That sounds like a rather unstable situation to grow up in.
I think we all end up collecting a lot of mental baggage as we journey through life, it can be difficult to decide what to keep and what to throw away sometimes.
I have found discussion and argument are good ways to explore ideas, test them out and see if they fit you or not. Mind you, it helps to have a bit of a thick skin, especially if you are emotional about a viewpoint or idea.
Also, keep in mind, that you're allowed to change your views. In fact, its a good idea to change them if they're based on bad information or a mode of thinking that you've found doesn't work.
When you say you're lost, what do you mean?
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