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Originally Posted by Ben Lahnger
My main thinking on this is, if you like introducing porn or erotica into your sexplay, you should have a substantial conversation with your partner about this before they become your SO. Hopefully you have a meeting of the minds on this (as well as other important topics) before you become truly committed.
Most of the time when I've seen this become a problem between couples, it's because the guy has hidden or minimized his interest in porn to the woman, and then when the revelation comes it seems more like a betrayal or infidelity.
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Coming into this one a little late, but the SO and I are about to try and start enjoying soft core together. Both of us are a little on the jealous side so we have never really considered it before; but we recently decided, why not? If either one of us gets bothered we'll just be open about it and let the other one know.
So, does anyone have recomendations of any specific titles or genres that are good to 'ease' into? We prefer straight sex, by the way...and do they have Hentai that
isn't primarily r*pe scenes?