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Old 03-03-2007, 04:14 AM   #26
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I wouldn't call someone who dresses differently a rebel - I mean, a rebel would want to change something right? And noone cares exept their own parents if they change their way of dressing. There are very active rebels today, however, and they are called terrorists.

I agree with almost nothing in todays society, but I know that it's not gonna change because I dress "wierd."
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Old 03-03-2007, 11:28 AM   #27
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That's why I am angry at those people dear
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Old 03-03-2007, 12:02 PM   #28
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ah.....such is life.....
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Old 03-03-2007, 01:24 PM   #29
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huh????????
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Old 03-04-2007, 09:56 PM   #30
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Labels help us identify what's in the tin. Wouldnt want to open one thinking it was peaches, only to find sardines. Right?
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Old 04-07-2007, 01:19 AM   #31
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Old 04-07-2007, 06:54 AM   #32
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My sister watches "Big Brother". On re-runs.
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Old 04-07-2007, 07:49 AM   #33
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What is with all the "rebellion" why is everyone trying to be "original" and whining about how people "label" them. Everywhere I go all I hear these days is kids in dripping eyeliner shouting about freedon of expression and how they will do what they want and say what they want to say. I try to solve things peacefully but sometimes I just want to beat the hell out of them so they finally have real problems.
Maybe those people should visit Africa and see what real problems look like. But I guess that's not rebellious enough.
They're just bored. Wouldn't you be if you grew up in The Most Boring Town Ever, USA?
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Old 04-07-2007, 09:15 AM   #34
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I AM NOT A CAN OF SOUP!!!!

That being said (and of course in the most joking of meanings)......

Labeling is a necessary evil. It helps us get the words out of our mouths when describing everything from the type of parsley to the ethnicity of the individual, but at the same time- that labeling can and has been abused by less educated and malicious individuals.

"Homo" (imo) is a perfectly ok term to describe a person who leads that kind of life style. Saying "homosexual" can become a mouthful after a while.

Same with the word "gay." Though saying that you're friend is "gay" because they said or did something that you think is uncool is pushing it.

"Breeder" can be another word for "stud" in the animal world, but when applied to humans you can see how even though by definition the word still kind of properly applies- it's nothing but hurtful and demeaning.

So again-

Labeling= necessary evil.
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Old 04-07-2007, 09:18 AM   #35
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Really, you think "homo" is OK? I'm a conservative for the most part and I find it to be a bit harsh....
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Old 04-07-2007, 09:21 AM   #36
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Well- granted there ARE many other more appropriate words out there, but as most people get defensive when you call them on something.....

Also- for the most part- I'm pretty middle of the road/teetering more towards liberal.
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Old 04-07-2007, 09:28 AM   #37
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I just try not to refer to someone by their sexual preference unless I'm close enough to them to joke around with them. I have a friend who makes fun of me for being black, and she's just kidding around or whatever, and I tell her things like she's one of the wimpiest lez's I've ever met, or make fun of her because I know she secretly likes guys. Only under circumstances like that would I use those terms.
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Old 04-07-2007, 09:44 AM   #38
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It's also very much about tone.

I can say, "Yeah, Rachel's a homo", and mean a plethora of different things depending on my tone and the context of the sentence. To me, that means that "homo" is still one of those in-between words. However, I probably wouldn't call someone a homo without knowing them, whereas I might say that someone's gay or lesbian without knowing them personally.
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Old 04-07-2007, 11:09 AM   #39
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Homo is an epithet, not a label.
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Old 04-07-2007, 11:12 AM   #40
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Homo is an epithet, not a label.
What would you say is the difference between an epithet and a label?

I think it's subtle at best.
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Old 04-07-2007, 05:39 PM   #41
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I kind of see an epithet as being of a negative connotation whereas a label is neutral.
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Old 04-07-2007, 07:15 PM   #42
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What's with all this "breathing"? This "living"? This "life"? This "SHITTING"? This "bein' nice"? This "love"? This "moral"? This "society"? This "conformity"? This "people"? This "kindness"? This "being open minded"? This "d00dness"? eh?

The hell mon.
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