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02-28-2012, 12:05 PM
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I fucking love Gatorade.
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All fifty seein' visions of me shot in the chest
Couldn't rest, nah nigga I was stressed
Had me creepin' 'round corners, homie sleepin' in my vest.
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02-28-2012, 12:48 PM
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#7002
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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I had kind of forgotten how awesome it is, especially strawberry kiwi.
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02-28-2012, 01:02 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2010
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Eh. I am partial to the flavors of blue.
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Woke up with fifty enemies plottin' my death
All fifty seein' visions of me shot in the chest
Couldn't rest, nah nigga I was stressed
Had me creepin' 'round corners, homie sleepin' in my vest.
-Breathin, Tupac.
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02-28-2012, 01:41 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Originally Posted by Grausamkeit
You make me smile, love! ^_^
MissC, I hope your day gets better. You need rest, hun.
Saya, I don't know what to say about your situation, hun. Extend your hand and see what happens. Then you won't live with that heart-wrenching regret of doing nothing. *hugz* I still harbor a lot of resentment toward my grandfather because his neglect was a huge factor in my Grandmother's decline before she died.
So, today I biked a few blocks and back(job hunting) and dammit am I out of shape!! I haven't been exercising since all the divorce crap started. I have free time until I find a job. Might as well get my lazy ass in gear. I've been losing weight because I have no appetite since my ex got the kids(all because of the length of time they've been in the autism program in Alvin). It sucks because it's not something I can fix. I'm not a bad mother and I don't have a drug problem that quitting would help raise my chances of having my kids. It's completely out of my power and makes me feel defeated. Fuck.
Peaches, give me some real world perspective on how much worse it is to live in a warzone. Please?
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I'm so sorry Graus I hope its just temporary!
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02-28-2012, 02:59 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2010
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Originally Posted by Grausamkeit
Peaches, give me some real world perspective on how much worse it is to live in a warzone. Please?
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So, if I understand correctly, you want me to relate something about my experience with people trying to murder me because it will make you feel better?
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Woke up with fifty enemies plottin' my death
All fifty seein' visions of me shot in the chest
Couldn't rest, nah nigga I was stressed
Had me creepin' 'round corners, homie sleepin' in my vest.
-Breathin, Tupac.
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02-28-2012, 04:59 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2010
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Grausamkeit
You make me smile, love! ^_^
MissC, I hope your day gets better. You need rest, hun.
Saya, I don't know what to say about your situation, hun. Extend your hand and see what happens. Then you won't live with that heart-wrenching regret of doing nothing. *hugz* I still harbor a lot of resentment toward my grandfather because his neglect was a huge factor in my Grandmother's decline before she died.
So, today I biked a few blocks and back(job hunting) and dammit am I out of shape!! I haven't been exercising since all the divorce crap started. I have free time until I find a job. Might as well get my lazy ass in gear. I've been losing weight because I have no appetite since my ex got the kids(all because of the length of time they've been in the autism program in Alvin). It sucks because it's not something I can fix. I'm not a bad mother and I don't have a drug problem that quitting would help raise my chances of having my kids. It's completely out of my power and makes me feel defeated. Fuck.
Peaches, give me some real world perspective on how much worse it is to live in a warzone. Please?
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Oh hun... super big hugs. Exercise will be good for you... get all those good endorphins flowing through your system. Keep you busy, and your mind off things (although you'll still be thinking about it).
Try and stay positive babe. What worked for me was to have a goal, something to work towards. Like hiking up a mountain or doing a marathon.
I found something the other day that i thought was totally awesome and that I should put on my bucket list..
A marathon in Antartica. Although it would be sweet to become one of the 7 continents marathon runners club - but first I need to get into shape.
My heros in time of hardship are Mawson - home of the blizzard and the book south - which is a book full of complete chance - both about Antartic explorers.
And if you can, let the resentment go, because you'll only hurt yourself.
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02-28-2012, 05:02 PM
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Texas
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Versus
So, if I understand correctly, you want me to relate something about my experience with people trying to murder me because it will make you feel better?
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Not to feel better. Just in a "quit whining, other people have it worse" kinda way. Sorry, if I caused offense, hun. I didn't mean that knowing people had tried to kill you would put a smile on my face. SometimesI just don't feel like I have a legit excuse to whine no matter how bad things get.
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02-28-2012, 05:45 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2010
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Grausamkeit
Not to feel better. Just in a "quit whining, other people have it worse" kinda way. Sorry, if I caused offense, hun. I didn't mean that knowing people had tried to kill you would put a smile on my face. SometimesI just don't feel like I have a legit excuse to whine no matter how bad things get.
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I was totally joking. Isn't that a relief? If that doesn't make you feel better, I don't know what will. XD
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Woke up with fifty enemies plottin' my death
All fifty seein' visions of me shot in the chest
Couldn't rest, nah nigga I was stressed
Had me creepin' 'round corners, homie sleepin' in my vest.
-Breathin, Tupac.
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02-28-2012, 06:13 PM
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Texas
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Goddamnit, Peaches! *shakes fist*
Thank you all for your thoughts. I guess it can't rain all the time.
