hey, gbw -
hardships suck. you might want to browse a bit to see if there's a chance you can somehow persuade the airline to refund the tickets on a hardship case, if your family doesn't want to take the trip.
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(copied and pasted from
http://airconsumer.ost.dot.gov/publi...s.htm#airfares)
Paying for and refunding airline tickets
If you paid for your ticket with cash and you have a refundable fare, you can often get an immediate refund from the issuing airline or travel agency. If you paid by personal check, the refund will gen- erally have to be mailed to you. NOTE: In some cases tickets purchased overseas in foreign currency can only be refunded in that same currency and country, due to foreign government monetary restrictions. Keep this in mind if you are considering buying a ticket in a foreign country.
* When you pay by credit card, your charge account is billed-whether you use your tickets or not. You won't receive credit unless the original unused tickets are returned to the airline. You usually can't get a cash refund for a credit card purchase.
* If you buy your tickets with a credit card and then change your flights, the ticket agent may want to credit the amount of the old tickets and issue another set with a second charge to your account. You may want to insist that the value of your old tickets be applied to the new ones, with the difference in price charged or credited to your account. While this creates a little extra work for the airlines, it prevents double-billing to your charge account.
Payment by credit card provides certain protections under federal credit laws. When a refund is due, the airline must forward a credit to your card company within seven business days after receiving a complete refund application. If you paid by credit card for a refundable fare and you have trouble getting a refund that you are due, report this in writing to your credit card company. If you write to them within 60 days from the time that they mailed your first monthly statement showing the charge for the airline ticket, the card company should credit your account even if the airline doesn't. This procedure is particularly useful if your airline ceases operations before your flight.
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i included that in case your father paid for the tickets with his credit card. also, what airline was it? there are ways to go about petitioning each for refunds based on individual need.
whatever the outcome, good luck to you and your family. i hope you find suitable arrangements for ya'all and those kittens... well, either that or e_p_s can use them for her blended concoction... some kind of kitten drink or something. i don't know, she's pretty fucked up.
you could try browsing here as well -
http://www.airliners.net/discussions...on/search.main
you might find some backdoor info. and yes, i said "backdoor". heh.
