Rant Thread - Page 104

Jacks Girl · 03-22-2006, 12:30 PM

So here's my little rant.
For months whilst we were going out he repeatedly told me how much he missed not being able to go around sleeping with whoever he wanted, and that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me. He also made one of my biggest fears come true, twice. Finally I decided that I couldn't take any more and finished with him, and I started to move on with my life. Now suddenly he's decided im the only girl he's ever wanted and denies ever having said that he didn't want me. Also due to me still refusing to take him back he told me to f*** off. I don't want to loose contact with him because he is still an important person to me, but I can't take any more of his messing around with me! Ahhh!

tenet_2012 · 03-22-2006, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Jacks Girl

So here's my little rant.
For months whilst we were going out he repeatedly told me how much he missed not being able to go around sleeping with whoever he wanted, and that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me. He also made one of my biggest fears come true, twice. Finally I decided that I couldn't take any more and finished with him, and I started to move on with my life. Now suddenly he's decided im the only girl he's ever wanted and denies ever having said that he didn't want me. Also due to me still refusing to take him back he told me to f*** off. I don't want to loose contact with him because he is still an important person to me, but I can't take any more of his messing around with me! Ahhh!

I don't mean to sound like a dick but...

You're pathetic. If your above rant is true then you have three options:

1.) Tell him to fuck off and never see him again. This is the best option or else he will use you until you eventually tell him to fuck off anyway. Save yourself the grief and do it now.

2.) Let him use you. This option will leave you with a ton of emotional baggage. Not worth it.

3.) Get back together with him. This is the worst option. He will cheat on you. The relationship will not last and you will end-up heart-broken.

You now have a decision to make. It seems pretty easy to me.

Queenofdarkness57 · 03-22-2006, 12:57 PM

* sigh* MEN! Obviously, if he really cares about you he won't be telling you to fuck off. I'll have to go with #1, too. It seems like he's playing around. I despise players.

succubus,queenofvampires · 03-22-2006, 01:20 PM

I tend to agree with option 1,too. He is such a dick who doesn't deserve you. I think that you should stop seeing him even though it might seem hard at the beginning.Good luck with that!

bunnicula · 03-22-2006, 04:29 PM

Well, it's not pathetic if you're 17, but if you're 30, you should know better than to let yourself be treated like that. If you're ok with your present situation with him, then by all means, take him back. Because he will do this over and over. So either get used to it, or move on with your life.

tenet_2012 · 03-22-2006, 04:31 PM

I wonder how E_P_S is.

I hope she is doing alright.

03-22-2006, 04:32 PM

No she is pathetic.

This is her rant in a nutshell:

"I was dating this guy that told me he didn't want to date me, he cheated on me twice, broke up with me, screwed around and now he wants to come back to after getting a case of amnesia and thinking he never said or did the things. He treats me like crap, doesn't respect me, but I LOOOOOOOOVE him (even though he doesn't love me) and he's really INTEEEEERESTING (even when he's cheating on me) and if he's not in my life, then I will be a worse person for it because he is so AAAAAMAZING (especially when he's lying to my face)!

What should I DOOOOOOOOO?"

She's not in a bad situation. She got OUT of a bad situation and is now contemplating getting BACk into the SAME situation.

P to the A to the T to the H to the E to the T to the I to the C to the !

03-22-2006, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by tenet_2012

I wonder how E_P_S is.

I hope she is doing alright.

I was just thinking that. It's almost 430 where she is. Shouldn't the test be over? I hope she's okay.

*sends good joo-joo to EPS*

Empty_Purple_Stars · 03-22-2006, 06:50 PM

I' m we ak and exhaust ed and in a lot of pain, b ut I made it thro ugh it all..

just wan ted to let ever yone know I still h ave a puls e..

Wa s reall y bad, b ut at le ast its over no w..

i wi ll ch eck in l ater whe n I f eel b etter..

lo ves to all..

horrorgirl · 03-22-2006, 07:11 PM

Glad that are home safe and sound. :-)

03-22-2006, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Empty_Purple_Stars

I' m we ak and exhaust ed and in a lot of pain, b ut I made it thro ugh it all..

just wan ted to let ever yone know I still h ave a puls e..

