life.

Heatherzilla · 03-26-2007, 12:16 AM

Gah. Why oh why did my brain decide it was a good idea to get a major crush on one of my friends who just happens to be straight. It sucks wanting something and knowing you can't have it.

. It's putting me in a foul mood which is just serving to further annoy me. I should just get over it already and move on. Not to mention the fact that my friends have been majorly annoying and were asking me continually during IT who I had the hots for. sigh. Being a teenager sucks sometimes.

KontanKarite · 03-26-2007, 12:37 AM

Go figure, eh?

I've only ever had a slight crush on some of my straight friends. Oddly enough, there's really only one guy I honestly know I'd ever be interested in having a relationship with... and he wont talk to me. Ever. I guess I'm not gay enough or something. What irks me is how I keep dating girls just cause it's "safe".

Not to say girls aren't capable of being dangerous, but after what happened to me in Italy, I think some might understand my reasoning for this.

Graveyard.Crow · 03-26-2007, 04:51 PM

All the good ones are gay *sigh*
But seriously, this happens to me all the time, I like gay men, I don't know why! And I like them even before I know they are gay.

mrs.wes straker · 03-26-2007, 07:23 PM

Is that Gaydar-thing real? :-) Some people swear by theirs, and it sounds like yours is broken. :-)

Tara Poison · 04-01-2007, 11:13 AM

Understand totally.
Drooling over something you want so bad and knowing theres no way in hell you're gonna get it...
I sit next to her in Food tech and every lesson is a battle not to jump her...

Sometimes? ~snorts~

Xriah · 04-01-2007, 11:27 AM

Same thing happened to me. And then when she went bi after I stopped having a crush on her. xP

cradle · 04-01-2007, 12:23 PM

How do you "go bi"
I thought you were born that way.

DarkHeartedDemoness · 04-01-2007, 02:23 PM

You don't "go bi", Cradle, but I think what Xriah was referring to was someone who didn't realize they were bi. Having a sexuality that defies the norm is kind of a journey. I mean, if you grow up expecting to marry someone of your opposite gender and have kids together, realizing differently can take a little while. Especially if you're bi, and therefore still attracted to members of your opposite gender.

I assume you knew all that, but were just picking at semantics, though.

GothGarl · 04-01-2007, 04:35 PM

You need to let your friend know you have a crush on her. Get it off your chest. You'll probably regret it at first but in the end you should feel better.

Tara Poison · 04-02-2007, 05:28 AM

Yep, totally agree. Took me awhile to realise it.

And you could say something. If you think that this crush might last awhile and isn't just something that will be forgotten in a couple of days you should say something. You might regret it like hell otherwise...

(And I should probably take my advice as well. I'll go mad if I have to sit next to her for one more lesson but I'm on easter break now and I miss her like crazy...)

GothGarl · 04-02-2007, 06:49 AM

What I would advise is if she doesn't know that your bi or gay tell her that you are, and depending on how she takes the news you can decide for yourself whether or not to tell her.

Tara Poison · 04-02-2007, 08:07 AM

Ooh, what GothGarl says. Good advice.

Heatherzilla · 04-29-2007, 03:43 AM

Rather than making a new thread...I don't know whether or not to tell them, they're a good friend and I don't want to wreak that. I don't know what I want anymore.

GothGarl · 04-29-2007, 07:20 AM

If they are good friends they shouldn't mind.