Sexuality - Page 83

DarkIce · 04-28-2006, 12:23 PM

Vasectomy. That´s it!
Well. Tenet, do you know someone who already DID reverse it? I mean, I wonder if all, you know, is functional afterwards :-)
My friend is in his early 30s and might plan to have children (with his younger girlfriend) a bit later...

Oubliette · 04-29-2006, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by angel011

Oubliette, you don't mind having sex with a guy who would, by having sex with you, cheat on his wife? Please don't get me wrong, I'm not judging you or anything, I'm just curious.

Well his wife apparently doesn't care, aside from wanting him to be safe, which is ALWAYS a must in my book. But I'm also not that niave(sp?), I don't think she doesn't care, even if she does say it. My guy and I never went through with it, even when we watched porn, we both came to the realization that we don't want to betray the wifey like that. I like her too, and I'm attracted to her. SO it's a no go as far as I can tell at this point. I think the friend realizes this too, because even watching porn side by side neither one of us made a move. I'd feel completely different about it if the sexy wife was there too. He's staying with us next week as well because he's working down our end of the Cape and needs to save on gas.

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Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

I envy you Oubi... that's fucking hawt as hell.

it is hot as hell when you find the right people, but it can make or break a relationship and can be difficult to orchestrate.

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Originally Posted by DarkIce

Oubliette. I know what kind of trouble you´re into. I do have the same kind of problem (not going into details here, send me a PM if you like).
My solution is simple: don´t ever do it!
Let friends be friends. Especially if you don´t want to hurt the relationship of your boyfriend and his best friend.

As I told Sanctus, it can make or break a relationship, it's a delicate lifestyle that requires a lot of communication and honesty as well as compassion for your one true lover. I agree that's probably not good to change the nature of this friendship by doing it. The friendship you have with a "playmate" is different entirely, and not nearly as sacred as a friendship that doesn't involve sex.

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Originally Posted by tenet_2012

I say be safe and go for it... if, like you said, it happens naturally.

You only live once.

But be safe about it.

No glove, no love.

Oubliette · 04-29-2006, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Morrigan_Dubh

I don't think I could ever do a threesome, not with someone I love, although I happily fantasize about it. I'm just to damn jealous and insecure. even if it was two guys and me I'd be worried about my guy being more into the other guy than me, even though he's straight. Yes, I am that insecure...

It's probably best left to fantasy then.

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Originally Posted by angel011

And there would also be the question why would your guy accept to share you with anyone.

^ most frequently asked question by those who aren't into it. It's actually brought us closer, and I share him too. It's about a mutual freakishness that we both enjoy exploring together. We NEVER go out and do it by ourselves, it's strictly a couple activity.

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Originally Posted by Blushing Heliophobe

Different people place different boundaries on their relationships...I myself would find it impossible to share my Manwich but everybody's different.

Different strokes for different folks, and if Oubliette and her man have a chance for streamin' hot action that's acceptable for both of them, more power to 'em, I say!

This beautiful lady knows the score.

WolfMoon · 04-30-2006, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Blushing Heliophobe

I'm too shy to actually do it, but being a stripper has always been a fantasy of mine.

Me too!

And ever since Xng posted that link with the stripper shoes I've wanted to even more. As I've said before: I'd buy a pair of the clear platforms with the flame heels and dance to Fire woman by The Cult.

Wound up can't sleep, can't do anything right lil honey since I set my eyes on you....

Doubi, you're absolutely right. It does take a lot of communication and the lifestyle is certainly not for everyone.

Ben Lahnger · 04-30-2006, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfMoon

Me too!

And ever since Xng posted that link with the stripper shoes I've wanted to even more. As I've said before: I'd buy a pair of the clear platforms with the flame heels and dance to Fire woman by The Cult.

Hot Damn, woman!

Wolfie, every time I think there is nothing more you can do to make yourself seem hotter, you say things like this. Holy fuck! Clear platform flame decorated heels, beautiful boobies and such a lustful attitude as to make a man weak in the knees!

I haven't had much interest in going to strip clubs in a long time, but that is a show that would inspire me to come. Er ... attend ... oh, you know what I mean!

04-30-2006, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfMoon

Me too!

And ever since Xng posted that link with the stripper shoes I've wanted to even more. As I've said before: I'd buy a pair of the clear platforms with the flame heels and dance to Fire woman by The Cult.

Wound up can't sleep, can't do anything right lil honey since I set my eyes on you....

You know I do plan on going to Houston again.......

I have that page bookmarked. I have my eyes set on a pair of pink and black knee high boots. Oh yeah.

05-01-2006, 02:59 AM

You know, Houston is about four hours away from me...when i'm home, not me right now...nevermind you get the idea.

Blushing Heliophobe · 05-01-2006, 03:03 AM

So, just for shits and giggles, I have a 'Ask Miss Manners' Sexuality question.

