bi-sexual trend - Page 6

bjork_freak · 07-02-2007, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Graveyard.Crow

Because it IS an orientation just like gay or lesbian.

You're completely right.

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Originally Posted by the-broken-harlequin

Because not all of those lustful feelings are for the same/oppisite/both sex.
Some men can't stand the thought of fellatio with another man.
Was fellatio a bad example?

There's one example I always question though: A straight teenage boy or girl is watching heterosexual pornography. He or she is watching both genders sexually, and most likely arousal is kicking in, but he or she is still straight, right? I suppose this is a completely bad example, because I'm aware any form of sexual act will most likely arouse any teenager (I'm not making generalizations; I'm just stating that most human brains react the same way).

the-broken-harlequin · 07-02-2007, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by bjork_freak

....A straight teenage boy or girl...

Do they want to fight me?

Graveyard.Crow · 07-02-2007, 02:33 PM

Hmm
I suppose the porn example made a point. Hahaha and no one is doubting that teenagers are well...randy little twits (yes I do know that I am a teenager too)

the-broken-harlequin · 07-03-2007, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Graveyard.Crow

Hmm
I suppose the porn example made a point. Hahaha and no one is doubting that teenagers are well...randy little twits (yes I do know that I am a teenager too)

I absolutely agree.
If you go on teenage chatrooms nearly everyone is say such things as:
"lonely girl looking for a date"
"your sexy" ( You haven't even seen what the person looks like!)
" I want to bang someone"

Graveyard.Crow · 07-03-2007, 11:45 AM

THAT'S NOT WHAT THEY SAY. I went to a teenspot chat ones and all I heard was flooding of messages like "if you're white and sexxy press 666"
or "anyone wanna cyber press 7777"

heretoday_gonetomorrow · 07-03-2007, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

I am a woman, I love sex. HereToday, unless you had some trauma (which is none of my business and we'll leave it at that) which stopped you from liking sex, it's most likely your age, inexperience, or partner. It's ok that sex repulses you. But if it bothers you, try to logically find the source and work on it.

I know the problem...it's...something to do with not liking to feel weak, not wanting people to have control over me. I hate submission...I haven't really figured out why. I had a troubled childhood, so if I really wanted to figure it out, I'd probably have to do some looking into my past. I've had to do that for a different problem though, which wasn't fun, so I've just come to accept my view of sex. I'm sure someday I'll figure it out.

Underwater Ophelia · 07-03-2007, 02:03 PM

Those are generally bots or bored people.

Anyway, I think the whole idea of virtually everyone being bisexual is crap. No, they're not. Just because someone is curious about it, or even has had a sexual relationship with both genders, does not make them bisexual. Being truly bisexual is having no preference for men or women, you like them equally. More important, it's a consistent thing. You weren't straight your whole life until you met XYZ person. No. You're either straight and making an exception, or you're bisexual and you just didn't know it.

Underwater Ophelia · 07-03-2007, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by heretoday_gonetomorrow

I know the problem...it's...something to do with not liking to feel weak, not wanting people to have control over me. I hate submission...I haven't really figured out why. I had a troubled childhood, so if I really wanted to figure it out, I'd probably have to do some looking into my past. I've had to do that for a different problem though, which wasn't fun, so I've just come to accept my view of sex. I'm sure someday I'll figure it out.

The idea of sex making you feel weak is a whole different issue, too. Sex should not make you feel weak (unless that's your kink, and you go back to normal after), but should make you feel strong and more knowlageable about yourself.

Just get on top. :P

heretoday_gonetomorrow · 07-03-2007, 02:16 PM

lol Good suggestion Underwater Ophelia!

Graveyard.Crow · 07-05-2007, 01:31 PM

LOL just get on top
RAWR

Underwater Ophelia · 07-05-2007, 01:36 PM

I should teach a class--Bedroom Confidence: Stripping, Sucking, And Getting on Top to Make Your Man Happy and Show Him You're a Goddess. Hells yeah.

heretoday_gonetomorrow · 07-05-2007, 04:04 PM

I'm joining Underwater Ophelia!!! Oh yeah! Underwater Ophelia is going to make me a beast in the bedroom!!! WHOOT WHOOT!

Lapin · 07-05-2007, 04:40 PM

Here Today, you are far too young to be thinking of having sex! Go to your room!

