Dumped

NightmareInShiningArmour · 06-08-2009, 10:16 PM

Dumped by my girlfriend.
Yes yes, it hurts like shit, blah blah.
I'm just pissed off coz it's only been 2 months and everything was smooth sailing.
'Parrently it was the distance.
It's completely shit.

Just needed to take a load off and no one was to know about her. Well, in real life.

Pineapple_Juice · 06-08-2009, 11:02 PM

No one was to know about her?

Anyway, sorry about your luck. Getting dumped sucks hard-at least it wasn't 6 months or 2 years or something like that. I know some people have worked it out but generally distance is a relationship killer.

Black Inferno · 06-08-2009, 11:22 PM

Hey Nightmare,I can totally relate to you completely...I broke up with my gf last year which lasted coincedentally 2 month also...I agree with Pineapple,cause my reason is...Too far away...

NightmareInShiningArmour · 06-08-2009, 11:33 PM

For one anything physical would have been illegal seeings she's 19, I'm 14. There was a thread asking about acceptable age difference in General a while back.
Two weeks ago we met and it was insane. I think the fact that I'd spent pure days talking to her meant that we were really close. We knew a lot about each other.
We've been talking and I feel it won't change.

My situation is quite balls.

Underwater Ophelia · 06-09-2009, 03:52 AM

I really feel that there's something weird about a girl who is 19 and enjoys the company of a 14 year old boy.

dabbadmc · 06-09-2009, 11:12 AM

It sucks, but there's plenty more fish in the sea.

Pineapple_Juice · 06-09-2009, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

I really feel that there's something weird about a girl who is 19 and enjoys the company of a 14 year old boy.

I was about to post almost the exact same thing. What would a 19 year old girl want with a 14 year old?

Solumina · 06-09-2009, 05:20 PM

Well I'm friends with people who are quite a number of years younger than I am so I can see why someone would spend time with people of a younger age group, but I do see an issue with being attracted to someone who is at an earlier stage of physical development.

gothicusmaximus · 06-09-2009, 07:44 PM

I'm sorry your long distance relationship with an obviously maladjusted chick didn't work out. I can totally empathize, today I found 20 dollars on the street, what a bummer.

Beneath the Shadows · 06-09-2009, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Pineapple_Juice

I was about to post almost the exact same thing. What would a 19 year old girl want with a 14 year old?

More importantly, where were these 19 year-old girls who were into 14 year-old guys when I was 14?!

zerademark · 06-10-2009, 01:44 AM

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More importantly, where were these 19 year-old girls who were into 14 year-old guys when I was 14?!

In the wrong America.
19 year old girl and 14 year old boy is weird, but 19 year old boy and 14 year old girl is okay? WTF???

Still Jack · 06-10-2009, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by zerademark

In the wrong America.
19 year old girl and 14 year old boy is weird, but 19 year old boy and 14 year old girl is okay? WTF???

Where did Ophie say that a 19 y/o male and a 14 y/o female is okay? I'm beginning to not like you very much.

Beneath the Shadows · 06-10-2009, 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted by zerademark

In the wrong America.
19 year old girl and 14 year old boy is weird, but 19 year old boy and 14 year old girl is okay? WTF???

Who the fuck said that?

JCC · 06-10-2009, 09:07 AM

The issue for me here isn't the age gap, but the implication that she was his girlfriend for two months, though they only met two weeks ago. You spent a month and a half with an intangible girlfriend? No wonder you didn't want people to know about her.

Malice In Wonderland · 06-10-2009, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by NightmareInShiningArmour

For one anything physical would have been illegal seeings she's 19, I'm 14. There was a thread asking about acceptable age difference in General a while back.
Two weeks ago we met and it was insane. I think the fact that I'd spent pure days talking to her meant that we were really close. We knew a lot about each other.
We've been talking and I feel it won't change.

My situation is quite balls.

She dumped you because there was nothing physical.
She found a real person she could screw.
Get over it.
Get drunk and have sex.

Solumina · 06-10-2009, 11:12 AM

Maybe telling someone who is 14 to get drunk and have sex isn't the best advice, though the rest of your post seems pretty accurate to me.

Long distant relationships are hard enough when you already have a strong bond, Jake and I had a really hard time with it back when I took a semester off from school, since I lived on campus I couldn't stay down in Newport News if I wasn't in classes so I had to go home. We had already been together for over a year and we were only four hours apart so we still saw each other just about every other weekend but it was still a noticeable strain on both of us.

Malice In Wonderland · 06-10-2009, 11:26 AM

I'd say it worked for me...
But in truth it didn't.

I'll retract that part.
It can still be fun though.

Tam Li Hua · 06-10-2009, 12:30 PM

I have to agree with Ophie. That situation sounds supremely weird.

Seth Whisper · 06-11-2009, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by NightmareInShiningArmour

For one anything physical would have been illegal seeings she's 19, I'm 14. There was a thread asking about acceptable age difference in General a while back.
Two weeks ago we met and it was insane. I think the fact that I'd spent pure days talking to her meant that we were really close. We knew a lot about each other.
We've been talking and I feel it won't change.

My situation is quite balls.

try being married for 5 years and your wife cheating on you....key words here? you are 14...

Seth Whisper · 06-11-2009, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgot My Password

But you're a dipshit, so I wouldn't really give out advice. Failed marriage, failed suicide attempt. You really gotta get something right before you try to make things better for other people, guy.

Wow you really are bitter aren't you? You get gang ***** by black people or something? Is that why you feel the need to go to every thread I post in and make yoruself feel better by flaming me? Good job dude...get that huge post count up by posting totally useless and irellevant crap. Also...I don't recall giving him any advice. You really do have no reading comprehension skills do you?

Seth Whisper · 06-11-2009, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgot My Password

Nope! I just like trolling people because I have no life and I'm bored. Are you having fun yet?

You aren't bothering me. You just look sad is all. Have fun! lol

Seth Whisper · 06-11-2009, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgot My Password

Give it time, Loser San!

Nah...don't fool yourself into thinking you matter that much. You are words on a screen nothing more nothing less. Congratulations on making me not quite so bored though.

Seth Whisper · 06-11-2009, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgot My Password

Nah...don't fool yourself into thinking you matter that much. You are words on a screen nothing more nothing less. Congratulations on making me not quite so bored though.

lol....I don't think I am important to anyone but those that matter. Good job on getting my point though. Maybe you aren't as stupid as you appear to be. lol

Underwater Ophelia · 06-12-2009, 08:32 AM

Duckie, let's kiss.

Malice In Wonderland · 06-12-2009, 11:28 AM

I think... That VERY possibly, this guy could turn out to be an ok member.
Or just another who Duck pushes over the edge.