boy trouble at the max

[Tsukiko]

thank you all for the advice i broke up with him and i feel alot better now thank u all so very much ur suporrt helped

[Mir]

I have boy troubles too! Duckie won`t do me in the butt!

[oktoberschilde]

Originally Posted by Solumina

Tell him firmly that you can't be in a relationship with someone who is so dependent on you. If he wants to stay with you then he needs to step up and pull his own weight, if he can't do that then you need to do what is best for you and move on.

As for the cousin don't date him anytime soon. Even if the two of you would be a good match you shouldn't jump into anything with him or else there is a good chance that Deven will be hurt and feel betrayed by both of you.

So then why are you weighing in on a discussion about something that you know nothing about?

Reading This Fricken kills me! However, Solumina, said it! as did all the others, each in his or her own way. Note the same resounding message? This is almost a no-brainer Darling! Solumina, has a sweeter touch. Me; I am more heavy handed, as I find especially dealing with the wimpy, a strong hand is required. Albeit, usually in the form of a flurry of backhands. But, I digress...

The point remains that it is time for YOU to,Put him on notice to either shit; or, get off the pot! And More over, to mean it, and Back it up! That is if you are looking for results.
Though I imagine that a guy like him, will fold under the pressure, at which time it is time to move on to greener pastures. And, don't you worry Peaches, you will just be shedding dead weight so now you can once again, fly.

Good luck in love from now on.

Solumina. I am happy to see that we can agree on one thing at least.
Great advice to this poster from all.


The Infamous Mr. Oktober

[Nihtgást]

^ I think i like this guy ^

[D0PPLEGANGER]

Just give him a cigarette you jew! Then do his laundry.

[Nihtgást]

a lil late Dopp...

[vindicatedxjin]

Originally Posted by Tsukiko

thank you all for the advice i broke up with him and i feel alot better now thank u all so very much ur suporrt helped

Good for you...trust me there's a better guy out there!!! Losers like that deserve to be alone.

[Anarchist Ninja]

Well if you want the evil violent deadly approach, put poison in the next pack of ciggarretes you give him. So many chemicals in that crap that no one will know. (Though I reccomend you both stop smoking altogether.)

If you want the less deadly, law abiding, way out either sit him down and talk to him or break up and dump him.

Or perhaps you give HIM the choice. He get's a job or you are through. That basically makes it his problem and not yours.

Best advice I have.