Graveyard.Crow · 07-05-2007, 06:07 PM

I'll join the class XD

prophecyofdoom · 07-05-2007, 07:45 PM

heretoday, you needn't have sexual relationships at the tender age of sixteen if you're not comfortable with it. I know girls who would never have sex with their boyfriend in their teens but in their twenties felt differently. Thinking back to my high school days, their boyfriends were the horniest of teenage boys but they respected their girlfriends decision to wait. By the time you're thirty, your attitude towards sex will most likely have naturally evolved. There are a small percentage of the population who are "asexual" that you can look up if it dosen't..... I personally don't understand why anyone wouldn't like sex.... Even if you don't feel "horny" for it, it's so nice to be that close to someone. (It can also be quite entertaining to observe the facial expressions a person makes whilst in the throes of passion.) Wait until you find someone you feel comfortable with, someone you don't feel submissive to.... Wait until you have a relationship where you feel like you're both on equal footing. Maybe look for someone less experienced than yourself? Many men are turned on by a woman who's the dominant one in the bedroom, in time you'll get to know what works for you sexually and you can just jump in and take the lead.

Graveyard.Crow · 07-06-2007, 12:23 AM

Absolutly right. However there are people who don't like sex for example if it brings back bad memories (****, abuse etc)
That's not why is it? Heretoday?

Corpsey · 07-06-2007, 03:14 AM

To go back to the original topic...Tempoarily...

Indeed, I doubt there are a lot of true bi-sexuals out there... I know a few that I've met in person and a few over the internet, and they seem to be true enough to not be the type of people to fake it in order to get off because they're getting some attention, but a couple I've met in life I've alwasys wondered, "What if it's all just a play for attention?". I never really got to know some of them very well but I'm getting to know a certain girl at course better and she does not seem like one to stage it out... just ludicrously horny. But overall, I hear and at most parties see girl on girl actions just to get some guys knickers twisted enough to go for one of those girls.

To whomever wrote something about guys hating the thought of guys having fellatio on them ( I can't find the quote and can't be bothered going backwards): YES! I hate the thought of giving or recieving anything like that! Ugh, the mere concept of it feels waaaaaay too submissive for my liking; to recieve it would be too wrong for me and to give it would be degenerate. I have had to act out one such a scene at course where I was giving and merely being in that position had a profound affect on me that I felt disturbed to be in such a situation, even in acting. I probably wouldn't even like it from a woman, it's putting someone else in a vunerable position and I'm not the type to put someone in such a situation.

Fellatio. Ugh. I'll stick to something more reciprocal.

Underwater Ophelia · 07-06-2007, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Corpsey

To go back to the original topic...Tempoarily...

Indeed, I doubt there are a lot of true bi-sexuals out there... I know a few that I've met in person and a few over the internet, and they seem to be true enough to not be the type of people to fake it in order to get off because they're getting some attention, but a couple I've met in life I've alwasys wondered, "What if it's all just a play for attention?". I never really got to know some of them very well but I'm getting to know a certain girl at course better and she does not seem like one to stage it out... just ludicrously horny. But overall, I hear and at most parties see girl on girl actions just to get some guys knickers twisted enough to go for one of those girls.

To whomever wrote something about guys hating the thought of guys having fellatio on them ( I can't find the quote and can't be bothered going backwards): YES! I hate the thought of giving or recieving anything like that! Ugh, the mere concept of it feels waaaaaay too submissive for my liking; to recieve it would be too wrong for me and to give it would be degenerate. I have had to act out one such a scene at course where I was giving and merely being in that position had a profound affect on me that I felt disturbed to be in such a situation, even in acting. I probably wouldn't even like it from a woman, it's putting someone else in a vunerable position and I'm not the type to put someone in such a situation.

Fellatio. Ugh. I'll stick to something more reciprocal.

Honestly, I love giving my boyfriend head. When I give him head, it isn't anything like being "owned" or "submitting" to anything. It's because it feels good, and I love him, so I like to make him feel good. For him, it has nothing to do with making me feel powerless, as he's much more incapacitated than I am anyway.

And the whole "reciprocal" thing is kinda selfish anyway--you shouldn't keep score in the bedroom.

Corpsey · 07-06-2007, 02:34 PM

Heh heh.... Nopes I certainly don't keep tabs of what goes on in the bed, I'd just prefer to participate in something where I would know that both people are truely getting stimulation. I understand what you mean by enjoying it.

the-broken-harlequin · 07-14-2007, 01:34 PM

Hehehe... oral sex.

Almost everyone I know goes around declaring that they are bisexual when If asked in real life they admit that they are heterosexual.