Most forums do not want you to whine, but apparently that is OK here - Page 6

Signe · 01-07-2008, 02:14 PM

Well, I did not do anything bad and I did not use any bad grammar, beyond the everyday simple chat board language... ...I mean, it is not like I am writing a novel. No, I do not at all give out a message of being spoiled or anything, I am so extremely depressed I keep writing it down over and over. I do not know what to do. Anyway, if anybody mocks me in any way my first instinct is "smash their head into the wall"

Underwater Ophelia · 01-07-2008, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Signe

Well, I did not do anything bad and I did not use any bad grammar, beyond the everyday simple chat board language... ...I mean, it is not like I am writing a novel. No, I do not at all give out a message of being spoiled or anything, I am so extremely depressed I keep writing it down over and over. I do not know what to do. Anyway, if anybody mocks me in any way my first instinct is "smash their head into the wall"

Not only is that NOT going to get you anywhere in real life, this is THE FUCKING INTERNET.

HAHA, I'M MOCKING YOU.
What are you going to do about it?
Nothing.

Instead of complaining about your problems and how no one loves you, why not be a good person so someone does love you?
To get love, or respect, or kindness, you have to give it as well.

MollyMac · 01-07-2008, 04:07 PM

No shit.

You don't need us. You need your own blog site.

That way, no one will read it.

HumanePain · 01-07-2008, 04:17 PM

I would just like to remind everyone that last year a 16 year old girl did kill herself over cruel things said to her over the internet. Those of us who are post teen should perhaps try developing and exercising some patience with this young one.

Just my 2 cents worth.

Underwater Ophelia · 01-07-2008, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by HumanePain

I would just like to remind everyone that last year a 16 year old girl did kill herself over cruel things said to her over the internet. Those of us who are post teen should perhaps try developing and exercising some patience with this young one.

Just my 2 cents worth.

I can only speak for myself concretely, but a lot of us were VERY patient, and a few of us (myself included) were even sweet to her.

I'm not going to be nice to someone who's just an asshole who very clearly only wants to fight.

Solumina · 01-07-2008, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Signe

Well, I did not do anything bad and I did not use any bad grammar, beyond the everyday simple chat board language...

You clearly have not spent much time looking around these boards. I do not wish to be crule to you in any way but I really don't think that you are a good fit for this board.

Rorschach Twin · 01-07-2008, 06:30 PM

When are people going to realize that the gothic subculture as a whole is more about horror than emotion?

MollyMac · 01-07-2008, 06:35 PM

i totally emote horror.

HP- that whole thang erupted across the river from me. In truth, it was less internet bullying and more reali life crap that bled onto the net. it was not just the myspace hoax taht led to her death, it was the outside influence of her friends and treatment at school and many of her "friends" in reali life were in on it

But anyone lookin gto a public forum that is not liscensed or bonded as an official help site or virtual group therapy is fooling themselves. I am down with being helpful, but get real- how many OCD, ADD/ADHD, M/D (Bi-Polar), psycho/sociopaths do you thin k are actaully on this board versus those who claim for attention or self diagnose?

Signe · 01-08-2008, 07:43 AM

I did not come her to get therapy or attention, I am a depressed, paranoid, abused, despairing individual whos only outlet is to find people online to talk to about it. I did not ask to be mocked, of course there is no place where I "fit in", I am an extreme eccentric, so I go where I go and try to make the best of it and this seemed to be a good place, as I am goth. Anyway, you can not have serious discussions about real despair, then do not enter one to mock it, go fuck yourseleves!

IsolatedReptile · 01-08-2008, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Signe

I did not come her to get therapy or attention, I am a depressed, paranoid, abused, despairing individual whos only outlet is to find people online to talk to about it. I did not ask to be mocked, of course there is no place where I "fit in", I am an extreme eccentric, so I go where I go and try to make the best of it and this seemed to be a good place, as I am goth. Anyway, you can not have serious discussions about real despair, then do not enter one to mock it, go fuck yourseleves!

You know, if you really hated how you were treated here, you could just leave.

badteccy · 01-08-2008, 08:20 AM

Lol, thread of the century.
And MollyMac, let's be friends.

badteccy · 01-08-2008, 08:26 AM

And on one more note...so many internet attention whore cliches...I feel as if my brain will explode.
Sure, sure Signe..you're unique alright.
Uniquely retarded...OH BURN!

IsolatedReptile · 01-08-2008, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Signe

I did not come her to get therapy or attention, I am a depressed, paranoid, abused, despairing individual whos only outlet is to find people online to talk to about it. I did not ask to be mocked, of course there is no place where I "fit in", I am an extreme eccentric, so I go where I go and try to make the best of it and this seemed to be a good place, as I am goth. Anyway, you can not have serious discussions about real despair, then do not enter one to mock it, go fuck yourseleves!

I noticed you cut it down from about ten pages to one paragraph.

MariusCesar · 01-08-2008, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Signe

First of all, I can mention that you all disgust me, I hate people who question my honesty and accuracy.

You will get opposition when ever ANYONE offers their opinion. It's natural to discourse. There is NOTHING wrong with disagreement or confirming. As a matter of fact, disagreement is what makes communication so great. We can discuss a topic, disagree and have food for thought. The utopia I think you are digging for is a pipe dream and certainly not condusive towards knowledge. From what you are conveying, you'd prefer everyone just to say I believe "this" and then drop out of the topic - except to agree. If no one challenges anything, no one will discover why someone may believe what they believe. No supporting evidence/reasoning, gives an opinion no merit.

Challenge is the path of discovery.

MollyMac · 01-08-2008, 07:39 PM

I often wonder about people who hate having their honesty and accuracy threatened- it usually means that they lie and don't do research.

And Teccy, I thought we were friends. Or Boody-buddies.

HumanePain · 01-08-2008, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

I can only speak for myself concretely, but a lot of us were VERY patient, and a few of us (myself included) were even sweet to her...

Yeah, I have since become more observant of her behavior and of the core personality that the behavior reveals inside. (Sigh)

She may grow out of it in a few years.

Apathy's_Child · 01-09-2008, 01:29 PM

After reading your original post, I'm amazed at how your sense of self-worth has shot up since people started insulting instead of consoling you. I mean, now, instead of "I'm repulsive and worthless", you're saying life-affirming things like "I am eccentric, intelligent, open-minded and loving."

Gothic.net....... they come for the promise of fellow dark-minded cutters, but they stay for the tough love. Apparently the people here have helped you a lot.

Signe · 01-09-2008, 01:39 PM

I said end of discussion, so go fuck yourselves somewhere else, my little sweeties.

=ô.ô=
(ww)~

Apathy's_Child · 01-09-2008, 01:56 PM

See? The joys of the confidence that self-esteem brings! Now, not only do you no longer feel the powerlessness of self-hatred, you actually feel empowered enough to believe that your mere say-so can end this well-deserved mocking.

On behalf of the site: you're welcome.

HumanePain · 01-09-2008, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child

After reading your original post, I'm amazed at how your sense of self-worth has shot up since people started insulting instead of consoling you. I mean, now, instead of "I'm repulsive and worthless", you're saying life-affirming things like "I am eccentric, intelligent, open-minded and loving."

Gothic.net....... they come for the promise of fellow dark-minded cutters, but they stay for the tough love. Apparently the people here have helped you a lot.

Shrewd observation! By Jove I think you're right! Her self oriented comments have changed.