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Old 10-16-2007, 05:52 PM   #26
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I don't want approval, I just want to be acceptd.
...what's the difference?
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Old 10-16-2007, 07:08 PM   #27
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Nope, still not killing myself! See kids, it's easy!
I think I love you.
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Old 10-16-2007, 07:51 PM   #28
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...what's the difference?
She wants to have more friends but doesn't need to have approval as to who she is.
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Old 10-16-2007, 08:05 PM   #29
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Personally, I think it takes a bit of conditioning. It doesn't happen overnight, but you do need to know how to take things in stride.

I guess it helps to be a smartass as well.

And for the record... people who use the excuse "It's just a computer" really lack the esteem to deal with real problems. If you have to hide behind a screen, and would act differently offline, then you have a problem.

To me, this is no different than speaking on the phone to somebody, I may never have or will meet any of you, however I still portray myself as I would anywhere.
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Old 10-16-2007, 08:31 PM   #30
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She wants to have more friends but doesn't need to have approval as to who she is.
Exactly! I don't care if people approve of me or not. I just want to be accepted in society. Like I said, become a counselor, seriously!
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Old 10-16-2007, 10:50 PM   #31
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Exactly! I don't care if people approve of me or not. I just want to be accepted in society. Like I said, become a counselor, seriously!
Weeeel, my first choice is acting or movie editing or something rather. If the youth doesn't change when I'm older, I could become one. But if it does, I might not understand the new generation.
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Old 10-16-2007, 11:06 PM   #32
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I didn't say you were a mallgoth. You completely misunderstood me. What I am saying is you don't need to be goth to like the macabre. It's that simple, you can listen to whatever music you want, still like the macarbe and not be goth, and IT WON'T mean you are somehow any less.
I don't call myself goth, I don't care about it, yet I don't have any problem having Gothic interests or dressing in a "dark" manner.

As soon as you stop caring about the word goth and just be yourself, it won't matter if someone calls you a poser because you will know it is simply not so. How can you be a poser if you are just being yourself right?

Here is another thing. So what someone told you it's wrong to have a black room, or that your decorations are over the top? Who are they to decided? IT'S YOUR ROOM, it's your life and just because this random person on the internet calls themselves goth does not give them ANY power whateso ever. You said it yourself, they have NO idea how you act, and you are very right to say so.

You are you, you like what you like, you don't need a word to define you because you have just as much right as anyone else to be interested in what EVER it is you desire.

Goth is not a power word. Period.
.. listen to alissa

*nods with eyes closed in full agreement*
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Old 10-16-2007, 11:08 PM   #33
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.. listen to alissa

*nods with eyes closed in full agreement*
Awe *Hugs, then looks awkwardly*
Thank you.
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Old 10-16-2007, 11:49 PM   #34
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Awe *Hugs, then looks awkwardly*
Thank you.
*hugs back then wonders why you looked awkwardly*

you're welcome
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Old 10-17-2007, 04:33 PM   #35
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excuse me for resurrect this again , but I've just found this and I can't resist the temptation ...

To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
(Oscar Wilde)
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Old 10-17-2007, 04:35 PM   #36
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excuse me for resurrect this again , but I've just found this and I can't resist the temptation ...

To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
(Oscar Wilde)
Or, as Narcissus found out, a wet death.
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Old 10-17-2007, 04:43 PM   #37
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Or, as Narcissus found out, a wet death.
Haha, thats awesome Meth! Arguably Narcissus took it a little too far though :P. I agree with Worm. Self-esteem wisdom pours from GC's mouth like a badly formed metaphor from out my mouth.
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Old 10-17-2007, 05:00 PM   #38
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Haha, thats awesome Meth! Arguably Narcissus took it a little too far though :P. I agree with Worm. Self-esteem wisdom pours from GC's mouth like a badly formed metaphor from out my mouth.
That is SO...nice XD
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Old 10-18-2007, 12:45 PM   #39
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That is SO...nice XD
I hate it when I forget what I'm writing mid-sentence...
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