Wa s reall y bad, b ut at le ast its over no w..

i wi ll ch eck in l ater whe n I f eel b etter..

lo ves to all..

Oh my god. You poor thing. Ah! I want to cry. It's so easy to see that you're in a lot of pain. Don't you DARE answer anything else until you're feeling right as rain.

Poor, sexy EPS. I'm so sorry you're hurting.

03-22-2006, 07:24 PM

i came to this thread for the sole purpose to see if you were back, EPS.
It's good to hear that you still have a pulse.
i hope you're getting some rest right now.
*hugs

Demonista_Ravenesque · 03-22-2006, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by tenet_2012

I'd touch them if I seen you. I wouldn't be able to help it.

They are just so awesome.

You're no stranger.

Touch my dreadies

TwistedKitsune · 03-23-2006, 01:13 AM

WARNING: This whine/rant is about a breakup, if you have no desire to read about my breakup, then don’t. I just intensely need to get this out somewhere, as there will be no hope of sleeping for me until I do. I also realize that this may seem exceedingly pathetic to some people. Please, if you feel that way, don’t waste your time telling me. I’m already feeling about as low as I can tolerate at the moment and don’t need anyone confirming that string of self doubt.

On second thought, now that I’ve gone and typed out the long warning, I realize that none of you know me well enough to really and truly care about the details, so I won’t bother with any of them unless, for some reason or another, someone really would like to know. Suffice it to say that my boyfriend and I of nearly two years broke up just about 20 minutes ago do to a mutual agreement that he and I were just hurting each other by trying to keep our long distance relationship together (while we are both still entirely emotionally attached to one another, the lack of any physical side to this relationship –no I’m not talking about sex- was just tearing us both apart), and go figure, it’s the wee hours of the morning and no one who cares is online for me to tell. So I just ranted/whined about it here. There’s a lot more to it than that, but I won’t plague you all with it. Thanks for the threadspace, I’ll shush about that now.

Also, EPS, I wanted you to know that while I never got around to posting it earlier, my thoughts were with you. I’m glad you made it through ok and sincerely hope that you get to feeling better. You seem to be too wonderful a person to be stuck with all the pains and troubles that you are.

tenet_2012 · 03-23-2006, 01:18 AM

I care, hun.

In most cases long distance relationships don't work. It sucks, I know. You are strong. You will get through it. Maybe someday down the road, you'll get back together. It hurts now but time is the great healer.

TwistedKitsune · 03-23-2006, 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by tenet_2012

I care, hun.

In most cases long distance relationships don't work. It sucks, I know. You are strong. You will get through it. Maybe someday down the road, you'll get back together. It hurts now but time is the great healer.

Thank you very much Tenet. Those first three words mean the world to me right now. Actually, they mean a lot reguardless of the situation, so again, thank you.

As for long distance relationships not working out, I know that. You'd think I'd learn after having a few go awry *weak smile* I never have been one for listening to my brain instead of my heart, however, which is what's landed me in this situation before. I'm taking solace in the fact that this breakup is exceedingly hard for the both of us, and I don't mean that in a spiteful or cruel way. Merely the fact that we care enough to: 1) realize the fact that we weren't doing each other any favors by staying together, no matter how much we still love each other, and 2) That we were able to let go for the sake of each other, those two things alone says something for the fact that there might a possibilty for us in the future. Now is just not the right time for either of us, based on varying unchangable cirsumstances we aren't able to be together, but in the future, who knows. Too bad all this logic doesn't make it hurt any less.

tenet_2012 · 03-23-2006, 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Santarea

I fucking hate fucking fucks.

That is all.

Yeah, me too!

Jacks Girl · 03-23-2006, 03:38 AM

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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl

No she is pathetic.

This is her rant in a nutshell:

"I was dating this guy that told me he didn't want to date me, he cheated on me twice, broke up with me, screwed around and now he wants to come back to after getting a case of amnesia and thinking he never said or did the things. He treats me like crap, doesn't respect me, but I LOOOOOOOOVE him (even though he doesn't love me) and he's really INTEEEEERESTING (even when he's cheating on me) and if he's not in my life, then I will be a worse person for it because he is so AAAAAMAZING (especially when he's lying to my face)!