A week ago I was talking with a friend of mine about our sex lives and apparently we are both allergic to KY. Well, I found out the hard way that I am, so I order AstroGlide from the States. Her symptoms sounded just like mine, so I told her about my allergy so she decided to look into it. It puts their sex life on hold until she can get some ordered from the States.

A thought occured to me and the mr when we were talking about it later - would it be too weird to offer them one of our numerous bottles (hey they don't carry it here so we have to stock up), or would that be just too kinky? As in, hey thanks for being my friend - here's a bottle of lube!!!

What do you guys think?

DarkIce · 05-01-2006, 03:14 AM

BH. Depends on how good friends you are, I guess. If she´s looked deeper into the allergic reaction (maybe consulted medical help) and it´s clear for her that she´s got to choose another sort of lube - then maybe (if you´re good friends) you should talk with her. Be sure to make a nice parcel (how about her birthday?).

Sanctus Dei · 05-01-2006, 04:35 AM

I honestly think I'd appreciate the gesture if it were me Helio...Just bring a bottle with you hen next time you see her and say "I'm not sure if you've ordered the product yet but I have quite a bit, I imagine if your a bit like me you could use it sooner then later... so I thought I'd bring you a bottle! I'm sure she'd be happy you thought to help her out I mean it IS a time of need isn't it?

Speaking of strippers... My boy and I are planing to purchase a stripper pole for our new place (how tacky eh??) I actually can't wait, I hear it's great excercise and the entertainment value is way worth the cost.

Blushing Heliophobe · 05-01-2006, 05:08 AM

I don't feel like such a kinky weirdo anymore.

Gee, thanks guys. LOL.

A stripper pole? That is so awesome! How much is it costing you? That's about one of the best gifts that will keep on giving that I can think of.

Now you've got me thinking...I've got something new to add to my wish list.

Also, it gives you a good excuse to buy alotta sexzie boots and outfits....

Sanctus Dei · 05-01-2006, 05:29 AM

Cost of the pole...Only around $300, technically $350-$375 after taxes and shipping I'd imagine. And yes, outfits and boots are a must!

Blushing Heliophobe · 05-01-2006, 05:37 AM

Hmmm... I'm already thinking of interesting ways to beg for this.

"To go to the Strip Club, it costs you cover, and drinks, and for each lap dance you have to tip the stripper. It can be a costly outing. You have to deal with crowds, and you can't have sex with the stripper anyways. Does that make sense? Of course not!

But...if you buy me my very own super special stripper pole for $300 plus shipping and handling, I can strip every night for you. You do not have to tip me. I will give you undivided attention. Plus, a regular stripper won't have sex with you. I will. For free.

Pretty please with sugar on top can I have one? You will be rewarded."

How's that for a rough draft =^^=

Cambodian Breakfast · 05-01-2006, 07:53 AM

I don't think so. ;-)

Cambodian Breakfast · 05-01-2006, 07:55 AM

WAIT! What the fuck was it thinking. Hells Fucking hey!

WolfMoon · 05-01-2006, 09:39 AM

I think CB is going to be a very happy man.

Sanctus, hows about some strippin' vids when the pole arrives?

*wicked grin*

AS for the rest of you, I can promise plenty of entertainment. I aim to please. Even if it only pleases, me.

Blushing Heliophobe · 05-01-2006, 11:16 PM

Does that mean more pictures?!?

Sanctus Dei · 05-02-2006, 04:38 AM

Hmm.. Stripper video... *wicked wicked wicked grin* Wolfie, you're an inspiration.

Cambodian Breakfast · 05-02-2006, 02:04 PM

I am a very happy man. I love my life, and wife. :-)

05-02-2006, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

Hmm.. Stripper video... *wicked wicked wicked grin* Wolfie, you're an inspiration.

Can we make one together? And Foxy too!?

05-02-2006, 11:19 PM

Queffs.

Discuss.

Blushing Heliophobe · 05-02-2006, 11:24 PM

They make me laugh. That's why you have to save doggy for last, unless you can fuck and laugh at the same time.

It's also fun to call people 'queef's.

05-02-2006, 11:28 PM

Maybe you have a sinus queef?

05-02-2006, 11:39 PM

Wait, isn't that just a sneeze?

Ben Lahnger · 05-03-2006, 03:19 AM

Well, I was reading along and thinking "Damn, I need to not read this thread just before I'm getting ready for work!" Then I hit the posts about "queefs" and suddenly ... not so much. Hah!

BH, the fact that you've talked with her about as much as you have already tells me she will probably be receptive to it. I would make the offer, and I bet she will be highly receptive of it.

Santus, your boi is a very lucky, lucky guy. I bet you "fiddy" dollars that he doesn't say no! Ha ha ha! (I have to laugh so I don't cry from jealousy. I want a girlfriend that wants a stripper pole!)

Wolfie, Oh, I feel pretty confident thinking you wouldn't be the only one entertained ... or pleased. Videos? ... Oh my! *drools ... then picks tongue back up*

Geisha, good to see you back, hawtness. You've been missed.