From my experience, I must believe it's more about age. When I moved to this part of Florida and joined in the scene here, there were never any questions about my days (or nights, rather) in other places; it has always been more about my sticking with the subculture once I "grew up", and the fact that I was in my teens during the 80s. I'm sure that it makes a difference that even then my idols were Robert Smith, and Siouxsie, and so on - instead of, say, Paula Abdul or Hall and Oates or (goodness, who else was around then? Michael Jackson, I suppose, in his heyday). It might be very different for someone who is in his or her 30s or 40s and only recently got into the music and all the trappings that come with it.
I'm rambling. How very old-person of me. My point is that when my 'credentials' are examined, if my credentials are examined, it matters less what active time I spent in clubs or dressing the part or anything like that, and much more how old I am. I'm grateful for that, because for a time I was forced to hide my affiliation and 'be goth on the inside'. It was a terrible time of lost years, and the fact that it does not matter - that all was forgiven and I was welcomed back wholeheartedly - is a mark of the generosity and kindness that characterises so many goths.
As an aside, I think it rather bad manners to refer to myself as an "Elder Goth". When others do, I feel quite humbled and honoured, and I believe it comes with a bit of responsibility to do right by the subculture: protect and be there for babybats, support my local scene, and not act like an ass if I can help it.
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I WILL GLUE A SPECIMEN PATCH TO HIS FOREHEAD. ~ korinna5555
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