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10-17-2009, 02:18 PM
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#201
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Originally Posted by Still Jack
I can't really hold it against her. Everyone makes choices, you've got to live with them.
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That's not true in this case, she's doing more harm to another than herself.
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10-17-2009, 02:34 PM
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#202
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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While a dumb decision especially when the pregnancy is wanted, its hard to say what a person should do when their body isn't just theirs anymore, especially if there is addiction involved. Being obese and pregnant can be just as bad as smoking and drinking while pregnant, but I don't have the heart to yell at every pregnant fat person I see.
creature, if the pregnancy is going well so far, great, but you should really really cut down on the drinking if not eliminate it altogether, why take that chance?
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10-17-2009, 05:52 PM
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#203
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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Originally Posted by Saya
While a dumb decision especially when the pregnancy is wanted, its hard to say what a person should do when their body isn't just theirs anymore...
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Wait, are you against abortion as well for that very same reason?
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10-17-2009, 06:01 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Originally Posted by Mir
Wait, are you against abortion as well for that very same reason?
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What, where've you been? I'm pro choice.
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10-17-2009, 06:08 PM
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#205
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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Originally Posted by Saya
What, where've you been? I'm pro choice.
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I think Mir is, rather stupidly, implying that if you believe that a woman has a duty not to gluttonously inebriate herself while pregnant with a child that she plans to carry to term, that you should also be against abortion.
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10-17-2009, 06:19 PM
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#206
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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I said its stupid when its a wanted pregnancy because she's potentially harming her child, which I would think a mother would like to avoid, but I can't be too harsh since she is already willingly giving up her bodily autonomy by carrying to term, and I do try to respect the fact that pregnant women are still human and still have autonomy.
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10-17-2009, 06:22 PM
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#207
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Join Date: Sep 2009
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MAAAN... I really want to assume creature is lying about everything she posts rather than think that there is a real person on the other end of the interwebs who actually thinks she's justified in her actions. Either way, I am totally unimpressed at best. Fucking A, if this is her outlook while pregnant, I can't imagine what the kid's life in the world is going to be like. She's completely immature and is no condition to take care of a child.
Creature, get your shit together. You need therapy. I mean that in the sincerest sense. Do it for the fucking kid.
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10-18-2009, 12:26 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Sheffield UK.
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Originally Posted by JCC
That's not true in this case, she's doing more harm to another than herself.
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Good point...
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10-18-2009, 02:09 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Cambridge
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Originally Posted by SweetJane
MAAAN... I really want to assume creature is lying about everything she posts rather than think that there is a real person on the other end of the interwebs who actually thinks she's justified in her actions. Either way, I am totally unimpressed at best. Fucking A, if this is her outlook while pregnant, I can't imagine what the kid's life in the world is going to be like. She's completely immature and is no condition to take care of a child.
Creature, get your shit together. You need therapy. I mean that in the sincerest sense. Do it for the fucking kid.
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I suppose techinically it could be called in utero child abuse huh?
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10-18-2009, 06:16 AM
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#210
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More like in utero ethanol lubrication.
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10-18-2009, 06:58 AM
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#211
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Originally Posted by SweetJane
MAAAN... I really want to assume creature is lying about everything she posts rather than think that there is a real person on the other end of the interwebs who actually thinks she's justified in her actions. Either way, I am totally unimpressed at best. Fucking A, if this is her outlook while pregnant, I can't imagine what the kid's life in the world is going to be like. She's completely immature and is no condition to take care of a child.
Creature, get your shit together. You need therapy. I mean that in the sincerest sense. Do it for the fucking kid.
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thank you for your concern but i do not need any of it.
yes i'm indeed a real person.
you are not the best person to give advices on the subject anyway.
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10-18-2009, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Mir
More like in utero ethanol lubrication.
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what the hell.
that's funny.
how fucking hilarious .....
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10-18-2009, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Tiphareth
I suppose techinically it could be called in utero child abuse huh?
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that must be the most hilarious comment out of the lot.
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10-18-2009, 07:04 AM
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#214
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Join Date: Sep 2009
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Originally Posted by Saya
While a dumb decision especially when the pregnancy is wanted, its hard to say what a person should do when their body isn't just theirs anymore, especially if there is addiction involved. Being obese and pregnant can be just as bad as smoking and drinking while pregnant, but I don't have the heart to yell at every pregnant fat person I see.
creature, if the pregnancy is going well so far, great, but you should really really cut down on the drinking if not eliminate it altogether, why take that chance?
