Sexuality - Page 80

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 08-30-2006, 06:23 PM

Yes, I must agree. It's not right for someone to shove their beliefs and such in one's face. Especially when it comes to sexuality. I mean yes, I would prefer is everyone in the world were never homophobic or judgemental on things like sex. But still. You shouldn't try to shove it one's face.

PersephoneX · 08-30-2006, 09:59 PM

i'm hobophobic...scared of bums!

Jupetta · 08-30-2006, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Godslayer Jillian

You do know what asexual is, right?

Asexual in human terms means that you are more interested in your hand than a partner. ;P

transformingfate · 08-31-2006, 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Jupetta

Asexual in human terms means that you are more interested in your hand than a partner. ;P

LOL, Jupetta. And I only say "LOL" when I am. Literally. You put it so aptly.

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Originally Posted by Crying_Crimson_Tears

Yes, I must agree. It's not right for someone to shove their beliefs and such in one's face. Especially when it comes to sexuality. I mean yes, I would prefer is everyone in the world were never homophobic or judgemental on things like sex. But still. You shouldn't try to shove it one's face.

KUDOS to you and badteccy! *hugs* Thank you for voicing the thoughts I cringed at posting. I sometimes forget that most goths are like me in their tolerance. I'm too used to dealing with evil regular people.

Delkaetre · 08-31-2006, 05:57 AM

Breasts are nice, but not essential.
Upon consideration, perhaps pan is more apt for me? Male or female does not bother me. It's who the person is that matters, and I suppose that if I met the right one I could have an interest in trans as well. The occasion has nto arisen, as I've not the sexual appetite that most my age would seem to.
(There's a m2f pre-op lesbian in our lot who flirts with me when drunk, but she's not my type... very, very girly)

Godslayer Jillian · 08-31-2006, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Jupetta

Asexual in human terms means that you are more interested in your hand than a partner. ;P

That is awesome!!

Sorry, I didn't notice the tongue-in-cheek pride in the first post. My apologies.

Euphoric Nightmare · 09-08-2006, 11:11 AM

I am straight but I don't have a problem with homosexuals or bisexuals. I don't think it matters what your sexuality is. Just be happy with yourself and don't let other's bother you.

c130 · 09-08-2006, 02:03 PM

Very glad to hear about other asexuals! I'm not alone.

I'm sort of bi-asexual. As in I'll find members of both sexes attractive emotionally, but I'm roughly as interested in having sex with them as sexually active folk would be interested in sex with a meat grinder. (And I'm not talking about masochist types here...)

unedifying · 09-08-2006, 06:53 PM

I may be straight, but I am still as disgusted as anyone over those people who think that a man and a man or a woman and a woman's love is not as real as a man and a woman's. I could continue further about my distaste for any political official who votes againts gay marrige in their states. But really, that wouldn't even be necessary.

Spectral Despondence · 09-15-2006, 09:51 PM

I'm straight - but definitely not discriminate. Love knows no gender in my opinion. Just for me its with the opposite sex =P

Darkbender423 · 09-28-2006, 02:40 PM

I perosnally refuse to classify sexuality, I feel that people are simply sexual and should express that in whatever way they feel most comfortable at the time. I say if something feels right do it if it doesn't don't. By following bliss and natural instincts people will allow themselves to obtain maximum pleasure in life. Not placing limitations on what they will allow themselves to experiance. I don't discriminate against anyone for anything except ignorance and sheer stupidity.

BlackButterfly · 09-28-2006, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Immortal_Death

Nonfatsuperjesus's avatar gave me an erection. Im Straight..

Yes... it IS quite... um... jiggly, isn't it?

I have pansexual tendencies... I think... I look at girls the same way that guys are said to, and I *love* beautiful men, and I like masculine guys too (but not too much so...)... I've as of now have never had sex with a female, but hey... I'm still young...

Decay|Of|Belief · 09-28-2006, 05:27 PM

Well, let's see.. I'm bisexual with a preference leaning more towards women, but have interacted sexually more with a man, though personally, I don't feel I could ever label myself one specific way -- meaning, categorizing myself under one extremity or the other, i.e. straight or lesbian, considering there are certain attributes a man has, not anatomically, that a woman doesn't, and certain attributes most females take on, that men do not -- again, not speaking from an anatomic stand point; I also believe in serial monogamy.. instead of say, polyamory or polyfidelity. *Shrugs* Though, I guess one thing I could say for myself is that even though I prefer a double X chromosome in comparison to an X and Y, that a girl who presents herself with outward masculinity is more likely to catch my eye then one who's "girly," and feminine, and in the same sense, a more sensitive nature or disposition in a male -- also, their outward appearance, is preferable.

