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09-23-2008, 06:40 AM
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:(
Oh, well...
My bf broke up with me.
I´m trying not to get gloomy but it´s kinda hard.
It´s even harder at nights, when I know nobody´s going to call me and listen to me 
I guess I just have to move on and be happy.
´cuz that´s the point of life, happiness, isn´t it ?
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09-23-2008, 06:45 AM
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Oh no ! That was very bad..
I'm sorry to hear that.
But it's not the point of life, though
If you feel like you have to cry, then cry.
If moving on and be happy will make you feel better,then go on!!
Live your life fully, laugh and cry with all your heart. Life doesn't last forever.
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09-23-2008, 08:29 AM
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that's funny because the same thing happened to me, so I share your pain.
Only in my case, I can't move on because I see him every freaking day.
Boarding school sucks in that aspect.
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09-23-2008, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by $haDe
Oh no ! That was very bad..
I'm sorry to hear that.
But it's not the point of life, though
If you feel like you have to cry, then cry.
If moving on and be happy will make you feel better,then go on!!
Live your life fully, laugh and cry with all your heart. Life doesn't last forever.
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Yeah. Right now I´ve just got a positive atitude... it´s better like that after all. Maybe if I get upset it would be even worse.
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09-23-2008, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by (heartofflames)
that's funny because the same thing happened to me, so I share your pain.
Only in my case, I can't move on because I see him every freaking day.
Boarding school sucks in that aspect.
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oh.
So sorry you have to see hm everyday... fortunately my ex lives very far away, and doesn´t go to my university.
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09-23-2008, 01:14 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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I'm sorry to hear that, Noumi. Breakups are always hard..
Good luck :3
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09-23-2008, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Noumi
Oh, well...
My bf broke up with me.
I´m trying not to get gloomy but it´s kinda hard.
It´s even harder at nights, when I know nobody´s going to call me and listen to me
I guess I just have to move on and be happy.
´cuz that´s the point of life, happiness, isn´t it ?
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It's better to talk about things, not to bottle it up inside. If thats what you want to do, you always have a non-judgemental ear to listen for comfort. But sorry about that, I've just patched things up with my boyfriend, before that we weren't talking for 2 months. Things aren't so distant anymore.
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10-02-2008, 03:51 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Lebanon, California, Canada
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well, breakups r hard, and believe it or not, its hard on both sides...
but u gotta see it from another perspective, would u rather linger in somthng that's not working out, I mean if u guys broke up, then there must hav been somthng wrong, so when I say ur probably better off, I dont mean cuz ur better than him, but I mean cuz u can now look for a better relation
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10-02-2008, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted by ellelino
I mean if u guys broke up, then there must hav been somthng wrong
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First up, english please, not shorthand.
Anyway, that's not necessarily true. Sometimes people just break up with their partner for absolutely no reason.
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Originally Posted by LadyFilth
It's better to talk about things, not to bottle it up inside. If thats what you want to do, you always have a non-judgemental ear to listen for comfort. But sorry about that, I've just patched things up with my boyfriend, before that we weren't talking for 2 months. Things aren't so distant anymore.
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My ex just bottled things up and wouldn't talk with me about (very) important things that were going on in her life. We were very close and she still wouldn't tell me.
She now has breakdowns as a result. I keep telling her it's not the best thing to do.
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10-02-2008, 04:39 AM
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^ same thing happened to me!! It really sucks
When we had our final big fight he started telling me off about things happened 3 months earlier.
I realized I'm better off without him and broke up with him immediatly.
Noumi, hope you'll feel better *hugs*
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10-02-2008, 05:03 AM
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I can relate. My last boyfriend broke up with me this February, a week before valentine's day...and since my birthday is two days off from v-day, that made it right before my birthday too. But ultimately, even though we'd been together about three years, I took it the best of about any breakup I've had.
Time will help, and with time you'll probably see that you two wouldn't have worked. It takes two people to make a relationship work. The best advice I can give is to allow yourself a day or two to cry, then keep yourself busy with work, hobbies, other friends, etc. to keep your mind off of the situation.
Music helps too...I remember seeing some study saying that songs about lost love were psychologically proven to help people cope with breakups. "Marilyn, My Bitterness" was my friend, as well as other songs with similar content.
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10-02-2008, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Geoluhread
^ same thing happened to me!! It really sucks
When we had our final big fight he started telling me off about things happened 3 months earlier.
I realized I'm better off without him and broke up with him immediatly.
Noumi, hope you'll feel better *hugs*
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Geo, same thing happened here. Well, when I asked him why he wanted to break up he said it was about something that happened two months earlier. And what happened two months earlier was we had a fight over something that in retrospect was really trivial. Still pisses me off that instead of talking about it he'd rather bottle it up inside and then dump me two months later.
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10-02-2008, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by NightmareInShiningArmour
[color=darkorchid]First up, english please, not shorthand.
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You clearly have no concept of what shorthand is.
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10-02-2008, 11:24 AM
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Shorthand is an abbreviated and/or symbolic writing method that increases speed or brevity of writing as compared to a normal method of writing a language.
A vital part of being pedantic is being accurate.
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10-02-2008, 01:17 PM
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I was accurate.
I highly doubt the secretaries of the fifties would count netspeak as shorthand.
I care little for technicalities.
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10-02-2008, 02:15 PM
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Returning to the point, sorry to hear of the split Noumi Best thing I can offer is to have enough things going on in your own life so that you don't have gaps when people come and go. Spend time doing the things you enjoy. Good luck.
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10-02-2008, 11:53 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2008
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Originally Posted by NightmareInShiningArmour
First up, english please, not shorthand.
Anyway, that's not necessarily true. Sometimes people just break up with their partner for absolutely no reason.
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When two people break up for no reason, then there was something wrong, because "no reason", means there's no reason to be in a relationship anymore, and thus ... something wrong
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10-02-2008, 11:59 PM
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Shit happens,learn it,love it and get use to it.
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10-03-2008, 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05
Shit happens,learn it,love it and get use to it.
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Shit like women using you and men abusing children?
Learn it, love it, and get used to it.
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10-03-2008, 09:21 AM
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If you take everything to a such an extreme in person, I would love to take you out for drinks some day.
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10-03-2008, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Jonathan
If you take everything to a such an extreme in person, I would love to take you out for drinks some day.
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I do, and no you wouldn't.
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10-03-2008, 10:36 PM
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I actually wasn't trying to be mean on that reply.
Just posting sound advice for once.
Shit happens,reguardless of what you do in most situations.
Learn it,and try to avoid the same situations to the best of your ability.
Love it,when things go right.
Get use to it,when things start to go south apply your previous knowledge to take care of your own hide.
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10-04-2008, 03:25 AM
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You're single again, all I see is a happy vista of opportunity.
I would like to take Ophie out for drinks, but she'd drink me under the table. And drinking would be the only under-table activity.
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10-04-2008, 08:50 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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I'd have little regret if she put me on top of, through, or under a table.
Especially if she's offering caustic remarks and criticism as she does so.
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10-04-2008, 11:57 AM
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Heh.
I think you guys are really underestimating how much of a stuck-up bitch I am.
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