Sex. - Page 7

Apathy's_Child · 04-14-2009, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Mir

I read somewhere that 80% of all women are unable to experience vaginal orgasms. So guys just need to learn to give good head.

It can be done with practise with some women - it's all about clitoral stimulation at the same time. Hitting the sweet spot + penetration = a feeling you don't get from one or the other - so I'm told, anyway.

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Originally Posted by Mir

We should turn this into a thread about compiling pointers on giving good head. For posterity!

a) You gotta enjoy giving head. I think this one is the most important.
b) Don't jump in. Tease your way into it.
c) Be gentle. Some women are very sensitive.
d) Not all women are exactly the same. You need to communicate with your partner, and find out what works for her the best.

All I can really think of right now. You want to add to that?

e) Unless you enjoy being slapped on the forehead and glared at by the eyes of an axe-murderer, shaving first is a must.
f) I've been told that looking into the woman's eyes while eating her is creepy.

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Mir

We should turn this into a thread about compiling pointers on giving good head. For posterity!

a) You gotta enjoy giving head. I think this one is the most important.
b) Don't jump in. Tease your way into it.
c) Be gentle. Some women are very sensitive.
d) Not all women are exactly the same. You need to communicate with your partner, and find out what works for her the best.

All I can really think of right now. You want to add to that?

Hm...direct stimulation of the clitoris is too much for some women but this doesn't mean that they can't enjoy oral, you just need to focus on the hood so that they can get indirect stimulation.

On a similar note don't laser focus on any one spot, have fun licking, kissing, and nibbling your way around the whole area.

Don't just slobber over everything, enthusiasm is a good thing but try not to just shove your face down there.

Also people see unaware that there are quite a number of different oral sex positions and that they actually result in different sensations so try them out and see what works best for both of you.

That's all I can think of at the moment, if I get motivated I'll go check and see what my textbook has to say about the subject.

Breathless Horror · 04-14-2009, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Solumina

That's all I can think of at the moment, if I get motivated I'll go check and see what my textbook has to say about the subject.

...Textbook? Must have been fun doing the field research!

korinna5555 · 04-14-2009, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Solumina

That's all I can think of at the moment, if I get motivated I'll go check and see what my textbook has to say about the subject.

Kay, Dr. Ruth.

XD

Pyre · 04-14-2009, 01:57 PM

Apathy: It's true: looking into the eyes of a woman while going down on her is creepy. At least, for me, and obviously for someone else. It does not have the same effect that it seems to have on guys. Then again, I am self-conscious about my appearance, so I always hate it when they look into my eyes/face during any act.

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child

e) Unless you enjoy being slapped on the forehead and glared at by the eyes of an axe-murderer, shaving first is a must.

Just be sure that you do a good job as stubble feels much like sandpaper and that tends to ruin any chance of fun.

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Originally Posted by korinna5555

Kay, Dr. Ruth.
XD

You're just jealous that human sexuality counts as college credit : P

korinna5555 · 04-14-2009, 02:05 PM

Absolutely!

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 02:07 PM

Yeah it is kind of the greatest class ever : D

Apathy's_Child · 04-14-2009, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyre

Apathy: It's true: looking into the eyes of a woman while going down on her is creepy. At least, for me, and obviously for someone else. It does not have the same effect that it seems to have on guys. Then again, I am self-conscious about my appearance, so I always hate it when they look into my eyes/face during any act.

Well, you guys tend to be prettier than us. I wouldn't want some hairy monster with big eyebrows ogling me when I'm ready to explode either.

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Originally Posted by Solumina

Just be sure that you do a good job as stubble feels much like sandpaper and that tends to ruin any chance of fun.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnhKS...aynext_from=PL

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 02:38 PM

Also ladies you don't need to shave but it can be a little difficult for a tongue to find its way through a big bush so occasionally mow the lawn
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9JZWpZS6-g

Mr E Nigma · 04-14-2009, 02:38 PM

I'll never give someone head.. never needed to and the mere thought of doing it makes me nauseated...

So the "make sure to enjoy it" sort of kills the rest of the list for me.... hah

isobel black · 04-14-2009, 02:43 PM

About that looking into a woman's eyes thing, I actually really like sharing a tender moment during oral sex, where you intertwine fingers and look into eachothers eyes.

It's probably something I do practically everytime I go down on a girl. I'm pretty sure my ex liked it, and never got any complaints from previous partners either.

JCC · 04-14-2009, 02:59 PM

Intertwining fingers? Eye contact?

You sentimental old wankers.

ZyklonB · 04-14-2009, 04:50 PM

I dunno, I like giving head. But I've heard lots of other guys don't. Then again, this is coming from the guy who likes having sex when a woman is on her period. To each his own I guess.

isobel black · 04-14-2009, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by JCC

Intertwining fingers? Eye contact?

You sentimental old wankers.

Touché... But hey, can't a couple of chicks get all mushy now and again? We do tend to like that shit, you know.

I just don't think it's creepy to have eye contact during oral, and this is the first time I've heard anyone mention it.

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 05:05 PM

I'm all for a bit of eye contact but I really don't like it when the person looks up at me the whole time

KontanKarite · 04-14-2009, 05:08 PM

You just need a big ol' pair of brown eyes looking up at ya.

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 05:20 PM

Come to think of it I'm pretty sure I have never hooked up with someone with brown eyes, I should really fix that.

Mir · 04-14-2009, 05:26 PM

Get your boyfriend (Jake?) to buy brown contact lenses!

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 05:38 PM

Nah Jake has such lovely blue eyes, it would be a shame to cover them. I'm thinking that I will look for a brown eyed girl to come join us for a night.

RozzVanian · 04-14-2009, 05:48 PM

They need a class at school that actually shows you how to have sex. I'm afraid when the time finally comes, I won't be able to perform the right way because I've had NO experience in the love department. It's gonna be awkward as hell for the both of us.

Pyre · 04-14-2009, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by RozzVanian

They need a class at school that actually shows you how to have sex. I'm afraid when the time finally comes, I won't be able to perform the right way because I've had NO experience in the love department. It's gonna be awkward as hell for the both of us.

That's what porn is for.

Mir · 04-14-2009, 06:36 PM

And hookers too.

Solumina · 04-14-2009, 06:36 PM

Porn has people in the most visually appealing positions, not the easiest or most pleasurable. It can be good for inspiration if you get bored but I wouldn't really recommend it to first timers. Honestly there is little chance that your first time isn't going to be at least a bit awkward but as long as you just go with what feels good you'll be fine.

Pyre · 04-14-2009, 07:30 PM

My first time wasn't awkward at all, but it could be due to the fact it wasn't planned out.