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Old 09-12-2011, 02:23 AM   #26
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Name one good reason (besides sex, because I'm trying to cut you the littlest bit of slack in assuming you are intelligent and not just thinking with your dick) why you would date someone who is evil.

Anyone can do better than that ... hell, being single is better than that.
Good and evil don't exist, she's just a bit of a sadist (emotionally and morally).

In fact you see all values are baseless, there is no purpose to our lives, we're biological machines programmed to reproduce. So you see it's less thinking with my dick and more that I will inevitably think for my dick (the whole point of having a brain in the first place).

To the person who pointed out that all women are evil, this is true but not all women were created equal.

I've explained to her that I don't think we should move in together. I wonder if I will ever get to wondering if that was a bit yellow of me. Probably.
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Old 09-12-2011, 03:51 AM   #27
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You say good and evil don't exist, yet you're the one who called her evil in the first place.

You deserve her, you loon!
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Old 09-12-2011, 03:58 AM   #28
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I'm just misunderstood
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Old 09-12-2011, 04:01 AM   #29
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I blame your publicist.
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Old 09-12-2011, 05:19 AM   #30
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Okay I think what it comes down to is this;

Living with her I'd get regular sex, someone I can get along with when we're not mad at each other (we pretty much have been since we last had sex) and someone who doesn't go out much and is used to doing the washing up.

Downsides would be a vague feeling of being degraded, apathy with regards to looking for someone shiny and new, shiny new people being like "so what's the deal with that girl you live with", and the people in the know shaking their head and writing me off in the 'does not listen to advice' column.

Really the only reason I'd not live with her is if I felt I could do better with someone else. I do have that someone else in mind but she seems almost as hard to get as this one (two years, so not worth it) which is really frustrating.

I could go on, maybe I'll get back to this later.
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Old 09-12-2011, 07:03 AM   #31
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Gin, quit being self-loathing, dude. We're not all evil.

El, you sound like what you really want is a house slave/pet that you can fuck.
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Old 09-12-2011, 07:22 AM   #32
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El, you sound like what you really want is a house slave/pet that you can fuck.
That'd be nice yeah.

Although that's more what I'd be getting than what I want. What I want is to feel clean again. Maybe? lol as if I know what I want.
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Old 09-12-2011, 11:22 AM   #33
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If you want to feel clean there's always the option of a shower.
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Old 09-13-2011, 07:05 AM   #34
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She hasn't given up trying to persuade me. She's very persuasive. And she's right about most of it.

It's really for the sake of the girl in the other thread, who might not even be interested. I'm so full of lose.
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Old 09-13-2011, 07:27 AM   #35
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Yo Elystan, how old are you?
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Old 09-13-2011, 07:37 AM   #36
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Guess first, it'll be funnier for me that way.
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Old 09-13-2011, 08:01 AM   #37
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Well seeing as you are talking about moving in with a woman I'd say you are out of high school but judging by this thread and the one about taking some girl to a concert I'd say you couldn't be all that old. I guess around 20.
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Old 09-13-2011, 08:03 AM   #38
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TWENTY FOUR.

But socially, about 19.
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Old 09-13-2011, 08:41 AM   #39
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I would've guessed about 20ish too. Anyway, it sounds simple enough to me. Don't move in with the girlfriend, because YOU DON'T EVEN LIKE HER. Ask the other girl out. If she says no, chalk it up to experience, tighten up your belt, and keep on truckin'.
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Old 09-13-2011, 12:38 PM   #40
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TWENTY FOUR.

But socially, about 19.
Damn, I was gonna say 'self-loathing 40-something living in parent's basement'.
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Old 09-13-2011, 01:13 PM   #41
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I would've guessed about 20ish too. Anyway, it sounds simple enough to me. Don't move in with the girlfriend, because YOU DON'T EVEN LIKE HER. Ask the other girl out. If she says no, chalk it up to experience, tighten up your belt, and keep on truckin'.
Of course I like her. I also hate her. And love her. And don't hate her at all. But never loved her, and never will.

Also I'm not sure if this is confidence issues or what but if I ditch the one and misfire with the other I'm fairly sure I'm not gonna get laid for a long-ass time afterward.
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Old 09-13-2011, 10:19 PM   #42
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Of course I like her. I also hate her. And love her. And don't hate her at all. But never loved her, and never will.

Also I'm not sure if this is confidence issues or what but if I ditch the one and misfire with the other I'm fairly sure I'm not gonna get laid for a long-ass time afterward.
My God, dump her!
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:16 PM   #43
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It's just sex, dude. Stop being a pussy. Seriously.
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:31 PM   #44
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I would've guessed about 20ish too. Anyway, it sounds simple enough to me. Don't move in with the girlfriend, because YOU DON'T EVEN LIKE HER. Ask the other girl out. If she says no, chalk it up to experience, tighten up your belt, and keep on truckin'.
That's sounds like the kind of advice a twelve-year old would give.
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Old 09-14-2011, 12:59 AM   #45
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It's just sex, dude. Stop being a pussy. Seriously.
There is nothing "just" about sex.

Oh man do you see what I did there? Somebody high five me
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Old 09-14-2011, 03:57 AM   #46
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I admit, I chuckled.

You still need a new publicist.
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:23 PM   #47
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Promised her a decision by october. Shit is wack
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Old 09-18-2011, 03:36 PM   #48
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Promised her a decision by october. Shit is wack
Ely, make the decision NOW. That way, you won't be stewing and worrying about it. You've already (in my mind) said that you don't want her to move in with you. Sex is only one aspect to a relationship... the rest is love, interest, things in common, etc.

I think you're at the love/hate point, but you've already made your decision. Chalk it up to a learning experience and get on without what's dragging you down.

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Old 09-18-2011, 03:45 PM   #49
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No PM function what?

I don't really think I want to tell everyone just yet. Oh well.
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