Fetishes and Sexual Quirks (X-rated) - Page 8

Apathy's_Child · 08-31-2007, 03:42 PM

No one's "ready", I don't care how old you are. There are shit young parents and there are shit older parents. Some people are mind-blowingly mature at 14 and some are still shaking the bullshit off their shoes at 50. Age can be a factor re. maturity but so can your mindset.

Good luck with the baby, dude. Sounds like you're as ready as anyone will ever be.

james"bloody tears" · 08-31-2007, 06:46 PM

thanks im gratefull, i hope i can do it just me and her i dont want her parents to have to help(and i wont let mine)

prophecyofdoom · 08-31-2007, 10:33 PM

Ach, let your parents help.... The bigger your support system, the better your lives will be... I'm 27 and I'd be lost without the help of my parent's, and my babies father's parents. Whether it is with babysitting, housework, or the occasional utility payments. If you have family that is willing and able to help you, the baby will be better off if you let them take off some of these stresses.

Shit, this thread got a lot less sexy and a lot more serious.

Maturity about sex varies by individual, age isn't so much of a factor.... I know some fifty year olds that are a lot less mature about sex then some fourteen year olds are.

In a junior high health class, the teacher gave us this test:
"Close your eyes.... Imagine you're having a conversation with the person you'd consider having sex with... Now, imagine you're both completely naked." (Half the class burst into laughter....) "If you laughed, you're not ready to have sex."

Mistress Lilith · 09-01-2007, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by prophecyofdoom

In a junior high health class, the teacher gave us this test:
"Close your eyes.... Imagine you're having a conversation with the person you'd consider having sex with... Now, imagine you're both completely naked." (Half the class burst into laughter....) "If you laughed, you're not ready to have sex."

Lol, I like that test. But it makes sense; one of my friends was thinking about sleeping with her boyfriend when she was about 16. She had asked me for advice (don't fucking know why, I certainly wasn't ready to have sex then and had no experience) but she couldn't bring herself to say the word 'sex'. I mean, if you can't even say it, you are not ready to have it.

LadyLucretia · 09-01-2007, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by prophecyofdoom

In a junior high health class, the teacher gave us this test:
"Close your eyes.... Imagine you're having a conversation with the person you'd consider having sex with... Now, imagine you're both completely naked." (Half the class burst into laughter....) "If you laughed, you're not ready to have sex."

I was a teacher's assistant in a general skills class for college freshman. For our sex ed. portion of the class, I put post-it notes with different sexual terms on them on everyone's forehead (stuff like "STD," "condom," "dental dam," etc.). They had to figure out what the word was by asking their classmates only yes or no questions. Most had fun with it, but one girl - whose word was "lube" - decided after a few questions that she didn't *want* to know what lube was because it made her uncomfortable.

The sad thing is, not knowing about lube probably will cause her far more discomfort in the long run

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La_Mort_Heureuse · 09-01-2007, 09:27 AM

I'm your garden variety perv, I guess. I like severe corsetry (on myself and other women), asphyxiation, dominating, inflicting pain, receiving pain (burning especially, I know, not healthy), and restraints (particularly rope bondage, shibari, etc).

My only relatively uncommon kink is that I like hands. When I check someone out, my eyes go straight to their hands. I give fantastic hand massages and have learned a little palmistry so I can touch hands. It's creepy, but harmless. What people don't know can't hurt them. One of the most erotic things for me is sucking on fingers, and having mine touched/kissed/sucked.

Yeah, so, that's my flavor of perversion.

honeythorn · 09-01-2007, 09:44 AM

Oooh I'm glad I'm not the only one with a thing for hands! I don't think mine is entirely sexual in it's nature, but I love to see nice hands on a man, and nice forearms too.

I was once served by a guy in a coffee shop, and I COULD NOT stop glancing at his hands and arms ( but I had to be subtle about it ) . They were really.....veiny. Watching him make my coffee was mesmerising . I was desperate to just reach out and trace my fingertips along all the veins in his hands and arms. Obviously I restrained myself otherwise I think there would have been a police incident!

Brr! I've given myself goosebumps now!

La_Mort_Heureuse · 09-01-2007, 01:39 PM

honeythorn: Yes, you get what I'm saying. *Shivers*

disorder · 09-01-2007, 08:04 PM

I like collarbones. And backs. And ankles.

badteccy · 09-01-2007, 08:04 PM

I like doggy style all the time...is that a quirk?

prophecyofdoom · 09-01-2007, 11:24 PM

Right now there is a certian person who is my fetish.... All he has to do is touch me in the most causal manner, or vaguely allude to something sexual, and my legs go all shaky.... Yeah. Any activity he suggests we get up to together, would be absolutely thrilling for me.

honeythorn · 09-02-2007, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by disorder

I like collarbones. And backs. And ankles.

