etc

[mindless1]

nothing will get my attention. im considering taking a stimulant.

-my hair is short blonde, and i need makeup ideas

-i want more clothes to find my own style, but no one will take me to the mall

-i still cant drive, ---cant focus

-i want to do things that i cant do...im a dumb blonde now

- i miss what the hairdresser did in the first place, that i ruined

- im full blonde and dont know what to do-

- i want a boyfriend, but i cant find one

- i have no friends.....im looking for drugs

- i am depressed

- i dont get ANY comments on my poetry on AP

- im feeling suicidal a lot of the time

- once i get better....then

[Romantic Raven]

Hey, cheer up! Stop focusing on the bad things in your life, or they'll only get worse. I know what it's like not to have friends and to feel like nothing is worth doing. You just have to get over this phase.

Focus on your hobbies, try doing something creative. At first you may feel that it requires too much patience which you don't have, but once you find something you like you can join groups and meet people who share your hobby.

Come on, don't just sit in front of the computer all day long! Get out and do something! Life's worth living, and you definitely shouldn't waste any time.

[Extraordinary]

If you can find a way to make money, you can change everything.

[mindless1]

it's true! money makes the world go round.

[mindless1]

thankyou for the reply, i sometimes dont have a means of transportation and there's not very much around here locally. good advice.

[Saddiction]

How old are you, exactly?

[james"bloody tears"]

I know what thats like, to be friendless, suicidle, etc. etc. but if you focus on the bad it only gets worse. If it makes you feel any better I'll be your friend( even if it is only on the computer{ps my IM is in my profile if you want to talk im usualy on})

[biohazard]

Well if you could drive it would help. Maybe you should try harder, driving is very important. I personally dislike driving, and will only do it in emergencies, but I am glad that I know how to. It is very easy to be afraid to drive, I am a person who does not like to try new things, but if you try hard enough you will eventually conquer it.

[badteccy]

"- i dont get ANY comments on my poetry on AP"

Oh noes! The world is coming to an end!!!!!

From what it seems, your problems aren't that big. At least you don't live in Darfur.

[mindless1]

You have no relation to my problems, appearences arent everything.

[badteccy]

Nor do I care to know. Everyone has problems, posting them on the internet makes you seem to be an attention whore...which well...ya know.
God, you're annoying.

[Extraordinary]

Shut the fuck up, badteccy. This is the whining forum. One of the longest-running threads is called "Rant Thread." All anybody does on this site is bitch about their school, their parents, and the rest of society.

[Don't Look Behind You]

i've gone through such depression phases.

I can understand badteccy for flaming though. Most of such posts on the internet are made by bored attention seekers.

But I see that you are not so. last summer I was in the same state. Yes, a boyfriend would probably be the best solution but hey they bring about a whole lot of stress :P

My advice: find a hobby. Paint, write, whatever. And do it FOR YOURSELF.
This will brighten up your social life automatically...as long as you don't worry about being loney and depressed all the time.

[DeathChii]

Sometimes everything just feels like it goes wrong; but it will get better- trust me. The world is balanced- negative to positive. All good things will come soon enough =D

[badteccy]

Originally Posted by Extraordinary

Shut the fuck up, badteccy. This is the whining forum. One of the longest-running threads is called "Rant Thread." All anybody does on this site is bitch about their school, their parents, and the rest of society.

Well instead of whining about stupid shit like how your hair is blonde ON THE INTERNET, go do something to make your life better instead...hmm.

[mindless1]

Originally Posted by badteccy

Well instead of whining about stupid shit like how your hair is blonde ON THE INTERNET, go do something to make your life better instead...hmm.

um, this is the whining thread...

[DeathChii]

I think they both show a good point x]
Instead of just sitting on the computer complaining, you should actually go out and do something about it.
On the other hand, this is a whining thread and nothing makes you feel better then letting it out.
So in the end. I think you should complain on the internet- sulk in some self pity for a while, and then get off your ass and do something about it. =]

[DeathChii]

Originally Posted by mindless1

-i want more clothes to find my own style, but no one will take me to the mall

No biggy, I've gone to the mall by myself many times. No one really cares x]
I know it seems like torture going shopping alone, but It really isn't that bad. Just take the bus if you don't have a ride.

Originally Posted by mindless1

-i want to do things that i cant do...im a dumb blonde now

Nobody's perfect! There are so many things I wish I can do that I can't! Though there are people out there who wish they can do some of the things you can do. =]

Originally Posted by mindless1

- i miss what the hairdresser did in the first place, that i ruined

Hair grows. It'll come back.

