they found out?

[dreamforthedead]

And lungs.... yes cloves may be the way to go. Lets go celebrate and cut off our arms

[dreamforthedead]

'Death' is such a good thing to carve to. Plus you can practice at Christmas when you carve the turkey. Smileys are better, you feel that one for days.. Damn I shouldve included smileys on the list.

[dreamforthedead]

Thats what I meant, my friend did that to me about two years ago and I still have the scar. *mutters about how evil friend was*

[dreamforthedead]

Hahaha they are all evil... all of them I tell you... *joy* Im not a babygoth anymore, I feel proud.*sigh* still not as goth as Sorrow

[dreamforthedead]

Well nah *pokes tongue out* does it have to do with the number of posts or something??

[dreamforthedead]

PS. I would but Im over here, you're over there, and Im lazy

[ohthefuckwell]

Originally Posted by Xnguela

You can make a smiley face in your arm using a lighter. You heat up the metal part enough and press it into your arm and it looks like a happy face!

i did that when i was in hmmmm... 10th or 11th grade. i heated the thing for too long and then left it on my skin for quite a bit. the hole in the space-time continuum that can be caused by underage drinking is really quite remarkable.

i still have a faint scar above my right ankle because of it. i graduated in '93, so you do the math.

[dreamforthedead]

Hahah really? Thats um *thinks* almost 13 years? I dont know thinking hurts, Mines be on for a fair while., it hurt like hell but after she did it I gave it eyebrows.. WOW! I was sooo hardcore *shudders unvoluntarily*

[ohthefuckwell]

Originally Posted by Xnguela

My sister was born in '92, how does that make you feel?

if i didn't like you so much, i'd say, "screw you!" *hee*

[ohthefuckwell]

heh. nah, it's ok, sweets.


we went to this buffet place for lunch yesterday and they base the price of the child's meal on their age.

the guy looks to my son and says, "how old are you?"

he replied, "i'm 7!" and without missing a beat, nods toward me & points, saying, "and she's 30!"


the guy just ducked his head & snickered. as did all of the people behind us.


*sigh*

[dreamforthedead]

Hahaha I mean poor you...

[in the eyes of sorrow]

you can not tell me to go because you don't want me here. thats like me saying the same to you. id on't want to listen to your lies and your bullshit. and you dissin on my friends.
however
i'm not going to leave
that would show...oh how can we say it....
a weakness? i gave in? fuck that man.
ah though... i am a bit curious....
how can you tell me to leave. when your the one that intruded into here in a strance nice sense?
how grand
your a jackass!

[edible_eye]

Originally Posted by in the eyes of sorrow

ah though... i am a bit curious....
how can you tell me to leave. when your the one that intruded into here in a strance nice sense?
how grand

what?

seriously - what the fuck were you trying to say?

[edible_eye]

Originally Posted by British Psychiatrist

Ok ive been asked by a very close friend of mine to take a look at this chat forum, ive dealt very closely with alot of complex cases regarding this type of problem.

a few things come to mind here....

1.) cutting, in itself, is not necessarily a "problem" unless and until it is used to manipulate others around the one who cuts. for many, cutting helps to relieve stress and / or to help an individual deal with a real or perceived trauma at some point in the cutter's past. granted, it is not the most socially acceptable way to cope with one's life but as michael wagner puts it - "teething infants often bite their own hand to manage pain. cutting can be thought of at that developmental level." if you're not familiar with wagner's work - look him up.

2.) since we now know that you are in the eyes of sorrow's psychiatrist / psychologist / whatever, one must wonder the ethical implications of your actions here as well as referring to her as "a very close friend". there are a few people here employed within the medical profession, myself included. this post of yours is awkward at best, inappropriate at worst.

3.) this whole drama is rather pathetic. an attention whore cuts, screams at everyone who shows concern to get away from her, begs for someone to understand her and then, of all people, has her psychistrist (?) come to a website to defend her actions? the word "manipulation" blinks rather brightly with neon lights here in my mind. how about yours?

Originally Posted by british psychistrist

each case is different and can not be compaired to another with reasoning.

most cutting occurs for one simple reason - that of an individual learning to cope with an unsettling event or series of events. most people are not so deep or unique to qualify a statement such as the one you made.

Originally Posted by british psychiatrist

NIGHTFANG i would like to know your academic qualifications that tells not only myself but others on here that you are qualified to make such judgements and comments as you so have.

actually, you're the only one to pop in here and announce that you're a psychiatrist. perhaps you should display your own credentials to back up your contention. no one else pre-empted their statements using a title.

a funny thing about those in the mental health profession, much like judges and lawyers - you believe the education you've achieved and the title you hold makes you "right" no matter what you have to say. whether you wear it like a badge or utilize means more along the line of a passive-aggressive personality, mental health professionals by-and-large are not questioned by society in general, leading to an internal sense of vindication, regardless of what others think and feel.