What should I DOOOOOOOOO?"

She's not in a bad situation. She got OUT of a bad situation and is now contemplating getting BACk into the SAME situation.

P to the A to the T to the H to the E to the T to the I to the C to the !

I'm not contemplating getting back with him at all, I mean even I'M not that stupid. I was just extremely annoyed and needed to vent some anger, thats what people seem to do in the 'rant thread'.

Demonista_Ravenesque · 03-23-2006, 04:32 AM

My small rant:

I'm worried about my friend, sometimes he disappears and doesn't return for a while. I realise he needs some alone time sometimes, but I love him so much. I just get really worried about him sometimes.

tenet_2012 · 03-23-2006, 04:41 AM

Is he on drugs?

Demonista_Ravenesque · 03-23-2006, 04:47 AM

No, he's not on drugs. he just constantly gets sad.

Ben Lahnger · 03-23-2006, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by TwistedKitsune

WARNING: This whine/rant is about a breakup, if you have no desire to read about my breakup, then don’t. I just intensely need to get this out somewhere, as there will be no hope of sleeping for me until I do.

Suffice it to say that my boyfriend and I of nearly two years broke up just about 20 minutes ago do to a mutual agreement that he and I were just hurting each other by trying to keep our long distance relationship together (while we are both still entirely emotionally attached to one another, the lack of any physical side to this relationship –no I’m not talking about sex- was just tearing us both apart), and go figure, it’s the wee hours of the morning and no one who cares is online for me to tell.

TwistedKitsune ... aw, I care too, hun. This has been building for a while, hasn't it. Tenet's right about long distance relationships. But you've been hanging on to it for a while, because some part of the emotional relationship seemed valid and real and you though you could sustain it.

I know that sinking feeling when you begin to realise that it's not working, that the distance is a gap you can't bridge by phone or e-mail. And I know that this feeling has been building as the uncertainty grew, until the inevitable end happened yesterday.

I am so sorry hun. Especially if you still feel that he's a good match for you emotionally, this is very hard to take. I don't think this is going to feel better tomorrow, but I am hopeful that over time it will get better. In the meantime, you have the love and support of your Gnet family.

And I do know one little thing ... one little marvelous, wonderful thing. You are an amazing woman. You are bright and beautiful, and wise men will see that in the fullness of time. You will attract other attention ... and at some point, when it feels right, one of them will charm you. This I know, because I am so impressed with the voice I hear every time I read your posts.

TwistedKitsune · 03-23-2006, 10:02 AM

Ben thank you so much as well, your message was probably one of the most uplifting things I've ever read upon waking up (I hate that "Ooo, yay, morning guess I should hop online and see if ____ is still asleep or not and...oh...wait...I haven't a reason to do any of that ususal morning routine anymore..." feeling, right where you enter that state of vaguely numb shock over loosing someone, be it relationships ending, or otherwise). Your last paragraph includes some of the nicest things anyone's ever said about me, so again, thank you Ben.

It never ceases to amaze me how absolutely wonderful people here are. Everybody here on Gnet (obviously not including the recent troll invasion, ick...though the flames that resultied were often worth a good chuckle), all these people I barely know, tend to end up helping me and supporting me so much moreso even than friend's I've had for upwards of 6 years. On that note, thank you not only to Tenet and Ben, but to everyone else here as well, thank you for all your kind words and giggles and everything else you've given me since I found you all.

03-23-2006, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Jacks Girl

I'm not contemplating getting back with him at all, I mean even I'M not that stupid. I was just extremely annoyed and needed to vent some anger, thats what people seem to do in the 'rant thread'.

Well, in that case, I would avoid ending your rants with a question.

Stay away from him.

tenet_2012 · 03-23-2006, 06:59 PM

I wish I was back in Texas.

It is so fucking cold up here! I'm kind of depressed today. I hate the fucking cold!