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Originally Posted by Solumina
Thanks AD, I just wonder how much of it is people being dumb about the situation and how much is my personality making it worse. I hate to have to apologize simply for being who I am but maybe I do need to watch what I say and do.
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You'll find Sol that some guys think that when you just talk to them, they think you are coming onto them. I used to work with a guy who when I asked him where he used to live in Brisbane (because I used to live there), he thought I was coming onto him, when I was making conversation. After that he went all weird. I gave up on chatting to him, and if we spoke I'd be short and sharp in my response. That's why I don't talk to pretty guys - they tend to think I'm coming onto them, even when I'm just being friendly. Or if I do talk to them, I'm gruff because I seriously don't want them to get all 'princess' on me.
It's not your fault you're comfortable talking to guys - he's the one with the hang up.
Also as you get older, you cut so called friends from your life, because either you start to see who they really are, or you just get fed up with their bullshit about the way you live your life.