[Ben Lahnger]

I certainly understand that, and I suspect many women would concur about foreplay. But for the right consenting couple, it can offer some hot spontaneous fun.

Originally Posted by Fantasy

Yes, It's totally exciting waking up all wet and excited. My ex boyfriend used to do it all the time. It's a huge turn on to wake up to him sliding inside me. I had never talked about it with anyone else and didn't know if anyone else was into it, so it's cool to know that other people are. Did you think it was a turn on or kinda weird?

It was absolutely a turn on! And it worked well in the dynamic of that particular relationship. She liked surrendering to being a sex object for me. For a stretch of time the only rule (barring any kind of injury or illness or other condition that put her out of commission for a while) was that I could fuck her whenever I wanted to. For instance, sometimes I would have her wear skirts with no panties on all day ... and then when she was doing something later in the day like washing the dishes I would come up behind her unannounced, grab her hips, lean her forward over the sink and enter her from behind. And she used to get very aroused very quickly from this. Again, this worked for us at that particular time and that particular relationship. So taking her while she was asleep was another way to possess her and fulfill that fantasy of hers of being used.

Hell, some days she would just decide to do the housework in her high heels and nothing else. On those days I sometimes wondered who was using who! Ha ha!

To have that kind of arrangement work, you have to have a pretty good understanding about what you both want out of sex, and you both have to be able to trust each other to a degree that takes some work. This is not something I would recommend any couple try out on a whim unless the relationship is pretty solid.