COLLARBONES! YES. I think that's one of my more unusual ones. I just see nice collarbones and my mind goes ksjdhfkjwhfkjshdkja;kghkj;wf;ahs! Mmm.

I seem to have quite a lot of things in common with the quirks of others here

honeythorn · 09-02-2007, 02:59 AM

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Originally Posted by badteccy

I like doggy style all the time...is that a quirk?

No but it is goooood. I like it too. I guess it gets down to the animaaaal withiiiiiiin XD It is a very animalistic style after all.

badteccy · 09-02-2007, 08:06 AM

Well, that's not how it is for me. I just like getting my ass slapped while bumpin' and grindin'.

Mistress Lilith · 09-02-2007, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by badteccy

Well, that's not how it is for me. I just like getting my ass slapped while bumpin' and grindin'.

Oh yes, getting spanked/slapped is amazing. It doesn't hurt that my boyfriend loves my ass.

Also, I've discovered that having my boy whisper degrading things in my ear while he fingers me is incredible. He just calls me things like 'slut' and 'whore' and makes me call myself dirty things. I love it.

maggot · 09-02-2007, 08:51 AM

I seem to have a ra*pe fetish o_o

As cliche as it is, I like bondage and dominance stuff.

I also seem to be developing something for feet. And boots.

This isn't as weird, I suppose, but contrary to most guys, I like small breasts.

Edward · 09-02-2007, 08:55 AM

boots are fun, when both are wearing JUST boots, its incredible.

honeythorn · 09-02-2007, 10:12 AM

I wore only boots my first time. Sadly it was only because I was too drunk to take them off. It seemed like a marathon task compared to the rest of my outfit. It would be nice to do it again whilst at least half sober. Ahhh if only....

psyches_reflection · 09-02-2007, 10:20 AM

I have a thing for guys with nice shoulders. Collarbones are good, but there's something about the back of the neck and shoulders that make me go all jelly-like :S

I also had this really mad sex dream the other night. Myself and several random women were being hold prisoner by a man, and after we escaped we decided to get our revenge. We beat him black and blue, burnt his skin, scratched his back raw, and one of the girls forced needles ino his arms so that his blood would be replaced by bleach. In the midst of all this, I (being obviously very sexually frustrated at the moment) pin him down and start, effectively, ****** him, whilst cutting into his skin over and over the words "to each their own hell".

Anyone else have a rather weird sex dream?

honeythorn · 09-02-2007, 10:26 AM

I get mind spasms at the sight of a nice set of collarbones. I'm getting mine tattooed ( assuming they can be located ).

I don't think I have ever dreamt about sex actually. I've never remembered any anyway.

Underwater Ophelia · 09-02-2007, 09:33 PM

Why did this get moved to shill?

raggedyanne · 09-02-2007, 10:44 PM

Dunno. I like collarbones too. My guy finds it funny that I can just sit on his lap and trace his collarbones. Compared to most of the girls I know I have small breasts (B CUP). My guy doesn't seem to mind, but then, he also likes my curvy pudgyness. I guess i have a slight hand fetish. I like big hands with long skinny fingers. It's a bit of a turn on. and eye contact. Most guys I date hate it when I just stare into their eyes, but the current one doesn't seem to mind. In fact, he thinks it's hot. I have one question actually. I'm a virgin and I'm getting pretty serious with my boyfriend, but I don't know if I'm really ready yet.

TopHaggardDoll · 09-03-2007, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by raggedyanne

I have one question actually. I'm a virgin and I'm getting pretty serious with my boyfriend, but I don't know if I'm really ready yet.

If you don't know if you're ready, you aren't.

You'll know when you're ready, don't do anything you don't want to do just for him.

Underwater Ophelia · 09-03-2007, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by raggedyanne

I have one question actually. I'm a virgin and I'm getting pretty serious with my boyfriend, but I don't know if I'm really ready yet.

That's not a question.

Edward · 09-03-2007, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by honeythorn

I wore only boots my first time. Sadly it was only because I was too drunk to take them off. It seemed like a marathon task compared to the rest of my outfit. It would be nice to do it again whilst at least half sober. Ahhh if only....

Oh Alcohol...

(Tilts head up and to the left and starts fantasizing)