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Im telling ya screw dating. I dont know what the culture/society is like where you folks are at, but I kinda tired dating a wee bit and ...I found all these people who had severe intimacy issues. I am not really interested in some kinda sorta intimacy nonsense of going out to dinner and having random activities every now and then. Granted I am a full fledged adult now. And maybe dating is great when you dont know what you want and you wanna get to know people. Hell anymore I dont even pretext like have to be friends. Unless its just sex but thats a whole different thing.
I need a full fledged dynamic that is active.
This is why I am sO adamant on just doing what ever. If I cant ring the person up and talk about the weather or my pet cat when I was a kid screw em. I mean I know there is a certain period of checking each other out and all, but after X number of weeks I cant have 'the talk' or randomly call when ever or just drop by unannounced. screw em! ...Those are my limits.
And you really need to disassociate sex from emotional intimacy also, ...TRUST ME DO IT!.
close your eyes and imagine a rod perhaps its metal perhaps it wood, but its long and has two ends. on one end fittingly the left hand ,is sex and on the right hand is nonsexual intimacy. It is all called knowing someone.
Thats my rant. But being an adult and falling into dating sites and perpetual lets hang out next weekend, I am over it. You got my digits.
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