Sexuality - Page 13

Ben Lahnger · 12-06-2005, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by The Minister Saint-Fond

Sex is like a wonderful salad bar. You can take what you want, and leave the rest. Just be sure to use a clean plate.

And don't forget to use tongs. And be sure to use a different plate when you go back for seconds. And be sure to only partake at locations where a sneeze guard is properly installed ... um, this is where the analogy kinda falls apart.

Seriously, I'm a straight hetero male who likes straight or bi females. I have tried swinging, threesomes and other experiences. I'm certain at the age of 47 that there will never be a time in my life that I will be bi-curious. If people are involved in consentual, respectful, adult relationships, then I'm okay with that ... no matter who they are.

How is it that so much of the content of this thread has so little to do with the subject? Maybe we just can't help straying ...

rockandrose · 12-06-2005, 02:33 PM

Straight after sex, smoking is a killer.

I love it.

thetiesonyourcorset · 12-06-2005, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Xnguela

Oh, all right... I just didn't have sex until 19, and it seems like everyone's doing it too young.

well my first time i regret it because i was WAY far too young *if you wanna know what age then ask me on msn and i'll say* but i will say this,i only found out what sex was and i got asked to do it,i didn't know about virginity and how precious it was,but i'm not totally sure that he did it right as we were really young so maybe we didn't exactly have sex but it felt like it and his well cock was inside me so i don't see that we didn't have sex so he did take my virginity,that's just the way i see it!!

My first meaningfull time,i didn't regret it because i was in love and we waited 8 months so i knew he meant what he said,he was a virgin at 19 and i was 16 and not a virgin!

joyslayer · 12-06-2005, 04:47 PM

MY first time, I was 11. I got *****. Which is why now i really don't care.

joyslayer · 12-06-2005, 04:59 PM

But loosing your virginity, (for a girl) is defined and the hygmen being broken.

rockandrose · 12-06-2005, 06:56 PM

I also love being neck kissed. Sometimes, that can be enough to kill me.

I've come across two real good neck-kissers.

rockandrose · 12-06-2005, 07:05 PM

Oh yeah baby!

joyslayer · 12-06-2005, 07:23 PM

Well then, I think I should leave you two alone.....

TheKorovaMilkbar · 12-06-2005, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by rockandrose

Oh yeah baby!

Alright, who the hell has been taking pictures of me taking care of business? *tapping foot*

Heh, but yeah, I like giving neck kisses.

rockandrose · 12-06-2005, 10:14 PM

It was certainly not me.

Ben Lahnger · 12-07-2005, 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Santarea

Same thing happened to me, when I was 15. I didn't consider that losing my virginity. I lost that to a girl.

The hymen is an *indicator* of virginity, but literally, a bumpy bike ride can change that. It's bullshit anyway to have such an unreliable indicator for female virginity.

I think it's a shame that we (humans) make such a big deal about virginity ... in the sense that the hyman can be broken accidentally and yet for years so many society held this in such high regard ... to the point of persecuting and punishing women who were not "virgins" at the time of their marriage.

I also think it's a cruel trick of nature that we feel the biological urge to have sex long before we have the emotional maturity to understand what we are doing to ourselves and each other ... what we are taking and what we should be giving.

I think the heart of this thing is just the wish that everyone's first sexual experience be a positive, joyful celebration ... something that sets a standard for yourself ... meaning you take away the feeling "That was good ... okay, I'm never gonna settle for anything less than that."

My first time was a Mrs. Robinson kinda deal ... I was 20 and she was at least 20 years older than me ... at first I thought it would be cool because for years everyone else I knew was doing it, and now here was my chance ... but afterwords when I realized that as far as she was concerned I was just another young plaything ... I felt used.

rockandrose · 12-07-2005, 08:24 AM

I think usually a girl's/woman's first experience of losing her virginity wouldn't feel like happy alice in wonderland. I haven't heard any female say that their first time wasn't "painful". Though, I'm sure there are females who have enjoyed their first time in bed.

I, certainly hated my first time and my second time, and...my third time. I was so turned off that I never ever wanted to engage in anything sexual with another guy, ever!

Luckily, my hormones had the pleasure to soon feel that sex is fucking awesome and my libido began to hit right through the roof. It was when I first experienced "good sex", that I began to cherish my first "good sec" experience more than my first time losing my viginity.

I personally don't see any importance in viginity. I feel that I didn't lose anything important nor did I feel that I gave something significant when I lose my viginity. Though, I do take care of my body and pride myself for that, as I don't let anyone take advantage of me, which is why men and childish boys respect me more.

It's all about personal perception, really.

rockandrose · 12-07-2005, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Xnguela

Well, one of us needs to shave...

You "scruffy face".

Moonie · 12-07-2005, 04:00 PM

ouch.understandable though, my boyfriend has this five o'clock shadow that is all stubbly and such, when he hugs me his head rests on top of my head (im a small woman) and my hair gets stuck to his chin sometimes. . . brilo chin!

Corpus_Draconis · 12-07-2005, 04:22 PM

My boyfriend shaves for me. He looks better with a shadow, but not sufficiently that I will suffer a red chin.

Moonie · 12-07-2005, 04:31 PM

heres a question:

do you help your significant other along when they just arnt getting "it" right?

Manimal · 12-07-2005, 10:40 PM

whew - catching up

Rose and Xng - you two are adorable and incidentally I LOVE kissing necks, and ears, and shoulders, and...

I am also an excellent kisser but only because that's what they tell me...

Um... what else... oh I've never had sex with a virgin and I don't think I'd ever want to and yes... of course you help your partner along if things aren't working quite right. To do otherwise would be inconsiderate and disrespectful.

winged_dreams · 12-07-2005, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Corpus_Draconis

My boyfriend shaves for me. He looks better with a shadow, but not sufficiently that I will suffer a red chin.

I don't mind a shaven faced man nor do I mind a full beard. I just hate the inbetween stage. That stubble does hurt. Ow.

winged_dreams · 12-07-2005, 10:45 PM

The first time I had sex, I don't remember any pain. I was frankly bored and I was doing it to make my fiance happy. Well, he wasn't my fiance then but you get the point. Anyways, like rose, I didn't think too much about losing my viriginity and I just started loving sex when it actually felt good. The feeling good part was the most important thing.

Sanctus Dei · 12-07-2005, 11:06 PM

Moonie: Ofcourse... You have to be both a teacher and a student.

Ben Lahnger · 12-08-2005, 12:27 PM

Yep ... Teacher, Student, Lover, Friend ... or it's all kinda casual and shallow, eh?

joyslayer · 12-08-2005, 03:28 PM

I happen to like smooth, or shadow. Full beards look kind of scruffy-ish. Because when you have a nice look boyfriend, it is only right that you parade around with him. I am joking though. To teach, and to be taught.

joyslayer · 12-08-2005, 08:35 PM

Ears...... I like ears.....

Manimal · 12-08-2005, 08:36 PM

girls have pretty ears

joyslayer · 12-08-2005, 08:49 PM

Really? I actually don't pay attention to ears that often, but I do like them. I like to blow in them.....