Originally Posted by british psychiatrist

if anyone should require any help with a problem you are more than welcome to email my personal office at ****@***.*** and i am more than happy to help or answer questions concerning any problems that you feel you may have with self harm.

this, i'll take exception to. you display your title as a psychiatrist, however being that this is the internet, trolling for others to write to you raises an alarm. how do i know who you are? how does anyone here? you could just as easily be a pedophile seeking out troubled youth. i'm not saying you are, but without sufficient evidence, you're no more qualified than anyone else here to pass judgement. that's the way the world works and so, i'm deleting your e-mail address.

Originally Posted by british psychiatrist

Anyone that is qualified to make clear cut statements would not put them in statements such as NIGHTFANG's postings. Thank you all for your time. Dr P Thorne (Europe Group Psychiatry)

your opinion. thanx for posting it.

[horrorgirl]

Originally Posted by in the eyes of sorrow

you can not tell me to go because you don't want me here. thats like me saying the same to you. id on't want to listen to your lies and your bullshit. and you dissin on my friends.
however
i'm not going to leave
that would show...oh how can we say it....
a weakness? i gave in? fuck that man.
ah though... i am a bit curious....
how can you tell me to leave. when your the one that intruded into here in a strance nice sense?
how grand
your a jackass!

'dissin on my friends'

I smell a rumble just waiting to happen.*snickers*

[horrorgirl]

As we are fighting we can do goth dance moves. It can be a goth version of West Side Story.Peachy keen!!!

[horrorgirl]

Yep. Also the 'picking up the dime' dance. Some Bauhaus era Peter Murphy moves will also be included.

I have seen parts of that book and it looks pretty funny.

[horrorgirl]

Originally Posted by Xnguela

We could continue this on IM if you prefer, I have all of mine listed

<---

Right under my screen name. That way we won't clutter the boards with our derailment.

I really don't like IM that much. Plus, my boyfriend is sleeping in the room where I am typing.I'll wake him up if I do that. ;-)

[dreamforthedead]

Originally Posted by in the eyes of sorrow

you can not tell me to go because you don't want me here. thats like me saying the same to you. id on't want to listen to your lies and your bullshit. and you dissin on my friends.
however
i'm not going to leave
that would show...oh how can we say it....
a weakness? i gave in? fuck that man.
ah though... i am a bit curious....
how can you tell me to leave. when your the one that intruded into here in a strance nice sense?
how grand
your a jackass!

I know you are you said you are but what am I ? NAHNAHNAHNAHNAHNAH!! Let me be immature for a moment. Ahem.
Look at ME!! LOOK AT ME!! Im In the eyes of sorrow blahblahblah I have a FRIEND!! Too bad the shrink is one of the voices in my head... Im not getting any so I look at horsie porn on the internet (love that thread) Blahblah fucking blah. And yes, most of us are jackasses- its not our fault we were born that way, and I dont know about anyone else but Im a little sensitive about being a donkey so please dont call me one. I dont think that made much sense, oh well *hums annoyingly*

[dreamforthedead]

PS. I wish I was as gothicly tortured as sorrow..

[dreamforthedead]

She cant go cry to Mummy because shes pretending to care. Dont you see Santera? Sorrows parents love her... Its horrible, we should embrace her not throw her away. Where would she go? Probably papercut herself in her room, while watching Linkin Park dvds on her plasma screen tv whilst sitting on her double bed talking on the phone about how unfair life is to one of her goth friends... how cfan wee wish that upon anyone??

[dreamforthedead]

HAHA shes so hardcore that probably bury herself. As I said before her cuts are papercuts and she smokes freshly mown grass lol Oh this thread always makes me laugh

[dreamforthedead]

The same one she gouged her eyes out with... just for effect. Shed probably film it witha webcam and post the link so that we could all watch her incrediably gothicness

[devereaux]

Originally Posted by horrorgirl

As we are fighting we can do goth dance moves. It can be a goth version of West Side Story.Peachy keen!!!

While you're at it, you can throw in a "pop and lock"... The sheer irony of it will excite all the hipsters that might be following along with the action.

Originally Posted by Santarea

Leave here
Cut yourself
post it to HurtPussy.Org. they will give you the sympathy, attention, and cool points you are looking for.

HAHAHA, that made my day! I know I used this graphic once before....but its totally apt:

http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b3...master-400.jpg

Incineration!

[dreamforthedead]

Hahahaha nice picture you rule (???)