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04-21-2007, 09:58 PM
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#101
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a sneeze away from San Francisco
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Hmm, it turned out he was a poser goth and had just broken up with his slut. So then his ex-slut who had quit the cheer team (which I was a part of that year [6th grade, shut up]), and dyed her hair to get him back showed up and they started making out, so I slapped him and got a ride home with a friend.
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Originally Posted by Joker_in_the_Pack
At some point, you need to look yourself in the mirror and realize that what other people did to you does not define you as a person. You and your actions define who you are as a person. It's up to you to be a good person, in spite of all the evil you've faced. In fact, it should be because of the evil you see that it's good you do. Be the change you want in the world. Next time someone tells me that they're an asshole because they've had a bad life, I'm stabbing them in the eye with a spork.
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04-21-2007, 11:42 PM
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#102
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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Originally Posted by BlackWidow
My mistake, I meant I hate dating tall guys. I dont hate all tall guys just because they are tall. I should have chosen my words better. My husband is barely taller than I am and I love it.
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Yeah, me too. I've had rather displeasing experiences with tall men. 
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04-21-2007, 11:57 PM
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#103
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Idaho
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It's not really the man, himself. I just dont wanna have to look up to see his face or stand on my tippy toes to hug him, plus a short person and a tall person just looks funny together. Like fat and skinny couples-it doesnt fit.
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04-22-2007, 02:47 AM
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#104
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a sneeze away from San Francisco
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I like tall guys. It's the blond, surfer boys that freak me out. Went out with one once. ˇGood goth!
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Originally Posted by Joker_in_the_Pack
At some point, you need to look yourself in the mirror and realize that what other people did to you does not define you as a person. You and your actions define who you are as a person. It's up to you to be a good person, in spite of all the evil you've faced. In fact, it should be because of the evil you see that it's good you do. Be the change you want in the world. Next time someone tells me that they're an asshole because they've had a bad life, I'm stabbing them in the eye with a spork.
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04-22-2007, 09:20 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Somplace.
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I know this is really going to sound kind of bad but back when I was single, I would stay away from big tall men. I am tiny and they'd intimidate me too much. (Yeah, that DOES stem from uh.... getting beat up by men in the past sorry to say. ) As a precaution, I used to make sure that I could physically "take on" prospective suiters in case they went ape shit on me in the supposed future. I know, DisFunCtionAl.
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04-22-2007, 10:26 AM
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#106
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Calgary Alberta,Canada
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I have a hard time finding a tall woman myself, but I compermise.
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04-22-2007, 12:09 PM
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#107
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Idaho
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Aw...poor tall you. Tall women look weird. No offense or anything it's just weird to see. Some chicks have a fetish or a certain liking for tall guys, if you dont mind being with a shorter woman.
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04-23-2007, 12:05 AM
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#108
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Calgary Alberta,Canada
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Originally Posted by BlackWidow
Aw...poor tall you. Tall women look weird. No offense or anything it's just weird to see. Some chicks have a fetish or a certain liking for tall guys, if you dont mind being with a shorter woman.
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No offense taken at all. I don't mind being with shorter women, but I just thought I see what it's like dating a tall woman more.
I do recall one date I had with a tall woman (and she happened to be 4 yrs younger than me too), where someone said she looked older than me and she was ticked afterwards.
Maybe that's why some tall woman are negative sometimes because of the criticism they get and no complements. hmmmm
That could be the "weird" part of it.
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04-23-2007, 07:46 PM
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#109
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a sneeze away from San Francisco
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Good goth, why? Taller women have an easier time with it. They keep weight off more easily and clothes look better on them. One of my worst comments from a date was "You'd be hot if you were taller."
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Originally Posted by Joker_in_the_Pack
At some point, you need to look yourself in the mirror and realize that what other people did to you does not define you as a person. You and your actions define who you are as a person. It's up to you to be a good person, in spite of all the evil you've faced. In fact, it should be because of the evil you see that it's good you do. Be the change you want in the world. Next time someone tells me that they're an asshole because they've had a bad life, I'm stabbing them in the eye with a spork.
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04-23-2007, 07:53 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Austin, Tx
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A friend of mine asked me if I wanted to hang out and go to dinner with him. I accepted, of course, cause we were friends. We went to this great restaurant not far from our neighborhood. His company began to feel a little strange. He was behaving nervously; the atmosphere felt mildly tense. He offered to pay for the meal. I told him that I could pay my own way, but he insisted. I felt like it was turning into a big deal, so I graciously accepted. He told me to order whatever I wanted, and the awkward continued. He was pushy and persistant about it. He ordered multiple dishes of all kinds of seafood. You're probably wondering how THIS could be bad, right? Well, I knew he was having some financial trouble...or had some financial trouble. I didn't know if he was passed it. How could he afford it? I didn't want to ask him because it felt rude. Anyway, eat-eat. talk-talk, and the awkward lingered until he walked me home. It was strange.
Part of me touched on the idea that he was interested in me. Why else would he spend the money? But nah...that couldn't be. I thought I made it clear that we were friends. Awkward. Anyway a couple of nights later more light was shed on the situation. I went to the club, and I saw him with our circle of friends as soon as I got there. I went over and said my "hello" and gave hugs, etc. He said, "Great to see you the other night. It would have been nice if you were a cheaper date." Asshole.
Since then, I don't let a man spend money on me unless I'm willing to reciprocate.
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04-23-2007, 09:54 PM
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#111
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Calgary Alberta,Canada
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oooooooh, ouch! Obviously he doesn't understand that the whole idea of dating.
