I hate being rejected too, and I feel rejected very easily. All the time actually, but it's all a matter of perspective really.
Here's some good advice (that I'll pass on to you because I'm not using it anyway):
One third of the people you know likes you, one third of the people you know doesn't like you and one third of the people you know don't give a shit about you.
I've heard many people say this kind of perspective helped them a lot (it was even in Psychology Magazine a few months ago).
As for spelling, I have a great perspective on that. As long as people can easily grasp the meaning of what you type, it's okay. Who cares about spelling correctly. It's completely irrelevant, no more than a convention.
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