|
It's hard to give advice on this without knowing the situation. There are a million different possibilities here. She could love you emotionally, but not be attracted to you romantically/physically/whatever. She could be a terrible person and you can't see it and she just likes the attention. She could have the same feelings for you that you do for her, but she's afraid because she's never really felt that way before. She could be afraid of ruining a good friendship because she doesn't have enough friends she can really trust.
I think JCC's advice was best, but I'll expand on it--even though it's nearly impossible, try to look at it from an objective point of view. Be realistic, and try to identify if it's a lost cause.
(Yeah, I worded that in a weird way. I meant looking at it objectively is nearly impossible, not expanding on what JCC said.)
|