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Old 05-10-2006, 01:36 PM   #51
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Kinflame, EC is not 13 yet. Click on her username, and you'll get "View Public Profile" option (among others) -- you'll find the info she posted there.

You were wrong to be hurtful (it is wrong to hurt people, except in self-defense), and I believe you also misjudged her. She said she had been repeatedly hurt, because of it became a bit reserved, and also learnt to fight for herself -- that doesn't seem like a weakling to me.

(EC, have I misinterpreted your words?)
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Old 05-10-2006, 01:54 PM   #52
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By the way, I'm also thirty minutes from DC...

Bethesda, Maryland.

Anyway, I'm sorry if you actually found it offensive. I'm sorry for being hurtful, and while it may not be eloquent it is heartfelt if it was indeed such a callous remark.

Will that do? And while I may have been wrong I don't take kindly to all you fucking idiots who keep riding my ass about saying one stupid thing, Sanctus. Even if I was wrong in the extreme, shortly it's NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS. Superior bitch.

EC, I truly am sorry. I do appreciate you not being just another flamer like almost everyone else.
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Old 05-10-2006, 02:02 PM   #53
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Of course. What an obvious fact.

:Sarcasm contnues to rain over the DC area, with large thunderstorms of irony approaching from the midwest:
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Old 05-10-2006, 05:41 PM   #54
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I officially accept your apology. Thank you.

I noticed you're from Bethesda beforehand. Quite ironic that my name is Beth. You know, you may be a pain with bad manners but I like you.

The 'will that do' sort of... well it's an improvement. I knew there was a reason I didn't rip into you.

Angel011 you interpretation is perfect.

Darkangel which she? I'm guessing Sanctus.
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Old 05-10-2006, 05:49 PM   #55
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Mm. Good to know that yoou like me.

Honestly I don't see how anyone has been hurt by this and how my actions make me an asshole. Maybe it was not prudent to respond to your post the way I did, and my remark was unneccessary and most probably incorrect.

I apologized for THAT, and will do so again.
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Old 05-10-2006, 06:02 PM   #56
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Kudos for coming out on top of this, Kinflame.
If Cellist is not unhappy, then it's probably best if everyone else drops this. Yes, it does seem like there was a bit of a fuss. ^_^ (A bit is a gross understatement).
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Old 05-10-2006, 06:35 PM   #57
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I'm good at that.

Though sometimes I dig my hole pretty fuckin' deep...

So, people should probably start getting these threads back on track.
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Old 05-10-2006, 10:44 PM   #58
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I'd say I'm sorry as well but... ahh what the hell, I'm sorry for flaming the ever living hell out of you Mr. Kinflame. Just play nice, we like our members here and don't appreciate a newbie stepping in and dogging them so unnecessarily. If we had openly berated a hard memory of yours or one of your friends as a first impression, chances are you'd react in much the same way.

Oh and as far as being a superior bitch... welcome to Sanctus, baby.
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Old 05-11-2006, 12:36 AM   #59
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i can't understand how anybody would hit someone they claim to be in love with, for any reason, at any time. it's just completely incomprehensible to me. it doesn't matter how much they piss you off, how angry they make you, if you love somebody, truly, then you'd never raise a finger against them. there's just no justification in the world for it, ever. the thought should never even enter your mind. and the same for them, if they truly love you.
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Old 05-11-2006, 01:34 AM   #60
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*SCREAMS* ED!!! I missed you!!

I agree ED, although the boy and I fight in jest I wouldn't even think of hitting him in an angry situation.
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Old 05-12-2006, 11:03 PM   #61
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I actually love superior bitches. Just not when they act superior to me specifically.

As for hitting someone you love, it's often when we revert to our primal sides where we believe somehow might makes right, and violence will solve your problems. It's a condition that brings war about, as well as domestic abuse on a much smaller scale.
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Old 05-13-2006, 03:12 AM   #62
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Hitting someone can mean a large number of different things. More often it is a demonstration of dissatisfation.

Sometimes I think people just try to hard to stay together. They meant and fell in love, then can't admit they are with the wrong person. So in the course of changing them into what "they should be" get violent. May even think they are helping the other, not realizing the other person is just fine the way they are already.
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Old 05-13-2006, 05:22 AM   #63
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I actually love superior bitches. Just not when they act superior to me specifically.
Well then let's chat... I'd love to get to know you and see how much of an asshole you really* intend to be.
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Old 05-14-2006, 11:57 AM   #64
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I intend to avoid sensitive subjects from now on, or at least be careful not to start something like this all over again.

Likewise, you seem rather interesting. Let's chat.

You have a screenname on either MSN Messenger or AIM?
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Old 05-17-2006, 02:08 PM   #65
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