What an ass of a boyfriend - Page 2

LaKeesha · 03-02-2007, 07:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Shyantra

My boyfriend calls me up this morning around 8. After we exchange hellos, he says "Beth has expressed interest in me and I want to go out with her. So that means I am dumping you."

..... Yeah. The next time he calls you.... (oh don't worry, honey. He will when he finds out Beth don't wanna put out the way he wants her to...)
YOU say this here:
Say babe, YOU HEAR THAT?
(He will answer, "hear what?")
YOU say:
Yeah.... it's the sound of me HANGIN' UP!

Caught · 03-02-2007, 08:12 AM

aww poor u =( but this gives a lot of good ideas, my bf broke up with me last week, on msn!! he was saying something about our worlds being too diffrent (he knows me for years) and that he just doesnt want to have a girlfriend now (yea, he probably had some slutty "normal" girl)
Some guys are just weak, but i feel for you too but you seem to be taking it well (how could you not? with all those cookies and hugs ^^)
I give you some hugs too but no cookies, I suck at cooking/baking.

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-02-2007, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Shyantra

Oh I will! Thanks CCT for the cookies. *imagines Matt's head and bites it off*

That made me feel better.

I think Ill go clubbing with a couple of friends later to see if they can cheer me up (or as they put it unsober me).

You're welcome sweetheart. I hope you had fun clubbing.

killer_asian_Dax · 03-02-2007, 10:10 AM

Being dumped sucks, but it'll make you a stronger person. Unless you're a dribbling sack of emotion. Then there's no hope at all.

Shyantra · 03-02-2007, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Crying_Crimson_Tears

You're welcome sweetheart. I hope you had fun clubbing.

I did have fun thanks. My friends decided to blind fold me, drove me to his house at three in the morning and we tp'd it.

So I think I am over it.

Thank you all for your support.

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-02-2007, 11:20 AM

Well it's good to hear you're okay now.

Minyaliel · 03-02-2007, 01:32 PM

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"If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."

I'm not sure who said that, but it's something to consider.

Cheers!

SultryMystressoftheNyte · 03-03-2007, 10:45 AM

It's good that you're ok now. I'm pretty sure you'd find better because a guy who breaks up with someone like that is pretty much pathetic.

My last boyfriend dumped me by telling me some pathetic lie about moving out of the state and what not so he couldn't be in a long distance relationship. Come to find out he lied to me [ he even had his friends lie to me ] so he could break up with me just because I was too quiet on Thanksgiving [ do not let me get into what happened on that day which is why I was pretty much quiet throughout the entire day. ] and he didn't like that at all. I feel that he should've came up with some better way of breaking up with me.

+hugs either way+

LaKeesha · 03-03-2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by SultryMystressoftheNyte

It's good that you're ok now. I'm pretty sure you'd find better because a guy who breaks up with someone like that is pretty much pathetic.

My last boyfriend dumped me by telling me some pathetic lie about moving out of the state and what not so he couldn't be in a long distance relationship. Come to find out he lied to me [ he even had his friends lie to me ] so he could break up with me just because I was too quiet on Thanksgiving [ do not let me get into what happened on that day which is why I was pretty much quiet throughout the entire day. ] and he didn't like that at all. I feel that he would've came up with some better way of breaking up with me.

+hugs either way+

Now THAT....
.... is a story of a PUSSY.
NO balls at all.
Morally bankrupt.
Terminally stupid.

SultryMystressoftheNyte · 03-04-2007, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by LaKeesha

Now THAT....
.... is a story of a PUSSY.
NO balls at all.
Morally bankrupt.
Terminally stupid.

My thoughts exactly.

KontanKarite · 03-04-2007, 07:41 AM

I probably can't give you hugs, but I can give you absinthe or red wine. Take your pick.

PersephoneX · 03-04-2007, 09:48 PM

The thing i cant stand is the type of guy that wants to break up cos "our worlds are too different". And he goes for some skinny, normal girl that looks like her nose was picked out of a catalog and she's so smart and witty, that it makes you ache, that he met at some random place (like the movies)...And then after two weeks with her, he dumps her and you find him at your local haunt trying to score.