Androgyny is secksss, yo.. . XD

gnulinuxman · 12-09-2006, 03:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Shadow girl

Asexual and proud

Me too. No interest in sex.

Incidentally, that common lack of interest in it is what brought us together in the first place, thanks to a forum about it!

gnulinuxman · 12-09-2006, 07:37 PM

Nude pictures/people make me want to gag.

Draconysius · 12-09-2006, 07:49 PM

In my opinion, love simply does not exist. EVEN when one does something kind to someone, one does this because it gives ONESELF a pleasant feeling. Thus, there really is no selfless act in existence. At least, this is how I see it. Though I believe love is a delusion, I still have a need for affection and friendship, and this is what I more often refer to as "love", in my own terms.

deathbecomesme · 12-09-2006, 07:54 PM

im bi, the way i see it is i don't really care if its a guy or a girl i will go out with and be with both sexualy.

gnulinuxman · 12-09-2006, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by BeckySlater

Question-

Have you always been asexual or did you develop asexuality?

Well, I have always been asexual, with no interest in sex. I didn't always know about the term, but I'm glad I'm not alone, and my current girlfriend (Shadow girl) is also asexual.

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Originally Posted by BeckySlater

So, do you feel you are a situational asexual or confirmed, bred in the bone?

(Not trying to sound offensive in the question, just curious.)

I am 100% sure I'm totally asexual. I don't even want any kids either. I've never been more sexual at certain times. Neither has Shadow girl.

In fact, people thought I was gay since I only expressed interest at first in being friends-only with girls, just because I didn't find anyone who could be right for me, and I even dumped my first girlfriend because she demanded all these sexual activities with me and I didn't want them. Fortunately, Shadow girl won't do that to me. XD

Miss_Hazie_Lane · 12-09-2006, 08:29 PM

pansexual, or more accurately hypersexual, basically amounting to: I don't give a fuck what's between your legs, just hurry up and do me

Mick Ignis · 12-09-2006, 08:37 PM

I find sex to be a very beautiful and meaningful thing. A form of artistic expression that's both mental, physical, and spiritual. I'm not the type of person to just have casual sex. There needs to be a deep connection.

I'm not a fan of pornography. However, I love pin-up work such as that found on Blue Blood, Suicide Girls, etc as well as Burlesque. It’s all artistic.

OsoCrazy · 12-09-2006, 09:13 PM

I'm not sure if i'm Straight or Bi. I know I loove Woman/Girls, but there seems to be a few boys that spark my interest as well. >.< Hmm...

Sexually-confused?

Pyre · 12-09-2006, 09:13 PM

I had seen "Pansexual" used previously here and gave it a looksie on UrbanDictionary to check its meaning (as it is a new phrase to me), and I must say that it rather describes me well. I never would have admitted to it to my friends, as they would all think me sick and twisted, but I find most sexes to be appealing (though hermaphrodites have to be the one exception, incidentally). I realized I have an interest in transvestites while reading Da Vinci Code, ironically. And androgynous people? Whew, don't get me started. I prefer males, but any male that looks like a female or has strong feminine features definitely wins me over.

I consider myself straight, but I am about to force lesbianism on myself as an answer to my troubles.

Pyre · 12-09-2006, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by OsoCrazy

I'm not sure if i'm Straight or Bi. I know I loove Woman/Girls, but there seems to be a few boys that spark my interest as well. >.< Hmm...

Sexually-confused?

I don't know what to tell you. I know I have often had sexual tendencies toward females, but I don't consider myself bi. I have lesbian dreams quite often (I actually find myself with a woman much more often than I do with a man), and I find the female body to be more beautiful than a male's, but it is confusing. I think it's human nature to find interest in the same sex to a certain degree.

deathbecomesme · 12-09-2006, 09:18 PM

I find an intrest in both male and females, and i have been with both. The females body looks better yes, but a femine guy is nice too. so im bisexual.

Godslayer Jillian · 12-09-2006, 09:20 PM

I only like some men's facial features. I would never call myself bisexual as the name evidently implies sex; and sex is not done with the face, ergo, I don't think of men in a sexual manner.