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11-13-2007, 07:20 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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It is time.
Well, there comes a time when every punk, no matter how hardcore must come out of their shell. I recently got dumped by my girlfriend and have not felt too good. We shared many interests and it seemed things would work out. Alas, it did not. She dumped me, and gave me no reason for doing so. I've heard through lines of communication that many girls are repulsed by me. I don't know what to do. Is it the way I look, or my personality? I need some support here.
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11-13-2007, 07:25 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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We don't know you enough to say. You don't live in Canada do you? I think I may know you.
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11-13-2007, 07:33 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
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No, I live in Minnesota. Well, I'm 5'10", 210 libs, blond hair, blue eyes, glasses. I dress like a punk since I am one. I'm somewhat blunt and loud in occations.
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11-13-2007, 07:34 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Florida
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Originally Posted by Stormtrooper of Death
Well, there comes a time when every punk, no matter how hardcore must come out of their shell. I recently got dumped by my girlfriend and have not felt too good. We shared many interests and it seemed things would work out. Alas, it did not. She dumped me, and gave me no reason for doing so. I've heard through lines of communication that many girls are repulsed by me. I don't know what to do. Is it the way I look, or my personality? I need some support here.
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You sound like me a couple weeks ago when I got the axe from my girlfriend, except she did yours one better: she dumped me because of an article in Cosmo (long confusing story and slightly self-deprecating). I'd find out the reason why, because I've found that if any of the stuff couples do together mean anything, then a resolution is much deserved.
What types of girls are the ones repulsed by you? If they are the shallow types who only look at you for the clothes you wear, then they aren't worth the trouble my friend. If they are honestly genuine in their reasons (like your personality might be off) then talk to them and see what their reasons are.
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11-13-2007, 07:40 PM
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Location: Minnesota, USA
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From what I've gathered, it seems about 75% of the girls from about every group in school. The only ones who don't are in my (somewhat small) group of friends. I'm basing most of it on what intel I know.
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11-13-2007, 07:47 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Florida
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Well, look on the bright side: you have about 25% that still like you 
All jokes aside, I would honestly not let it bother you. I gather you're still in high school, so it's gonna suck for a little bit, but trust me, that old cliche about finding other fish in the sea is completely and utterly true. There's going to be another girl that will appreciate you for beoing you (jeez, I'm beginning to sound like my mom!) and will actually get to know the REAL you, instead of the you that you present around the halls and in the classroom.
And I do sincerely doubt that the 75% percent mentioned above actually have a good reason to dislike you. If it's anything like my old high school, then they don't matter if they won't bother to get to know you before judging you.
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11-13-2007, 07:52 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
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To clear things up, I'm a senior at my high school. I guess, you are correct spoon. I just hope there still are some punkettes out there.
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11-13-2007, 07:58 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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Originally Posted by Stormtrooper of Death
To clear things up, I'm a senior at my high school. I guess, you are correct spoon. I just hope there still are some punkettes out there.
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There will be 
You just gotta have faith dude.
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11-13-2007, 10:27 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Bard College
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Girls are lame.
My only advice is this: you will find someone who cares for you exactly as you are, and as such, there is no sense in trying to augment your personality or appearance hitherto that point.
Fuck, that sounds cliched. My apologies.
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11-14-2007, 07:44 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: London
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There are always other girls out there.
It can be a hassle trying to find em, but they're there. Somewhere.
Besides, if someone wouldn't have you, would you have them? I'd say no to Natalie Portman if she'd only have me after giving up my music and social scene.
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11-14-2007, 01:40 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
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Thanks everybody, it means a lot. I think I'll devote my extra time to writing and practicing guitar. Thanks.
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11-14-2007, 02:01 PM
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Maybe she dumped you because your only personality trait seems to be "punk."
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11-14-2007, 02:11 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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Well, I'd say my personality is about 85% punk and the rest of it is being a closet nerd. I don't know what else to say.
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11-14-2007, 08:34 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Canada, BC
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Oh god. Maybe she dumped you because you put too many labels on things and she just got fed up with that?
I agree with Ophelia
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11-14-2007, 11:55 PM
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Dude... you are a senior in high school, so you're about my age. 17 or 18 right? YOU ARE NOT FUCKING PUNK GOD DAMN IT PUNK FUCKING DIED BEFORE YOU WERE FUCKING BORN! You are (insert probably boring and generic name here). You are not "punk" you are a person. I would have dumped you too. Honestly, what is a "punk" personality? Loud, rebellious, somewhat political and angry? That's roughly every teen with more than five braincells still in high school. Grow up
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11-15-2007, 05:05 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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... and here we go again...
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11-15-2007, 05:08 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2006
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Ha ha! Finally some one is making my job easy...While we're bashing the poor emo bastard. May i just point out that this TOO, could have gone into the Whining thread slash Rant or whatever... Or have been added to the last emo bastard's thread...
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11-15-2007, 09:12 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Tennessee
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*sets up sign*
Mean People Suck
To SoD: Ignore the haters, they apparently don't have anything better to do with their time.
If she doesn't care for who you are, you don't need her. Doesn't make it easier, for sure. Somewhere out there, you'll find someone who likes you for who you are outside and in. (=
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11-15-2007, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by DepthsofSpace
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Mean People Suck
To SoD: Ignore the haters, they apparently don't have anything better to do with their time.
If she doesn't care for who you are, you don't need her. Doesn't make it easier, for sure. Somewhere out there, you'll find someone who likes you for who you are outside and in. (= |
True, but it is possible that it's the person who just sucks.
I'm not implying you suck, Stormtrooper, I'm just saying that NOT everyone deserves a person who will love them for them unless they make some personality changes.
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11-15-2007, 05:12 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
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I change for no one. I'm my own person and I like the way I am. It's cool, it have me more time to write music for my band. Wormboy, you can say what you want, I know what I am. Thanks much Depths of Space.
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11-15-2007, 05:17 PM
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: In between the gods of time
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I don't think there's anything wrong with you.
She probably just wasn't feeling it, or she started liking someone else.
Or maybe she just didn't want a relationship at the time? I wouldn't worry about it, you'll found someone new =P
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11-15-2007, 05:22 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
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Well thats true. As my friend said "there are many other fish in the sea". Its very true, I've got bigger things right now to concentrate on. Must.....buy.......new.......guitar......amp...... .soon!
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11-15-2007, 05:25 PM
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: In between the gods of time
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
True, but it is possible that it's the person who just sucks.
I'm not implying you suck, Stormtrooper, I'm just saying that NOT everyone deserves a person who will love them for them unless they make some personality changes.
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wow, lmao, that was depressing to read xD
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To the somethingness
Which prevents the nothingness
Like Homer's wild boar
From trashing this way and that
Its white tusks
Through human beings
Like crackling stalks
And to nothing less
I offer this suffering of my father
"The Offering" - Stan Rice
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11-15-2007, 05:39 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Tennessee
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No problem Stormtrooper. It's hard being a punk in the post-punk world, I'm sure. You've got a good attitude about it, and never change for anyone. You'll find someone eventualy. Have fun until then.
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11-15-2007, 05:46 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Minnesota, USA
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I will. Lifes a party, enjoy it. I'm really excited, I'll be purchasing a new amp for my guitar and a distortion box too.
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