Or the kind of guy that plays you for a fool for months and months and you play into his hands. And he gets what he wants, everytime...Once he has what he wants, he's gone. As soon as he wants it again, he's back...

Or the kind of guy that drops you when you need him most, after you practically sold your soul to be with him.

Kraven de Sade · 03-04-2007, 09:57 PM

I can't stand those kinds of guys, either. They make the rest of us look bad.

PersephoneX · 03-04-2007, 10:09 PM

Or worse, the girls that hang on their every word... they make US look bad.

The sad thing is that I’ve become skeptical. So I've found that I’m madly in love with my boyfriend, but i don’t feel like I can trust him. Or i feel like he's got some kind of alterior motive...Its unfair to him, but i can't help it.

Kraven de Sade · 03-04-2007, 10:14 PM

Skeptism is good, though. If one is skeptical, it's more likely they'll spend more time determining whether or not they like someone who's worth it. Chances are, if the person isn't worth it, they won't stick around long enough.

LaKeesha · 03-15-2007, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by KontanKarite

I probably can't give you hugs, but I can give you absinthe or red wine. Take your pick.

ABSINTHE BABY!!!

DarkGentleman · 04-08-2007, 01:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Kraven de Sade

You should send him an e-mail saying how relieved you are that he broke up with you because you felt bad about cheating on him. (Not implying that you were, but revenge is sweet.)

ooooooooh, that's gotta hurt like a kick in the nuts to him, LOL.

3 yrs ago, I was dumped for NO REASON at all, I was just told by her that "oh, I am really sorry to say this but, I'm not happy". Then I was asked to move out the next day. I treated that woman like a queen and never did anything to hurt her at all, I just couldn't understand why! So therefore I moved on. However I heard last summer that she got pregnant from a one night stand and now I felt sooooo over her for good. I do feel sorry for her that she has put herself to being a single mother and I know that mothers have the toughest job in the world: raising the children.
I wonder if she ever regret letting me go? hmmmmm. I doubt it.

I was dating someone a year ago for a few months, but it was a dead end. So I have been single since then.

Shyantra, it seems that he wasn't listening to his heart at all.
True love happens when 2 people listen to their hearts, not just one.
A *HUG* for you and hope you will find happiness once again.

james"bloody tears" · 04-08-2007, 11:34 AM

look on the bright side at least he was honest. he was an ***hole in the way he did it and needs beat for it but at least he was honest. you have my sympathy.

cradle · 04-08-2007, 04:13 PM

What fuckin grade is this guy in...
That sounds like something an 8th grader would pull.

What an ass.

edible_eye · 04-08-2007, 04:46 PM

Here's to your ex -

http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j1...1/1c945a99.jpg

Hope he doesn't drown on it. Actually, I don't hope that. Fuck him.

Shyantra · 04-08-2007, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Cradle

What fuckin grade is this guy in...
That sounds like something an 8th grader would pull.

He is actually in college, only a few years older than me infact.

mrs.wes straker · 04-09-2007, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Shyantra

Before I go into swearing mode let me tell you what happened. My boyfriend calls me up this morning around 8. After we exchange hellos, he says "Beth has expressed interest in me and I want to go out with her. So that means I am dumping you." And then he fucking hangs up! What conflagrant (sp) guy!

I swear! If I come across another guy, no, excuse me, a person! who tries to pull that in my eye's view I will tear there fucking head off!!!!

First of all let me say you are such a pretty girl. Any-whoo, I express sympathy next. But now, you have to admit, the phone call sounds like something from a ridiculous comedy. What the hell? What a freak that guy was. Once you're over him, you should be happy he's gone and then laugh very hard at this. It's absurd!!!!

DarkGentleman · 04-09-2007, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by james"bloody tears"

look on the bright side at least he was honest.

True, very true. Like a wise person told me once: "Honesty may hurt you, but Lies will destroy you".

But then again, he may have done both at the same time. hmmmm.