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10-11-2009, 02:43 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Crappy California
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"Your a Freak"
I hate Being called that.
I cant even go to the mall without someone staring at me like Im a "FREAK"
Or when I go to school everyone is all like "Its not even halloween yet"
And the Fact My mom thinks I'm satanic. People Seriously Need to grow up,
And stop being so childish.
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10-11-2009, 03:21 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 657
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Your ellituhrut.
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10-11-2009, 03:37 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Earth.
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You choose to dress the way you do, just like they choose to think the way they think. If you really want to dress the way you do you just have to deal with that.
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"A casual stroll through the lunatic asylum shows that faith does not prove anything."
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10-11-2009, 03:38 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Cambridge
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God i hope so...imagine being 'normal'...*shivers*
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10-11-2009, 06:20 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Thou Viking capital Denmark.
Posts: 1,971
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Indeed, I couldn't handle being normal.
Really, you dress "weird" and you take the comments. You may even be physically assaulted, you need to deal with it =)
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10-11-2009, 08:31 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Hell Hall
Posts: 1,167
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there is nothing new there.
next ............
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"While I thought that I was learning how to live, I have been learning how to die."
-Leonardo Da Vinci
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10-13-2009, 02:13 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Atlanta, GA
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There will always be a certain segment of the population that THRIVES on bringing you down.
They are called COWARDS, and if the can get everyone to notice YOU, no one will be looking at how pathetic they are.
Fuck them. They are losers who get off on making other people miserable. What "normal" person would WANT to be a part of that so-called "normal" shit anyway? Being a freak isn't all bad.
Next time your mother freaks out about you being a "satanist", look her in the eye, and say "I am just going through a phase. The bigger deal you make of it, the more I will seek negative attention. I do not worship Satan, but I like to annoy you, because that is what teenagers do. Maybe you should just ignore it, and I will eventually grow up." That should shut her up, for a while.
You may choose to be goth forever, but your mom's opinion will matter less when you are no longer under her roof.
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10-14-2009, 12:38 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: SO-IL
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Immortal Love
I hate Being called that.
I cant even go to the mall without someone staring at me like Im a "FREAK"
Or when I go to school everyone is all like "Its not even halloween yet"
And the Fact My mom thinks I'm satanic. People Seriously Need to grow up,
And stop being so childish.
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I wish I could understand what this freak is trying to say. I mean, it's not even Halloween yet, and I think she's satanic.
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10-14-2009, 01:02 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Raxacoricofallapatorius
Posts: 1,750
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I'm rather tired of people saying that people who look down upon those who dress in a manner other than the social norm are evil people.
Listen, learn some cultural Anthropology. People have a certain way they expect things to be, and it's usually based on the culture they grew in and live in. When they see someone completely opposite from what they're raised to know, it challenges them. It challenges their very grasp on the nature of whatever social group the person is from. It's a culture shock, and it messes with people. In their culture, in their world view, you ARE a freak, you're different from what they know to be normal.
If they learn to accept it, or approach it with curiosity, or anything other than blind hatred, they're good people. If they approach it with hatred, you MUST combat it with kindness, not malice. You have to understand, to the common man, you represent all who look like you in their minds. If you act like a cretin, they will assume all in your culture are cretins. I don't like this fact any more than you do, but it is true in many cases. Mind you, I didn't say all, just many.
My advice to you is to dress how you want, and try to show people you're NOT a depraved monster, show them that you're a good person, and you may change how they see a small portion of the world.
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Because before too long there'll be nothing left alive, not a creature on the land or sea, a bird in the sky. They'll be shot, harpooned, eaten, and hunted too much, vivisected by the clever men who prove that there's no such things as a fair world with live and let live. The Royal family go hunting, what an example to give to the people they lead and that don't include me, I've seen enough pain and torture of those who can't speak...
- Tough Shit, Mickey by Conflict
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10-14-2009, 01:16 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2008
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Quote:
Originally Posted by VaVaVoom
There will always be a certain segment of the population that THRIVES on bringing you down.
They are called COWARDS, and if the can get everyone to notice YOU, no one will be looking at how pathetic they are.
Fuck them. They are losers who get off on making other people miserable....
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Good explanation. I'll remember that at work the next time I get 'shredded' by my lovely coworkers.
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10-14-2009, 01:18 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Sheffield UK.
Posts: 2,065
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Shoot everyone in the face that looks at you funny.
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Avoid all needle drugs - The only dope worth shooting is Richard Nixon.
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10-16-2009, 09:26 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: R'lyeh
Posts: 2,104
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You ARE a freak.
Hang yourself.
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Terror Nuclear,Terror Nuclear
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10-16-2009, 10:02 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
Posts: 6,738
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You change what is inside of you to have an impact on yourself. You change what is outside of you to have an impact on others. Your insistence in dressing outside of social norms is designed to get the attention of others (like your post here). You cannot request that attention and then expect it to only take a form that pleases you. However, most people I know who dress in a flamboyant or extravagant manner have a closed rationalization loop in place that validates their feelings and desires even when they get negative feedback.
When I was the manager of various businesses, I would routinely discriminate against people who had an over abundance of displayed tattoos or piercings in my hiring practices, just as I would discriminate against people who would show up for interviews wearing a wife-beater or a latex catsuit.