I usually offer to pay unless she wishes to pay her way. Going out and having fun is what matters the most regardless of expense.
Funny, how I noticed that I was kinda tested by some women I dated to see how much I would spend on them. They all said they had a great time.
I never mentioned anything of wishing that they were cheaper dates either.
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04-24-2007, 02:47 PM
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#112
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Austin, Tx
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Originally Posted by DarkGentleman
oooooooh, ouch! Obviously he doesn't understand that the whole idea of dating.
I usually offer to pay unless she wishes to pay her way. Going out and having fun is what matters the most regardless of expense.
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I agree. It should be fun, but I've learned that the fun can't actually begin until you discuss where you stand. At first, it sounds like a business deal. Not that romantic, right? But once that's out of the way, you can REALLY have a good time and not worry about the rest. You're free to do as you please within the bounds set by each other. It's less painful if you're straightforward about your intentions. I don't know...maybe I'm just a blunt person.
It sounds like you approach dating in a fair, respectful manner. less pressure. That's good. I can't speak for all women, but for myself, I'd appreciate that.
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04-24-2007, 03:19 PM
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#113
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Canadia
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Originally Posted by BlackWidow
Aw...poor tall you. Tall women look weird. No offense or anything it's just weird to see. Some chicks have a fetish or a certain liking for tall guys, if you dont mind being with a shorter woman.
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I'm tall and I don't think I look weird. My boyfriend prefers it, actually (for probably the same reason that Dark is looking to date taller women).
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04-25-2007, 09:22 AM
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#114
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Calgary Alberta,Canada
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Originally Posted by Bloopie
Taller women are creepy. ;S
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You never know, taller women can be sexier than you think. 
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04-25-2007, 11:32 PM
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#115
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a sneeze away from San Francisco
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What about short women!?
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Originally Posted by Joker_in_the_Pack
At some point, you need to look yourself in the mirror and realize that what other people did to you does not define you as a person. You and your actions define who you are as a person. It's up to you to be a good person, in spite of all the evil you've faced. In fact, it should be because of the evil you see that it's good you do. Be the change you want in the world. Next time someone tells me that they're an asshole because they've had a bad life, I'm stabbing them in the eye with a spork.
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04-26-2007, 12:39 AM
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#116
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Calgary Alberta,Canada
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What about short women!?
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Ah, of course short women are sexy. I haven't forgotten that.
I was just pointing what Bloopie could be missing out about tall women.
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04-26-2007, 12:40 AM
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#117
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: In a black hole with a black moon
Posts: 2,658
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gooht...I was r@ped at a slumber party by a homosexual pyscho. Does that count? Yes it happened.
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04-26-2007, 01:29 AM
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#118
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: With the Zombies
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Huh?
I'm short! I want to be tall…but I cant be…
Now I’m not sexy cos I’m short and I have big hips. :’(
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04-26-2007, 12:32 PM
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#119
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Idaho
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Damn Vyvian, I'm sorry I hope that asshole dies....
I was once "molested" by my boyfriend(at the time)'s brother-in-law in the same house as my bf, in the next room, actually. I told my boyfriend about it and he did nothing! That should have been a sign to leave...
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04-26-2007, 12:57 PM
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#120
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Los Angeles
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Originally Posted by Vyvian Blackthorne
gooht...I was r@ped at a slumber party by a homosexual pyscho. Does that count? Yes it happened.
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The point is that you were molested or r***d by a r**ist/molester. The trivial detail that (in your perception) he was a homosexual should not be at issue. You were victimized by a sexual predator, not a "homosexual".
Hopefully you have sought therapy or counseling for that.
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04-26-2007, 12:59 PM
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#121
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: In a black hole with a black moon
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Good point, sorry about that...it was 4:00 in the morning, and my head wasn't politically correct, just frustrated...yes, it was a sexual predator, not a homosexual. I'm terribly sorry, Vako.
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04-26-2007, 01:04 PM
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#122
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Los Angeles
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No problem. It's not about being "politically correct", though. I can't stand that mentality. It's about clarity and quality of communication. I don't expect people to walk on eggshells, but let's at least try t be gestalt.
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04-27-2007, 12:10 AM
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#123
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Calgary Alberta,Canada
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Originally Posted by PersephoneX
Huh?
I'm short! I want to be tall…but I cant be…
Now I’m not sexy cos I’m short and I have big hips. :’(
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I'm sure you look fabulous and sexy to me, my dear.
:::HUGS:::
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04-27-2007, 07:31 PM
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#124
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: The Icy Forest of New England
Posts: 2,535
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My boyfriend and I got into a HUGE fight over something stupid (I forget what) but we were supposed to be going out for a nice dinner and he said something that pissed me off so we ended up getting in this huge fight out on the street and then some random lady came up to me and started yelling at me for using "inappropriate language." It was definitely my worst experience.
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04-28-2007, 10:07 AM
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#125
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Somplace.
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I am VERY sorry to hear that.
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Originally Posted by Vyvian Blackthorne
gooht...I was r@ped at a slumber party by a homosexual pyscho. Does that count? Yes it happened.
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I hope you can heal from that. It DOES leave emotional scars and I hope you can deal with them the best way possible. Again, I am very sorry to have read this and I hope nothing like that EVER befalls YOU or anyone ELSE ever again.
Homo Psycho or WHATEVER you call it is not the point here. This person .... entity....VIOLATED you and that is just WRONG. I really hate it when I hear about stuff like this.
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