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Old 02-09-2006, 05:26 AM   #21
edible_eye
 
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Originally Posted by Iriacynthe
edible_eye: I know, I should just stop caring about him, and find someone who's worth my love, but beeing an 18 year old romantic girl, that's hard.
what you're learning now will be, in part, the attitude you bring with you to more meaningful relationships in the future. don't learn to be the "holla-back girl", or however the fuck you say it - unless, of course, you don't mind being that girl.

it's not so much about caring for him, the way i see it. you care about what he showed you way back when. there's more to his personality now. you need to look at the whole picture.

you're looking to him to make things all right with you, instead of taking the reins on your own life. anytime you grant someone the power to determine your outlook on life, you'll not only be disappointed - you'll be used.
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