Flirts?

mrs.wes straker · 03-07-2007, 09:04 PM

For a 23 yr old married woman w/ kids, I can be incredibly naive and oblivious at times.

Is it flirting if some guy you never met before tells you his gf got pregnant only because she poked holes in a condom and lied about her birth control?

I thought it was just an inappropriate but funny joke told by a new co-worker. Others tell me it was pervy.

Are they paranoid or am I retarded??

KontanKarite · 03-07-2007, 09:05 PM

If that was flirting, it was the most retarded and misleading flirting I've ever heard. You're not alone.

mrs.wes straker · 03-07-2007, 09:12 PM

Would you say the same if you found out they found a way to fall on top of me later on?

KontanKarite · 03-07-2007, 09:32 PM

Punch em in the fucking throat. Damn pervs.

Sorry, I've had people that I love dearly go through some fucked up shit and shit like that seems like a tiny little nod in that direction to me. Which pisses me off to no end.

mrs.wes straker · 03-07-2007, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by KontanKarite

Punch em in the fucking throat. Damn pervs.

***dies laughing***
Really? Sorry to hear that. Yeah it is out of order, I suppose. Not funny, like I orignally thought.
Man I'm tired must sleep.

BlackDahlia · 03-07-2007, 09:39 PM

Yeah...that's grounds for a kick in the groin. With steel-toed boots.

mrs.wes straker · 03-07-2007, 09:45 PM

my 20 hole steel toe boots may be why he wanted to flirt oops

KontanKarite · 03-07-2007, 09:55 PM

Punch him in the throat, burn his house down and kill his neighbor's dog.

Seriously, that shit is some dumb, sophomoric, bullshit. Tell him to grow the fuck up an learn some god blessed culture! Fucking mutant.

bleedingheart344 · 03-08-2007, 02:10 AM

Please, leave the little animals out of this.

IsolatedReptile · 03-08-2007, 06:13 AM

Yeah. That's certainly not flirting. I'd not be surprised to find that that story was either, not true, or, a perversion of the truth.

mrs.wes straker · 03-08-2007, 06:20 AM

My story, or the guys? Well, I have to say after being shocked and then wondering if it was appropriate for him to even be telling me that since I knew him for all of 15 minutes, he started laughing and told me that he completely made it up.

As far as the falling on me, yeah, it happened. But while I was in chair.

As far as making things up if you were referring to my story; why would I make such a dull story up? It's not even exciting. It's just idiotic, or to quote KontanKarite, sophmoric.

Vako · 03-08-2007, 06:57 AM

Sounds like your co-worker may be a Tom Leykis listener.

Valerius · 03-08-2007, 07:12 AM

What IsolatedReptile was referring to was the story of the guy being made up, not yours.

Underwater Ophelia · 03-08-2007, 10:50 AM

I wouldn't accept it as flirting, it's just being disgusting. And the "falling on you" is sexual harrassment or assault...

mrs.wes straker · 03-08-2007, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Vako

Sounds like your co-worker may be a Tom Leykis listener.

Should I be ashamed for not knowing who Tom Leykis is?
And yes, agrees with post below. The guy could definitely get in trouble w/ HR for all of the behavior mentioned. What a wanker. Today he returned w/ more BS. What a wanker.

mrs.wes straker · 03-08-2007, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Valerius

What IsolatedReptile was referring to was the story of the guy being made up, not yours.

I'm a bit slow sometimes. OK, most of the times. Please excuse me.

KontanKarite · 03-08-2007, 03:57 PM

Punch him in the proverbial throat then. Refer his creepy ass to HR.

Vako · 03-08-2007, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by mrs.wes straker

Should I be ashamed for not knowing who Tom Leykis is?

Not at all. You should be THANKFULL you don't know who Tom Leykis is.

He is a really mediocre radio host here in L.A. He is a misogynistic person and a chauvinist. He has little respect for Women. I made the reference forgetting that most people here would not be familiar with him.

mrs.wes straker · 03-08-2007, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by KontanKarite

Punch him in the proverbial throat then. Refer his creepy ass to HR.

I just hate making complaints about co-workers.

IsolatedReptile · 03-20-2007, 07:06 AM

It was his story I was talking about. And I certainly can't blame you for hating to make complaints, but if this sort of thing persists, it's in the better interest not only for you, but other co-workers he may be badgering.

mrs.wes straker · 03-27-2007, 06:09 AM

Little update here, although I'm sure no one cares what's going on at the office I work in.

He was reported by someone else, and now he seems to be totally alienated. :-( That's life.

PersephoneX · 03-27-2007, 06:16 AM

I had the office pervert send me photo's of his man-bits via mobile phone and e-mail more than a few times. Once, when I was a junior, I had to go onsite with him and the site we were going to was outside town. He exposed himself to me in the car on the way there and I was seriously freaked out. I’m the only young female on the team so so no one else would have had to be alone with him like that. But we know for a fact he sent those pictures to other ladies in the office…God I was glad when he left.

Underwater Ophelia · 03-27-2007, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by PersephoneX

I had the office pervert send me photo's of his man-bits via mobile phone and e-mail more than a few times. Once, when I was a junior, I had to go onsite with him and the site we were going to was outside town. He exposed himself to me in the car on the way there and I was seriously freaked out. I’m the only young female on the team so so no one else would have had to be alone with him like that. But we know for a fact he sent those pictures to other ladies in the office…God I was glad when he left.

Did you tell anyone what happened? And did he get his comeuppance?

Draconysius · 03-27-2007, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

Did you tell anyone what happened? And did he get his comeuppance?

"Your uppance shall come!" Sorry, I couldn't resist.

Clockwork · 03-27-2007, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by mrs.wes straker

Little update here, although I'm sure no one cares what's going on at the office I work in.

He was reported by someone else, and now he seems to be totally alienated. :-( That's life.

Aw... poor perveted dumbshit -_-

Hopefully that'll humble him. I hate those kinds of people. Honestly, what does it take to show some sense of decency? Sorry you had to put up with those indignities, mrs.wes.