Originally Posted by Xxmasquerade_massacrexX
Alright people. Listen, and listen good. I'm only going to say this once.
NEITHER ONE OF YOU ARE RIGHT. Period. There is no "oh, honeythorn, poor thing. she's fat." FUCK THAT. what, she wins the argument simply because of her fucking weight? bullshit. BULL. SHIT. and there's no "oh, gothicusmaximus, poor guy. she called him a fetishist."
what it all boils down to is that everyone has their own personal opinion of beauty. just because gothicusmaximus like skinny chicks doesn't mean he has a fetish for anorexia. what the fuck, who does that? but that doesn't mean you should thoroughly tear her apart because of her weight, either. that's like saying someone can't have a good argument simply because they're gay or a certain religion or something. it's just what you are. period.
i personally take great offense when someone assumes that everyone who is overweight is that way because of laziness, or obsession with food. personally, i am big because i have medical problems. i have issues with my thyroid and various other things which lead to being overweight, a diet and exercise can only do so much. i'm still a big girl, and short of gastric bypass surgery there isn't much i can do. i always have been and always will be big. and that's how it is.
basically, here's what i'm saying. both honeythorn and gothicusmaximus are wrong.
honeythorn: just because someone doesn't find you attractive because of your weight doesn't make them a fetishist. say, for shits and giggles, that you prefer blondes. if someone said you were a freak for not liking dark hair, wouldn't that piss you off? i think it would. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. it's life, darlin, get a backbone.
gothicusmaximus: weeding out someone's most potent insecurity and feeding on that is never, EVER the way to defend yourself or make a point. are we in second grade? seriously. "don't talk to cindy, she's UGLY." just because honeythorn is large does not mean her opinion is any less meaningful. what the fuck? okay, so you get bothered because she's big and can't see how skinny girls are preferrable to some guys. fine. but you didn't rebute, you simply burned her for no reason. no, you're not a fetishist. what you are is an asshole for saying things like that.
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