Originally Posted by mindless1

- im full blonde and dont know what to do-

I love blonde hair!!! If you really don't like it though, you can always dye it.

Originally Posted by mindless1

- i want a boyfriend, but i cant find one

I can give you whole essay about how you can't get a boyfriend if you WANT one. You have to be happy with yourself. You have to be independent. That's what attracts other guys. Not desperation. That scares them away.

Originally Posted by mindless1

- i have no friends.....im looking for drugs

I don't have any friends either. And look at me? I am so cool! lol. Sometimes you're just surrounded by assholes. And what does that have to do with drugs? O_o

Originally Posted by mindless1

- i am depressed
- im feeling suicidal a lot of the time

If you seriously feel that way, go see a phyciatrist. Depression is a very serious illness.

[MollyMac]

This is the whining forum, but you could have just posted this in the Rant thread instead.

All the same- if all you see is nagative, then that is all you are. Try to see what is working well in your life and build on that. Nothing you posted is an actual problem that is insolvable- everything you posted is something you can actively either do something about or adjust your thinking on.

[mindless1]

thanks. People seem to think I havent tried. I dont want to mention anything else because Im afraid someone will bash me for it. But I dropped out of highschool because it was full of jocks and preps. No one disliked me, but I wasn't outgoing enough. I also have hd some other things...i get social anxiety and that's one of my problems. I was really just listing what was on my mind to get them out- not even really to whine about them just to vent them. But I havent had friends because I havent gotten to a place where i feel like I can be around people. I do things, I just dont do enough of the things that make you popular. never have been popular...which is good. I hate preps.

[mindless1]

You see, i have done all these things...but anti-depressants can fuck you up and I dont want to take them. Plus Im better off without them. God, Im so tired of these people....damnit.

[mindless1]

just have to say thanks, for not flaming me and also for sticking up for me...not like it really bothers me that much what people say or at least i try not to let it bother me.

[DeathChii]

No, I know how you feel. I have anxiety too. Like I said, I have no friends. Of course, I didn't drop out of school because of it. =S They also want to put me on medication, but I said no =P
And the advice I gave you wasn't to put you down. I was trying to help you. If you took it as a negative? [I can't really tell =P]
Although, I am going to say this, not to HURT you really. I just want to give you some personal advice:
-Dropping out of high school is not a good idea. It's NOT. Really, it's NOT. If you can, go back. Just trust me on this.
-You need to have more faith in people. You can't just generalize and say you hate all jocks and preps. Just because a guy likes to play sports, doesn't make him a complete asshole. My boyfriend's goth, and he's a total Jock. A lot of preps, too, are actually really good people. You shouldn't be putting people in to labels and then shutting them out of your life. You might as well be a racist. Saying you hate all black people and saying you hate all preps... I don't see that much a big difference in the two statements.

[mindless1]

Originally Posted by DeathChii

No, I know how you feel. I have anxiety too. Like I said, I have no friends. Of course, I didn't drop out of school because of it. =S They also want to put me on medication, but I said no =P
And the advice I gave you wasn't to put you down. I was trying to help you. If you took it as a negative? [I can't really tell =P]
Although, I am going to say this, not to HURT you really. I just want to give you some personal advice:
-Dropping out of high school is not a good idea. It's NOT. Really, it's NOT. If you can, go back. Just trust me on this.
-You need to have more faith in people. You can't just generalize and say you hate all jocks and preps. Just because a guy likes to play sports, doesn't make him a complete asshole. My boyfriend's goth, and he's a total Jock. A lot of preps, too, are actually really good people. You shouldn't be putting people in to labels and then shutting them out of your life. You might as well be a racist. Saying you hate all black people and saying you hate all preps... I don't see that much a big difference in the two statements.

I can't go back. I didn't drop out of highschool because I didn't have any friends, that was only a part of it. And I dont feel like explaining why I did drop out because I was feeling a lot of pressure. I've already graduated highschool, now Im just looking into a good college. I dont say they're all preps but they acted preppy at least, and ignored me for awhile so it just got on my nerves...how can you make friends if no one even approaches you? Even when you try to approach them and they back off...but this is all BS really, and I dont even care to explain myself because then i'd have to post forever on this god damned forum.

[DeathChii]

Well if you already graduated then you're fine...?