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well since i had that bad cold ,i'm not touching it any more.
i just had a hard time and realised that i was not alone and had to think about what i was doing.
i felt like shit for doing and felt like a stupid selfish fucking bitch .
Now i'm staying on the safe side and don't drink or do anything that could harm her.
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10-18-2009, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted by JCC
That's not true in this case, she's doing more harm to another than herself.
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i realised that and instead of not doing anything about it.
i did change it.
i just had a very had time with personal stuff and carried myself like a coward .
i didn't do the smartest thing that's true but now i fixed it.
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10-18-2009, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Mir
Even with the drinking binges whilst pregnant, I doubt the newly born kid will be as retarded as her mom.
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i didn't do so all my fucking pregnancy ,
i just had a hard few weeks that's all.
go back in your fucking box.
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10-18-2009, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Solumina
That has nothing to do with the mental health of the baby.
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should i care about what you think?
clearly not.
If i was a fucking alcoholic then maybe but you can't call someone who had couples of drinks not even everyday in probably 4 or 5 occasions in the space of a few weeks one.
i didn't drink before that or after so your bullshit is irrelevant.
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10-18-2009, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted by honeythorn
All the same, drinking that amount and types of alchohol, espescially with painkillers on top is bad enough for the health of most people ( though most obviously recover ) , but doing it while you're pregnant..well there are no words for such irresponsibility.
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that happen once and you make a story about it.
i'm impressed ...........
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10-18-2009, 07:29 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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Originally Posted by creature6
i didn't do so all my fucking pregnancy ,
i just had a hard few weeks that's all.
go back in your fucking box.
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You seem to think that your posts from the last 5-6 weeks have disappeared.
Secondly, if you don't care what other's have to say, why even bother responding?
Finally, sarcasm doesn't come across very well when you type like a retarded four year old.
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10-18-2009, 07:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Mir
You seem to think that your posts from the last 5-6 weeks have disappeared.
Secondly, if you don't care what other's have to say, why even bother responding?
Finally, sarcasm doesn't come across very well when you type like a retarded four year old.
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i leave you to your poor way of thinking..............
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10-18-2009, 07:48 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Cambridge
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Originally Posted by creature6
i leave you to your poor way of thinking..............
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You do have a remarkable knack for pissing people off don't you?
Is bringing out the worst in people a life-style choice or is it just something you like to do on here?
Can you not see that with all your claims on the boards some people might prefer to think of you as a liar rather than as a pregnant alcoholic?
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10-18-2009, 08:04 AM
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#222
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what should i care what others are thinking .
i'm only talking about people who are thick and comment based on a few comments i wrote without knowing the all story.
Clearly whether they think i'm an alcoholic pregnant woman or a liar they are unfortunately wrong.
but they choose to pick on it and make a big thing out of it.
So i do not care what those few people think .
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10-18-2009, 08:19 AM
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#223
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Join Date: Sep 2009
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Originally Posted by creature6
thank you for your concern but i do not need any of it.
yes i'm indeed a real person.
you are not the best person to give advices on the subject anyway.
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Actually I think I'm an optimal candidate to give advice on this subject, considering I have gone through intensive therapy and benifitted greatly from the experience and my chemical imbalances are being treated to a point where I feel healthier and able to function better than I ever have in my life.
But whatever, go ahead and keep drinking your fetus into retardation because you can't deal with your shit.
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10-18-2009, 08:30 AM
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#224
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Join Date: Oct 2005
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Originally Posted by creature6
well since i had that bad cold ,i'm not touching it any more.
i just had a hard time and realised that i was not alone and had to think about what i was doing.
i felt like shit for doing and felt like a stupid selfish fucking bitch .
Now i'm staying on the safe side and don't drink or do anything that could harm her.
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Okay, I really really hope you're not going to do it anymore, and I hope your baby is born happy and healthy.
But honestly I think SweetJane is right, if you're feeling that low when something goes wrong, you're not dealing with it the right way. Therapy would probably be the best thing even if you're feeling all better now so you can deal with it better if it ever happens again, better to fix the roof while the sun is shining after all.
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10-18-2009, 08:30 AM
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#225
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Hell Hall
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Originally Posted by SweetJane
Actually I think I'm an optimal candidate to give advice on this subject, considering I have gone through intensive therapy and benifitted greatly from the experience and my chemical imbalances are being treated to a point where I feel healthier and able to function better than I ever have in my life.
But whatever, go ahead and keep drinking your fetus into retardation because you can't deal with your shit.
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Maybe if you read what i wrote carefully you would have seen that i'm no longer drinking.
So i dealt with my problems and fixed what i was doing so your lsat sentence does not have any meaning any longer.
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