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Old 04-04-2008, 11:42 AM   #26
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He said a bit more than finding her attractive...Emilys only 15, one year older than...he said shit like he wanted to fuck her...and the guys 18.
Oh man, that was your girlfriend? Sorry dude.
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Old 04-04-2008, 11:44 AM   #27
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Oh man, that was your girlfriend? Sorry dude.
She should be the one apologising to you, after all, you're the only guy so far who's had to ask.

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Old 04-04-2008, 12:13 PM   #28
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Did the guy know her age?
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Old 04-04-2008, 01:14 PM   #29
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He said a bit more than finding her attractive...Emilys only 15, one year older than...he said shit like he wanted to fuck her...and the guys 18.
You're fucking stupid.

Even if the man were 50, that would NOT be pedophilia.
Someone who is 18 is most likely a kid himself, so that case is CERTAINLY NOT pedophilia.

You're just jealous because you're afraid your girlfriend is going to find him attractive because he's older.
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Old 04-04-2008, 01:47 PM   #30
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Yeah, Meta, you'd think someone who claims to spend time on 4chan would know the difference between loli and jailbait.
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Old 04-04-2008, 02:00 PM   #31
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Um, I am not seeing the issue at all with an 18 year old hitting on a 15 year old. I would be willing to bet it is very normal and an average thing to see going on everywhere, everyday. Am I the only one that this does not seem unusual or immoral to? I mean I know you think the world of this girl and she has dated other guys while you were with her, etc. but that is not this guys fault and it does not make him a disturbed person preying on children...he may have very little tact but some people are tactless, just how it is.
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Old 04-04-2008, 02:14 PM   #32
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Yeah, Meta, you'd think someone who claims to spend time on 4chan would know the difference between loli and jailbait.
BAHAHAHA!!!

Your girlfriend enjoys Japanese culture!

BAHAHAHAHA!
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Old 04-04-2008, 02:16 PM   #33
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Am I the only one that this does not seem unusual or immoral to?
Considering that just about everyone else in this topic has said similar things... the magic 8-ball says "no."
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Old 04-05-2008, 02:25 AM   #34
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Look on a serious note here, if you have concerns that he HAS fucked a 7 year old, its your responsibility to report him to the police. But don't just do it for revenge for him hitting on your girlfriend, do it for the 7 year old's sake. But then did you mean he actually said "I fucked a 7 year old", or were you using this as an example?
He actually said he fucked a seven year old...
and yes, i've reported him to the police now.
I have no idea whats happened to him though :S
I seriously doubt it was true though because if he WAS a pedophile then he wouldn't have said that...he'd probably be like "Hey whats up...i'm 14 too you know...wanna meet up?"...well...maybe not those words exactly...but you know what I mean.
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Old 04-05-2008, 02:28 AM   #35
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Yeah, Meta, you'd think someone who claims to spend time on 4chan would know the difference between loli and jailbait.
LOL...4chan x)...I don't actually go on it that much...I use redtube for porn lol...but I just laugh my ass of at the random shit that's on there.

In fact...I haven't even been on it for this year so far lol.

Let alone watch porn o_O


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Either way I couldn't care less about anything else in the world right now apart from my girlfriend...soooo....you know...
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Old 04-05-2008, 06:55 AM   #36
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LOL...4chan x)...I don't actually go on it that much...I use redtube for porn lol...but I just laugh my ass of at the random shit that's on there.

In fact...I haven't even been on it for this year so far lol.

Let alone watch porn o_O


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Either way I couldn't care less about anything else in the world right now apart from my girlfriend...soooo....you know...
You watch porn?

You're aware that's illegal, right?

And that if someone found out that you watch porn, social services would probably be called, because that's protocol? (I've been in a similar situation where someone alleged that I brag about watching porn. It was bullshit because I don't like porn, but if they prove it then they do get them involved for "your own benefit".)

And now you've reported a guy to the police most likely because he was having a joke, just because you feel threatened that your girlfriend who is completely not worth the effort that you put in (though your irrational approach to things suggests that you're right for each other) might feel attracted to this older guy, whereas you just admitted that you break the law often.

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Old 04-05-2008, 07:49 AM   #37
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You remind me of a very good friend of mine and a bit of myself at your age. So young and yet so insistent on being separated from the connotations of your age group that you end up going too far and making yourself looking stuck up and pretentious as opposed to young and stupid. Oh well.
What's wrong with seeing the idiocy people of a certain age are prone to? That's like calling a fifty-year-old stuck-up and pretentious because he rips on combovers and trophy girlfriends.
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Old 04-05-2008, 09:38 AM   #38
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combovers
Have you ever seen middle-aged or older men who are balding and so they do a combover with just a strip of hair at the front of their head, and the rest of it is left uncovered? Unless he's perfectly facing you, he looks ridiculous. The random strip is usually waxed/gelled down so tight that it's like it was drawn onto his head.

