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Old 10-23-2008, 11:58 AM   #26
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We both know high school students can't handle that.
Not true at all.

Anyway, I hug people all the time and it's not allowed, the idea is to A) do it so much, teachers don't bother telling you off for it any more or B) be strategic.
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:10 PM   #27
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And when you're paying property taxes to the school, maybe someone will give a shit about your opinion.

It doesn't matter if YOU don't feel uncomfortable. It's likely other students do.
Also, as mentioned before, it's because if you're allowed to hug and kiss on the cheek, why not just a little kiss on the lips? Why not making out?
It's better to just ban it all, and who cares?

You aren't there to socialize, you're there to learn.
Sure, turn kids into emotionless zombies who don't know how to show their true feelings.
Great idea!
Not.....
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:11 PM   #28
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Wouldn't A) also be a strategy?
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:12 PM   #29
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Meh, at my school not only is PDA banned, but having friends more than two years older or younger than you is 'strongly discouraged'. Doesn't stop anything happening. What are you gonna have? A zero tolerance hug prevention squad?
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:14 PM   #30
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Wouldn't A) also be a strategy?
Yes, but I meant to plan out your hugs so as to avoid being noticed, the first is just hugging outlandishly and not caring.
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:16 PM   #31
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I understood. Just being a dick. :]
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:17 PM   #32
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That's fine, I like dick.
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:21 PM   #33
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We both know high school students can't handle that.
That's a load of bullshit and you fucking know it.
How dare you even suggest that kids can't handle stuff like that.
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:51 PM   #34
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:58 PM   #35
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Sure, turn kids into emotionless zombies who don't know how to show their true feelings.
Great idea!
Not.....
Goddamnit, you're an idiot.
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Old 10-23-2008, 12:59 PM   #36
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That's a load of bullshit and you fucking know it.
How dare you even suggest that kids can't handle stuff like that.
How dare I?

BECAUSE THEY FUCKING CAN'T.
OTHERWISE THERE WOULDN'T BE NEED OF RULES.
EVERYONE WOULD JUST DO THE RIGHT THING.
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Old 10-23-2008, 01:14 PM   #37
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How dare I?

BECAUSE THEY FUCKING CAN'T.
OTHERWISE THERE WOULDN'T BE NEED OF RULES.
EVERYONE WOULD JUST DO THE RIGHT THING.
Oh, they can't, can they?
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Old 10-23-2008, 01:27 PM   #38
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My feelings are divided on this issue. On one hand, watching the average teenage couple flirt is extremely unpleasant for me, so I would not be opposed to the prohibition of such activity. On the other hand, how to remove a bra with one hand was practically the only thing I learned within the hallowed halls of Manhasset High, and I'd be loath to live in a world in which I'd have absolutely nothing to show for my four years of secondary school education.

As someone who has taught high school students, I can say affirmatively that flirting is one of the most annoying ways in which some pissbrain kid can disrupt a class. However, a rule against flirting seems a bit redundant, as there is already a "don't fucking disrupt my class" rule.
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Old 10-23-2008, 01:34 PM   #39
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I really don't get what all the fuss is about. My opinion is that if your upset about the rules forbidding hugging etc. then do it anyway. The most I learned out of school was that you can do what ever the hell you want, as long as you don't get caught.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:10 PM   #40
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How dare I?

BECAUSE THEY FUCKING CAN'T.
OTHERWISE THERE WOULDN'T BE NEED OF RULES.
EVERYONE WOULD JUST DO THE RIGHT THING.
This is a startlingly self-defeating authoritarian view.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:24 PM   #41
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Oh, they can't, can they?
Why so defensive? Relax, you don't need to go crusading for us teens. Besides, a lot of teens CAN'T handle it.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:28 PM   #42
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Why so defensive? Relax, you don't need to go crusading for us teens. Besides, a lot of teens CAN'T handle it.
You haven't met a lot of teens.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:32 PM   #43
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JCC I have no idea that you could handle it but from the perspective of someone who has studied teens it looks quite clearly as though most cannot.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:35 PM   #44
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what do you guys mean by "can't handle"? Like aren't mature about it and go "eewww gross" if they see people kissing?
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:38 PM   #45
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JCC I have no idea that you could handle it but from the perspective of someone who has studied teens it looks quite clearly as though most cannot.
Most is unequal to all.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:38 PM   #46
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Look, all of this 'teens can't handle it' is just as baseless as 'lots of blacks can't handle it' or 'lots of women can't handle it'.

There's absolutely nothing that suggests they can't handle it other than your own experiences with the people you've met, and it's sheer arrogance that would lead you to projecting that on to the entirety of teenagers as if you have an experience of all of them.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:39 PM   #47
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For real. This guy knows what he's talking about. ^ Couldn't agree more.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:42 PM   #48
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Our school is really lazy about this, we can do it as long as management don't know, and they just never emerge from their cosy little hidey-holes in which they natter mindlessly on to each other about school uniforms and a feeling of unity in school and curriculum for excellence and whatever else they talk about.

I hug my friends routinely everyday, and I've seen some over-the-top and inappropriate making-out in my school years.

Nobody cares.
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:43 PM   #49
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For real. This guy knows what he's talking about. ^ Couldn't agree more.
Want to make out in full view of fake authority figures?
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Old 10-23-2008, 03:44 PM   #50
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Sure, I don't give a fuck. My choices, my life right? Right.
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