*staples hand to forehead*
I do need to start biking more, Fru. I did get some good news earlier. I may be a shoe in for a waitress position at a local place. I just need to go down and get my TABC and print out the receipt as proof when I turn in my application tomorrow. I still have money in the bank from my ex splitting the income tax with me for just such necessities. Apparently the girl I know who works there is good friends with the owner and is willing to recommend me for hire. She says they make decent money there. 30 minutes after posting my whine I got some potentially good news.
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02-29-2012, 12:54 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: In your trash can
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Originally Posted by Grausamkeit
Goddamnit, Peaches! *shakes fist*
Thank you all for your thoughts. I guess it can't rain all the time.
*staples hand to forehead*
I do need to start biking more, Fru. I did get some good news earlier. I may be a shoe in for a waitress position at a local place. I just need to go down and get my TABC and print out the receipt as proof when I turn in my application tomorrow. I still have money in the bank from my ex splitting the income tax with me for just such necessities. Apparently the girl I know who works there is good friends with the owner and is willing to recommend me for hire. She says they make decent money there. 30 minutes after posting my whine I got some potentially good news.
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That's always the way babe....
Great news hun...xoxo...
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Fark! Spoke with a GF in general way about my past and had two days of fighting a PTSD trigger afterwards.
One day I'm going to write it all down and get it the fuck out of my head.
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03-01-2012, 01:10 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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I have two weddings to go to later in the year and I have to start looking for at least one dress that can be worn for both as I have nothing suitable to wear. I hate dress shopping, everything is either too long or too gaudy. I hate sequins, I fucking hate them.
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03-01-2012, 05:46 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
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I miss having a kitty and I know that I'm moving across the damn country in a couple of months (plus the pet deposit for my apartment is expensive, especially since it is non-refundable and would only be for three and a half months) so now isn't really the best time to get one, but I still really, really miss cats. I don't even have any friends around here who have cats, they're all dog people.
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03-01-2012, 06:05 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
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Okay I'm comforting/torturing myself by looking at kitties on petfinder, this is not healthy behavior.
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03-01-2012, 06:10 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Originally Posted by Solumina
Okay I'm comforting/torturing myself by looking at kitties on petfinder, this is not healthy behavior.
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This blog could either help or hinder your need for a feline friend:
http://catversushuman.blogspot.com/
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03-01-2012, 06:38 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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I love that blog so much, according to Jake I make "crazy cat lady" sounds (whatever that means) while reading it.
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03-02-2012, 04:16 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2010
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Originally Posted by Solumina
Okay I'm comforting/torturing myself by looking at kitties on petfinder, this is not healthy behavior.
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What about sponsoring a kitty at an adoption place?
MissC - I hate clothes shopping. You have my sympathies. Hope you can find something.
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03-02-2012, 04:28 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2009
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Thanks Batty. I'm starting my hunt early as I know it will take me forever to find something. I just hate all the sequins and feathers and stuff that seems to be put all over every dress I find. I know it will get to the point where I end up looking for something I can pick the sequins off, it's what usually happens. I don't understand why the people who design the dresses think everyone wants to look like a giant disco ball.
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03-02-2012, 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted by MissCheyenne
Thanks Batty. I'm starting my hunt early as I know it will take me forever to find something. I just hate all the sequins and feathers and stuff that seems to be put all over every dress I find. I know it will get to the point where I end up looking for something I can pick the sequins off, it's what usually happens. I don't understand why the people who design the dresses think everyone wants to look like a giant disco ball.
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I could help you find something. Though I'm not sure how keen you are about shopping for a wedding dress on the internet.
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Woke up with fifty enemies plottin' my death
All fifty seein' visions of me shot in the chest
Couldn't rest, nah nigga I was stressed
Had me creepin' 'round corners, homie sleepin' in my vest.
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03-02-2012, 05:10 AM
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It's a dress FOR a wedding not a wedding dress itself but thanks Big V. If you can find something, anything on the internet, link it my way, I'm willing to look anywhere right now. Oh yeah, Big V is your new name from now on. Deal with it.
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03-02-2012, 05:12 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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What kind of dress are you looking for? Budget range?
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03-02-2012, 05:18 AM
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Ideally I want something that won't make me look any fatter than I already am so no pencil dresses, nothing too clingy so no bodycon either. 'Prom dress' shape is probably the best bet, shows off my tatties and skims my hips so yeah, that kind of thing. Budget wise, I'm looking at up to £200, my budget is higher than it would normally be because it's one dress for mulitple events.
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03-02-2012, 05:20 AM
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I was thinking you'd look adorable in a swing dress! I was looking at People Tree but if you want something more formal and fancy, I'll look around, got nothing to do til class starts.
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03-02-2012, 05:22 AM
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It doesn't have to be overly formal or fancy, just......nice. I never really go anywhere that calls for 'nice' dresses so I just have a wardrobe full of fairly casual stuff.
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03-02-2012, 05:36 AM
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What size are you, if you don't mind me asking? I'm finding a lot of stuff that's cute but on pencil skinny models, would plus size sites be too much?
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03-02-2012, 05:51 AM
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I'm a uk 12, sometimes a 14 if the store cuts their sizes on the small side. I have an average sized chest, small waist and BIG hips which is why I'm not looking for anything tight or clingy. I had a quick look at People Tree and those swing dresses are cute
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