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Originally Posted by Languor
How can you talk about the privilege of someone you don't know anything about? All you know is that I'm female. Any other idea you've gleamed from my words is pure speculation. The only really useful social privileges in a patriarchal society are maleness and whiteness. Economic and class privilege is sometimes awarded to those who own those privileges (or align themselves with people who do).
None of this should have been about me. It's ok for you guys to check each other's privilege because you know each other's privilege.
It's taking the easy way out to say "you don't like something I like because you have privilege".
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No, its saying, whoever you are, no one has the privilege and right to say what victims can and can't feel. I've been sexually harassed, so my privilege isn't that apparent over those who are harassed, but I shouldn't feel comfortable dictating what is and isn't acceptable ways. A privilege can be something that is seen as a right even though its not fair that its considered a right, and a ton of people assume they know whats best for victims, including other victims. Like last fall there were a series of druggings downtown, and there was this girl commenting online that was like "I got drugged once too, and you know, it was my fault! I wasn't careful and I was dressed like a slut." Its horrible what happened, and there's a lot of internalized misogyny going on there, but its not a right anyone has over another person.
Mind you I'm not comparing what you said to that, I'm just using it as an example. I'm saying that your initial reaction really seemed that way, because I thought it was pretty obvious that the blog talks about revenge and not violent revolution.
Also, there are more kinds of privileges. There's class privilege, as you said, there's heterosexual privilege, there's cis privilege, Christian privilege (assuming its hegemonic Christianity), thin privilege, and I could probably think of a few more. Mind you I think some are worse than others and a lot has to do with intersectionality (if you're white cismale middle to upper class, I doubt thin privilege has a whole lot of impact), but for many people, its there to some degree.