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Old 10-15-2008, 12:38 PM   #26
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The standard of suicide has slipped dramatically lately. They used to commit suicide in protest in China, now it's alterniteens going on to Gnet saying how because nobody likes them (which is something you have to sort yourself), they might as well commit suicide.

GUESS WHAT MOTHERFUCKER.
SUICIDE ISN'T A FUCKING SOLUTION. IF THEY DON'T LIKE YOU WHEN YOU'RE ALIVE, WHY WOULD THEY LIKE YOU WHEN YOU'RE DEAD?

Jesus, it's not like you're going to be doing anything when you die anyway.
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Old 10-15-2008, 12:43 PM   #27
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Haha this is why I love gnet :L :L
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Old 10-15-2008, 06:26 PM   #28
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Some terrible suggestions:

Do some volunteer work. Soup kitchen, whatever. If your life sucks, put a little effort into making someone else's better.

Get a crappy mcjob, save enough money to get a passport, fly to Tibet join a monastery, and meditate for a year or two. Come back, write a book about your spiritual journey, and bang groupies at the signings.

You might get some perspective. Worst case, you can impress college chicks with your life experiences.

Pick yourself up, by your knee high hot topic platform bootstraps, if you fucking have to.

Reality is not concerned with how things should or could be.
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Old 10-15-2008, 06:37 PM   #29
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If you're serious about it, I'll suggest what helped me when I was all gloomy and "I should just die". Everyday as you lie in bed, think back through your day and find something that made that day worth being alive for. Don't just be a bitch and think for a couple seconds and say "it all sucked" because that's bullshit. If you look for it, there is ALWAYS something worth being alive for. It doesn't have to be big, or even "important" just something that you liked. A smile from a stranger, pride at doing something well, the beauty hidden inside a tree, or the curve of someone's chin. So many things can make a day worth all the bullshit, and most of them are so small you can easily miss them.

That helped me a lot, eventually I just became accustomed to looking at the things that were worth it more than those things that weren't. Hopefully it will do the same for you. I hope you feel better soon.
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Old 10-16-2008, 05:39 AM   #30
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There are a lot of people in the world who are hurting, feel worthless, undesirable. If you are serious about how you feel, then you may have a touch of depression.
I'm not going to say "go see a counselor" because they never did anything for me. Most of the ones I saw were pretty useless, I wondered how they got the job? Of coarse that's not to say there "all" useless.
I had to learn on my own to ride through the dark waves. From the days I felt really shit (suicidal) to the days I felt ok.
First except how you feel, don't fight it, fighting is pointless. It will only make how you feel worse.
Went I learnt to except how I felt I was then able to find ways to distract myself.
I will say this. Thinking about suicide is not a healthy sign. You should tell someone close to you whom you know can offer you support.
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Old 10-16-2008, 11:24 AM   #31
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Feeling like life is pointless and there is no reason to live is a horrible feeling. After I lost my daughter I felt much the same way.

I second the words of Scareebowfairy, and add that finding something like school, an organization, work or something else can be a great to take your mind off what you are thinking and help build relationships with others that can be an incredible source of strength when you are feeling at your lowest.

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Old 10-17-2008, 06:01 AM   #32
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Originally Posted by JCC

GUESS WHAT MOTHERFUCKER.
SUICIDE ISN'T A FUCKING SOLUTION. IF THEY DON'T LIKE YOU WHEN YOU'RE ALIVE, WHY WOULD THEY LIKE YOU WHEN YOU'RE DEAD?

Jesus, it's not like you're going to be doing anything when you die anyway.
It's a little rude but it's touching.

So,JCC, your point is that as he was acting like an empty seat, his dead won't effect others much.

Am I right ?
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Old 10-17-2008, 09:09 AM   #33
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It's a little rude but it's touching.

So,JCC, your point is that as he was acting like an empty seat, his dead won't effect others much.

Am I right ?
Spot on.

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Old 10-17-2008, 11:01 AM   #34
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Usually, I feel sorry for people who feel like this because I know how they feel.
But today, for once, I don't believe the OP.
I'll explain later after I've had dinner.
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Old 10-17-2008, 11:05 AM   #35
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Usually, I feel sorry for people who feel like this
It's awful how their mum won't let them get black lippy, ain't it.
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Old 10-17-2008, 11:13 AM   #36
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I'am not starved for attention! I REALLY meant it when I posted it. I went to bed last night and woke up feeling slightly better but I still mean it. I cant do it yet becuase I cannot let my family be destroyed in such a manner. Not yet.


We have nothing worry about someone who is really suicidal wouldnt care about there family there so focused on death thats all they want! for example my friend killed himself in his moms room =]
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Old 10-18-2008, 02:06 AM   #37
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calm down its ok its probably because u have to fart
Tell me if that was supposed to be a joke.

Because of if it's not....err.... forget it.

There're lots of people that called you a troll.

I didn't, I 'thought' that you're a type of people who stubbornly insisted in anything you did no matter how wrong it was.


May be you're....

I'll stop feeding you then.

*sigh* I was stupid.
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Old 10-18-2008, 05:02 AM   #38
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What's with all the blanket statements being flung around in here?
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