Anyway, on topic, what everyone else said about the guy not being a pedo.
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Old 04-05-2008, 09:46 AM   #39
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[quote=LaBelleDameSansMerci]Have you ever seen middle-aged or older men who are balding and so they do a combover with just a strip of hair at the front of their head, and the rest of it is left uncovered? Unless he's perfectly facing you, he looks ridiculous. The random strip is usually waxed/gelled down so tight that it's like it was drawn onto his head.
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No........ but I would laugh SO hard.
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Old 04-05-2008, 09:48 AM   #40
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Pedophilia only applies to the sexual attraction of a person at least five years older than the child, and the child must be prepubescent (usually 13 or younger), so an 18 year old hitting on a 15 year old is NOT pedophilia.
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Old 04-05-2008, 10:08 AM   #41
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Plus, it's even legal.

If a person is under the age of consent, such as your girlfriend, and she wants to have sex with someone over the age of consent, such as this dapper pseudo-paedophile, if there's less than a four year gap between them, it's legal.

So, pwnt.
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Old 04-05-2008, 10:22 AM   #42
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Pedophilia only applies to the sexual attraction of a person at least five years older than the child, and the child must be prepubescent (usually 13 or younger), so an 18 year old hitting on a 15 year old is NOT pedophilia.
I would love to know where you got this from. No, I'm not being sarcastic, I'd seriously like to know. In my book its pedophilia if someone wants to have sex with a child, but the legal definition of a child varies from place to place. For instance, here in the UK the age of consent for sex is 16 (even though you don't reach your legal age of consent for voting, etc, until you are 18). But 15 is NOT illegal in some place, I am aware. The dictionary definition does not mention any age ratio, or the necessity for this to have occured pre-puberty.

I think the issue lies with if the "adult" is aware that the person of their desire is under the legal age of consent. If they think that they are over this age, then the intent to "abuse" the child/adolescent is not there. But if they are aware of the age of the person, then the intent to abuse is there.

On this particular issue, I'm not sure if it has been made clear if this 18 year old was aware of this girl's age or not. Or if her age makes her "off limits" legally.

Also, the comment he made about the seven year old was very disturbing. I don't care whether or not he meant it seriously, its not something that anyone should joke about. The abuse of children is not funny.

Now don't think that I'm not aware of the blurred lines with this issue. I looked a lot older than my years from a young age. I was "hit" upon by various older men, some only a few years older like in their late teens, and some a LOT older (yuck!) The intent of the laws are to protect what they consider to be "children" from both themselves and from others because they are not considered to be mature enough to make informed choices.

I'm sure that a lot of my comments may cause further debate.

PS - Like I said previously, I really hope that the report to the police was not purely done out of spite. If you really think he meant it, then fine, you did the right thing.
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Old 04-05-2008, 12:04 PM   #43
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You watch porn?

You're aware that's illegal, right?

And that if someone found out that you watch porn, social services would probably be called, because that's protocol? (I've been in a similar situation where someone alleged that I brag about watching porn. It was bullshit because I don't like porn, but if they prove it then they do get them involved for "your own benefit".)

And now you've reported a guy to the police most likely because he was having a joke, just because you feel threatened that your girlfriend who is completely not worth the effort that you put in (though your irrational approach to things suggests that you're right for each other) might feel attracted to this older guy, whereas you just admitted that you break the law often.

*sighs*
If you were of age I'd kiss you.

But you know, I'm 19, so I don't want to get locked up for pedophilia.
HAR HAR HAR.
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Old 04-05-2008, 03:19 PM   #44
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Lol...wow now i know why so many people hate it here...I guess im an idiot...and thats why I hate myself so fucking much...either way though I couldnt care less about what you guys think anymore...I had a really fun day...went bowling with a mate I haven't seen in 5 years or so and went to a local gig with another group of friends...(i'm now slightly deaf lol)

And im talking to my girlfriend...and in the end thats all I want from life, my girlfriend...so I really couldnt care less about what you guys think...


fuck you shitty grammar x)
Tah Tah everyone...


lol

(and yes i realise im a dumbfuck for posting this thread in the first place...but hell...i was angry...angry people do rash things...and if you disagree then you can suck my balls...also thanks again for all your help in the past...this time im REALLY leaving )


FUCKING BAN ME YOU PIECE OF SHIT SITE!!!!!...AHAHAHAHAHAHA




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Old 04-05-2008, 04:19 PM   #45
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No! You're NOT a dumbfuck for posting it in the first place!

And fuck everyone who tried to make you feel bad! You were concerned, you aired those concerns! Kudos to you!
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Old 04-05-2008, 06:17 PM   #46
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No, he actually is.
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Old 04-05-2008, 06:22 PM   #47
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To be fair, it is still illegal for said 18 year old to be doing the things he wants to do with her.
Also, I am always at a loss as to why anybody of age would be attracted to a 14-15 year old anyway, but that's just me.
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Old 04-05-2008, 07:47 PM   #48
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Why not? I flirt with 15 year olds. The prettiest smart girl I have liked, albeit being a materialist and capitalist, is 15 years old; maybe sixteen as of recently, but you get my point.
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Old 04-05-2008, 07:54 PM   #49
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Oh yeah, Meta--it's pedoPHile.

HAHAHAHA.
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Old 04-05-2008, 07:59 PM   #50
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OH MAN, he totally already knew that, because like, so many other people have written it correctly!

Aw, man, hahaha.

Ugh.
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