[FenrisQueen]

well said.

On another note, I am having big relationship problems. I've been off and on dating this guy for a few years. But now we're having big problems. Like, we got drunk, and got in a fight, he called me a whore and I broke his nose. ok. We decided to take a break. So he gets a new girlfriend, and I get set up on a date. With a guy I've liked for a while. So we go on a date, and who is on a date but my ex? (I'm not giving out names) He gets all pissed off and possessive, and tells me I am not allowed to date anyone. But, apparently, he isn't stricken with the same limitations! Jealousy in a relationship is one thing, but when you break up, you lose the right to have any say.
I told him to go to hell. He *hits* my date. Hits him! What is that about?
He came over and apologized, and said he wants to try and work it out. Then his -girlfriend- calls, and he has to leave. To pick her up from work.
Oh yeah. We're really making progress.
To be honest, I do love him, but he's a little to double standardly for me. So it's over. For good.