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View Poll Results: What age did you first do it
0-10 years old 6 2.61%
11-18 years 112 48.70%
18-25 years 28 12.17%
25 and up years 1 0.43%
Still a Virgin 83 36.09%
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Old 08-23-2006, 03:07 PM   #276
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I wish I had lost my virginity to my husband. That would be perfect. I regret everything I did as a teenager. I was stupid.
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Old 08-23-2006, 05:06 PM   #277
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Haha yes, im very familiar with stupid mistakes. I lost my virginity when i was very intoxicated and 16 (bad mixture). And in a fuckn park for christ sake (dont worry it was at night so no little kids running around) hahaha. But seriously! a park! Cant remeber it very well very well either. Baaaaad mistake. Ive changed now (somewhat)
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Old 08-24-2006, 06:06 AM   #278
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Everyone here is a virgin..don't you know that? Ha.
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Old 08-24-2006, 07:06 AM   #279
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Just a thought, why do people say "lost my virginity". I mean, it's not like you can misplace it right? OMG, my virginity is gone, WHERE DID IT GO?! Better check under the couch. *laugh laugh*

But anyway, I was 15 and it was such a mistake. I had the same girlfriend for 3 years. Then after she cheats on me, I realize I didn't actually like her in the first place. We always argued and such.
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Old 08-24-2006, 10:27 AM   #280
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Im still a virgin...but you didn't hear that from me! haha
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Old 08-24-2006, 12:37 PM   #281
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Just a thought, why do people say "lost my virginity". I mean, it's not like you can misplace it right? OMG, my virginity is gone, WHERE DID IT GO?! Better check under the couch. *laugh laugh*

But anyway, I was 15 and it was such a mistake. I had the same girlfriend for 3 years. Then after she cheats on me, I realize I didn't actually like her in the first place. We always argued and such.
I'm still laughing.

Anyway. I was 14 and was with my first "love." But I regret it and I hate him with a passion now and wish he would kill himself and get it over with already! I remember it very vividly still. WHY?!
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Old 10-15-2006, 09:30 AM   #282
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I was avoiding this thread, but I physically lost my virginity at 15. I was *****. As for the kind of virginity when you give yourself to someone because you love them, it hasn't ever happened.

I feel a littl ebad too, because I was in a long relationship, but it started out when I was too drunk to drive and he ***** me. I stayed with him though, because that's how a lot of my relationships started. I would ask him why he loved me and he would say, "Because you love me." Except, during the years together, never really felt like I actually loved him.

Hoped maybe he would change his mind sometimes and say something different, like, "Because you're are beautiful." or "Because you're my best friend." It never happened.

So now I'm back in the city I was raised in and so idiot think that making the statement that they want to have sex with me is going to somehow lead to sex. Is it any wonder that avoid people?
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Old 10-15-2006, 10:30 AM   #283
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I was avoiding this thread, but I physically lost my virginity at 15. I was *****. As for the kind of virginity when you give yourself to someone because you love them, it hasn't ever happened.
I know what you mean when you use the idea of two different virginities (I was 6 and 24 when I lost mine.) You'll lose your real virginity at some stage.. it'll happen when it happens, and it will probably be emotional, overwhelming and beautiful... as well as a little awkward. [/MUM-STYLE-RANT]

It never happens like it does in the movies. And if sex is that clean and tidy then you are doing it all wrong.


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Old 10-15-2006, 01:07 PM   #284
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I'm still a virgin. I'm in no rush to have sex. I've got lots of other stuff going on in my life the moment, it's not vital to me right now. But I'd rather lose it to someone I love, even if that means I have to wait until I'm married. I'd like it to be special.
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Old 10-15-2006, 01:54 PM   #285
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I agree, losing your virginity should be a special thing, but (no offense intended to the many people who have responded to this thread) this is kind of a ridiculous topic. Your age is NOT what matters when you lose your virginity. What matters is, was it special? I don't care if you're 16 or 60 when you have sex for the very first time.
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Old 10-15-2006, 07:33 PM   #286
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Still a virgin and proud of it.
I'm quite the soppy romantic so I want it to be very special. You're only a virgin once so don't spoil the occasion.
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Old 10-17-2006, 11:50 AM   #287
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It's not really that important whether you are a virgin or not. Our society puts waaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy too much emphasis on that.

But what is important, is that when you do decide to have sex you are doing it for the right reasons. Not because of some pressure you are feeling to not be a virgin anymore so you can cross some so-called bridge to adulthood, but because you have met a lover and you are both into each other and are communicating well and are genuinely interested in each other's well being and pleasure.

Doesn't happen that way often, but it should.
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Old 11-18-2007, 10:22 PM   #288
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Wrong. YOU are boring.
The fuck asked you?
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Old 11-18-2007, 10:28 PM   #289
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That's unbelievable!
You want to start a fight for something that happened a year ago?!
You, sir, are pathetic.
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Old 11-18-2007, 11:02 PM   #290
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Um, if this thread is back, I guess may as well say I lost my virginity at 15.
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Old 11-19-2007, 07:58 AM   #291
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Roffles@Angel of Darkness. She fails, seriously.

Still a virgin.
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Old 11-19-2007, 09:48 AM   #292
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Thread Necromancy ftw!

Anyway, still a virgin, and perfectly happy about that fact
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Old 11-19-2007, 10:33 AM   #293
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I was 14
Or something.
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Old 11-19-2007, 10:36 AM   #294
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I'm a loser so , still a virgin...
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Old 11-19-2007, 10:46 AM   #295
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You're not a loser
If I didn't find someone I was comfortable enough with I would have been one for however long it took me to find that person.
Being a virgin is NOT a loser trait.
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Old 11-19-2007, 11:58 AM   #296
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Listen, I am a lady and would like to remain a lady...
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Old 11-19-2007, 12:01 PM   #297
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Old 11-19-2007, 03:13 PM   #298
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You're not a loser
If I didn't find someone I was comfortable enough with I would have been one for however long it took me to find that person.
Being a virgin is NOT a loser trait.

Oh, I've found the person...we're both just so shy that we can barely hold hands without blushing....
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Old 11-19-2007, 07:20 PM   #299
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Still a virgin. I have to found somebody I really l love before I go that far.
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Old 11-19-2007, 07:27 PM   #300
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I was 15.

And no, being a virgin doesn't make you a loser unless it's your own fault, i.e., you don't bathe or groom yourself or something.
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