Many would say it was unfair. I was not interested in being fair. I was interested in finding the optimum candidate who would sell my products to customers and build the business. People who show up in public venues and insist that people should accept them the way they choose to appear are in denial of reality and expecting the world to change to meet their needs. NOT. GONNA. HAPPEN.
So, this needy call for attention DOES make you a maladjusted soul that an unkind person could rightly describe as freakish.
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the screamingly funny,
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10-16-2009, 10:06 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
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Oh, and I'm sure you meant "You're a freak."
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Lead me not into temptation ... follow me, I know a shortcut!
As the poets have mournfully sung,
death takes the innocent young,
the rolling in money,
the screamingly funny,
and those who are very well hung.
Your days are numbered - 26,280 per person on average - 2,000,000,000 heartbeats ... tick, tick, tick
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10-16-2009, 10:13 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 3,360
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I need a freak. To hold me tight. I need a freak, every day and every night.
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10-16-2009, 10:30 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
Posts: 6,738
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She's a very kinky girl
The kind you don't take home to mother
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Lead me not into temptation ... follow me, I know a shortcut!
As the poets have mournfully sung,
death takes the innocent young,
the rolling in money,
the screamingly funny,
and those who are very well hung.
Your days are numbered - 26,280 per person on average - 2,000,000,000 heartbeats ... tick, tick, tick
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10-16-2009, 10:46 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 3,360
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That's racist.
Drunk as fuck, and off to see The Slits. Harr!!
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10-16-2009, 12:54 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
Posts: 6,738
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Rick James sings racist songs?!? Get out of town!!!
... er, unless you're already headed out of town. If so, well, then ...
Shut the freak up!!!
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Lead me not into temptation ... follow me, I know a shortcut!
As the poets have mournfully sung,
death takes the innocent young,
the rolling in money,
the screamingly funny,
and those who are very well hung.
Your days are numbered - 26,280 per person on average - 2,000,000,000 heartbeats ... tick, tick, tick
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10-16-2009, 04:07 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: the concrete and steel beehive of Southern California
Posts: 7,449
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EEK! It's a freak!
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10-17-2009, 11:03 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
Posts: 6,909
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Move to a more liberal town. Oh wait...
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No Gods. No Kings.
Not all beliefs and ideas are equal.
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10-17-2009, 06:37 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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"Your insistence in dressing outside of social norms is designed to get the attention of others (like your post here)"
Why do you assume that people are dressing for the attention of others (by which I assume you meanpeople outside the wearer's social group)?
It's like when 14-year-olds who wear tank-tops or whatever have to put up with wolf-whistles from crusty old pervs who assume that their clothing suggests the kids are placing themselves in the sexual cattlemarket, when all they are doing is enjoying some dressing-up with their friends, on their way to a teen disco.
if you are dressing for yourself or with your friends, then simply ignore others who have a problem with that. From a very young age, people, from the time they are children, will decide to pick on those who are different , so long as they have others to back them up. It is part of subsuming themselves into a tribe.
Others prefer to be individuals.
You can be a sheep or a shepherd.
I am a guy in my 40's who still wears leather jackets, cowboy boots and SLAYER t-shirts and I dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks about that.
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10-17-2009, 07:08 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: On the fast road to Nowtown!
Posts: 857
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Quote:
Originally Posted by smeghead
"Your insistence in dressing outside of social norms is designed to get the attention of others (like your post here)"
Why do you assume that people are dressing for the attention of others (by which I assume you meanpeople outside the wearer's social group)?
It's like when 14-year-olds who wear tank-tops or whatever have to put up with wolf-whistles from crusty old pervs who assume that their clothing suggests the kids are placing themselves in the sexual cattlemarket, when all they are doing is enjoying some dressing-up with their friends, on their way to a teen disco.
if you are dressing for yourself or with your friends, then simply ignore others who have a problem with that. From a very young age, people, from the time they are children, will decide to pick on those who are different , so long as they have others to back them up. It is part of subsuming themselves into a tribe.
Others prefer to be individuals.
You can be a sheep or a shepherd.
I am a guy in my 40's who still wears leather jackets, cowboy boots and SLAYER t-shirts and I dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks about that.
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Your motherfucking username.
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Look at me, guys! I'm twirling my guitar and kicking just like we did at practice!
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10-17-2009, 08:08 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Dirty South
Posts: 1,726
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Your motherfucking location.
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Kill your idol. Come on, jump into the void!
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10-18-2009, 06:06 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
Posts: 6,738
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Quote:
Originally Posted by smeghead
I am a guy in my 40's who still wears leather jackets, cowboy boots and SLAYER t-shirts and I dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks about that.
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Your motherfucking post count.
Oh, that reminds me ...
http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c3...od_Listens.jpg
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Lead me not into temptation ... follow me, I know a shortcut!
As the poets have mournfully sung,
death takes the innocent young,
the rolling in money,
the screamingly funny,
and those who are very well hung.
Your days are numbered - 26,280 per person on average - 2,000,000,000 heartbeats ... tick, tick, tick
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10-18-2009, 09:30 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Dirty South
Posts: 1,726
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Immortal Love
I hate Being called that.
I cant even go to the mall without someone staring at me like Im a "FREAK"
Or when I go to school everyone is all like "Its not even halloween yet"
And the Fact My mom thinks I'm satanic. People Seriously Need to grow up,
And stop being so childish.
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I believe the term is "super freak, super freak, you're super freaky"
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Kill your idol. Come on, jump into the void!
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