I can attribute such an experience to is God and The Spiritual Realm. It's just waaaaaaaaay too much to be simple 'coincidence'.
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One day, we will know.
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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
...what language..? English...? *confused*
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I'm not english, and being more used to french grammar structure I am always worried my sentences may come out twisted.