Sexual Orientation. - Page 7

JCC · 08-07-2008, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Darkprincess772

im bisexual,anyone have any tips on how to tell my mom that?

Eh, just straight out tell her, but I don't see why you have to. I would tell if someone asked, I have before, but I don't parade it around like it's a dirty habit everyone should be aghast at.

Onyx Nightshade · 08-07-2008, 11:04 AM

I'm going with bi. I'm either attracted to really masculine men or really feminine women. It usually depends on whether I feel like being the dominant or the submissive one.

Underwater Ophelia · 08-07-2008, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Onyx Nightshade

I'm going with bi. I'm either attracted to really masculine men or really feminine women. It usually depends on whether I feel like being the dominant or the submissive one.

That's a trend I tend to follow as well.

kikrox · 08-07-2008, 10:47 PM

sorry, i only make love to zombies.

Wingweaver_The_Vampire · 08-19-2008, 10:20 AM

Ok... Felt like reviving this thread cz there are lots of new members. I'm bisexual, just on one side more than the other. (won't tell which

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$haDe · 08-21-2008, 06:48 AM

Well, As u revived this I have to replied to make this resurrection worth something

I'm uke !!!

Wingweaver_The_Vampire · 08-21-2008, 10:15 AM

what does that mean?

Sir Canvas Corpsey · 08-21-2008, 02:00 PM

It means he's a bottom, the submissive one.

Considering your age wingweaver, I wouldn't say you were bisexual, more likely just exploring new things is all, but either way, good on you for being true to how you feel at this time.

alyroi360 · 08-21-2008, 02:21 PM

I'm strait. I don't like the by peoples that parade around saying that they're by all the time, when you know that they're doing it to pick up chicks, and they act like the oposite gender, and they have no gf/bf because nobody wants to date them, they're just too psycho. (btw, the guy I'm talking about carved this girl's name into his leg just to say "hey, I cut myself for you." later that year, he tattooed a pentagram (himself) onto his shoulder. He tried to hug me once, and I bit him... I have no other self-defense, lol.)

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 08-21-2008, 02:34 PM

I look at it this way for me.

I am a lesbian, but I am also attracted to Christian.

So I am a Christian-as-a-boy-only-lesbian.

alyroi360 · 08-21-2008, 02:35 PM

What????????????????

Solumina · 08-21-2008, 03:24 PM

I think she is saying that she has only ever been attracted to one guy, other than him she is attracted to women

I'm bi, with the possibility of being pan, I have been attracted to someone who falls outside of m/f gender identities but that could just be because I haven't met the right person

Saya · 08-21-2008, 03:25 PM

I've heard of girls doing that, being gay but then meeting one boy they like. Also straight girls who fall in love with one girl, and still don't consider themselves lesbians.

I myself dunno exactly what I am, have had girl crushes but nothing ever worked out, I like girls but dunno if I could keep up a relationship with one. I like boys but I find its hard to find one who is open with his feelings and not a clingy whiner at the same time.

alyroi360 · 08-21-2008, 04:03 PM

hmmmmmmmmm..... my dog just got fixed today. she's so miserable... I feel really bad because she's making all kinds of terrible pants and whimpers, and I feel terrible...

TheBloodEternity · 08-21-2008, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Saya

I myself dunno exactly what I am, have had girl crushes but nothing ever worked out, I like girls but dunno if I could keep up a relationship with one. I like boys but I find its hard to find one who is open with his feelings and not a clingy whiner at the same time.

Exactly...!

Doesn't really have much to do with you're actual sexual orientation though.
I'd fuck a chick, but probably couldn't keep a relationship going.

JCC · 08-21-2008, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Saya

I've heard of girls doing that, being gay but then meeting one boy they like. Also straight girls who fall in love with one girl, and still don't consider themselves lesbians.

I myself dunno exactly what I am, have had girl crushes but nothing ever worked out, I like girls but dunno if I could keep up a relationship with one. I like boys but I find its hard to find one who is open with his feelings and not a clingy whiner at the same time.

Let's go over something fundamental here:

Relationships and sexuality are completely unrelated. If you want to fuck women, it doesn't matter if you've never met one you love. You're sexually attracted to women, that affects your sexuality. If I fall in love with a man, this doesn't make me homosexual or bisexual. This means I'm in love with a man. If, however, I am in love with a man and am actively sexually attracted to him, that's different.

Saya · 08-21-2008, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by JCC

Let's go over something fundamental here:

Relationships and sexuality are completely unrelated. If you want to fuck women, it doesn't matter if you've never met one you love. You're sexually attracted to women, that affects your sexuality. If I fall in love with a man, this doesn't make me homosexual or bisexual. This means I'm in love with a man. If, however, I am in love with a man and am actively sexually attracted to him, that's different.

The two are intertwined to me. I wouldn't be able to fuck anyone I wasn't in a relationship with. I can't say I'm exactly asexual, either, but I only find I'm lusty for someone once I've dated them for a bit. See how I get confused?

TheBloodEternity · 08-21-2008, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Saya

The two are intertwined to me. I wouldn't be able to fuck anyone I wasn't in a relationship with. I can't say I'm exactly asexual, either, but I only find I'm lusty for someone once I've dated them for a bit. See how I get confused?

I used to be exactly like that, but I've started to become sexually attracted to people just on the basis of them being attractive lately.

Saya · 08-21-2008, 04:30 PM

My friends used to push guys on me all the time and got mad with me, and said I was asexual, until I met my first boyfriend (which was last year, I'm a late bloomer ^_^). I guess its weird that I was 20 and never wanted anyone before, but thats just how it is.

MitsyMayhem · 08-21-2008, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sir Canvas Corpsey

It means he's a bottom, the submissive one.

Considering your age wingweaver, I wouldn't say you were bisexual, more likely just exploring new things is all, but either way, good on you for being true to how you feel at this time.

Agreed .Congrats for not trying to hide those feelings.
I struggled for about half a year until a girl came up and told me she loved me.
That was all it took for me to snap out of moping about my sexuality.

3lackrose · 08-21-2008, 06:11 PM

Mmm... straight until now but open minded.

Deadmanwalking_05 · 08-21-2008, 06:20 PM

I'm not a goth but I'm straight.

alyroi360 · 08-21-2008, 06:39 PM

I'm mostly goth, I guess. If you like labels. I'm more of a modernized goth/pirate/hippie. I dunno, deadman...

badteccy · 08-21-2008, 06:42 PM

Actually, come to think of it...I think most people are bisexual...

alyroi360 · 08-21-2008, 06:47 PM

that makes sense. back in the days of the romans, being by was normal, so then being strait was considered just as strange as being gay... so then... DUDE!! RIGHTIOUS!!!