Scars

Dancing_in_rain · 03-15-2007, 12:40 PM

Hello. I wasn't sure where to put this but from reading other threads, I guess this would be the best place. Anyways. So, I self-injure, as a way of releasing stress and tension, and I wanted to know if anyone has any suggestions as to how to cover up scars. Also, how do you stop a deep cut from over-bleeding? Thank-you!

- Flying in the endless rain -

bleedingheart344 · 03-15-2007, 12:48 PM

Just stop doing it? I'm an ex- self injurer myself. If you want to talk about it, my aim's bleedingheart344 and msn is marilynmanson216 at sbcglobal dot net just replace the dot and at with appropriate symbols. Other members, it's an email address from my baby bat days.

But seriously, if you have to cover them up, long sleeves or arm warmers. Oh, and how could I forget? Please post an introduction and answer the questions.

theradicalviper · 03-15-2007, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Dancing_in_rain

Hello. I wasn't sure where to put this but from reading other threads, I guess this would be the best place. Anyways. So, I self-injure, as a way of releasing stress and tension, and I wanted to know if anyone has any suggestions as to how to cover up scars. Also, how do you stop a deep cut from over-bleeding? Thank-you!

- Flying in the endless rain -

hmm why dont you try asking an emo?

bleedingheart344 · 03-15-2007, 01:04 PM

Shut up, radical viper. It's a dumb joke and it's a touchy subject to joke about. Try showing some empathy. Sure, I'm tired of people cutting for attention but it doesn't mean I get angry and not help people.

theradicalviper · 03-15-2007, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by bleedingheart344

Shut up, radical viper. It's a dumb joke and it's a touchy subject to joke about. Try showing some empathy. Sure, I'm tired of people cutting for attention but it doesn't mean I get angry and not help people.

ok,ok, why dont you try wearing bangles? or better yet, those kind of leather studded gauntlets?

bleedingheart344 · 03-15-2007, 01:09 PM

Hmm, that would look somewhat cool... Depends.

theradicalviper · 03-15-2007, 01:09 PM

it can cover up the cuts.....emo's do it.

woops forget that, it was the reply for something i thought that i saw....but it wasnt there.

bleedingheart344 · 03-15-2007, 01:10 PM

*sigh* More emo, whatever. I'd still suggest just stopping.

theradicalviper · 03-15-2007, 01:13 PM

i really dont have ANYTHING AGAINST emo's i just enjoy using them for humor...

bleedingheart344 · 03-15-2007, 01:17 PM

That's blatantly obvious...

Underwater Ophelia · 03-15-2007, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by theradicalviper

i really dont have ANYTHING AGAINST emo's i just enjoy using them for humor...

That's fine, but it isn't appropriate in this situation.

Underwater Ophelia · 03-15-2007, 01:23 PM

As for covering up cuts, you can do it with bracelets, bands, arm warmers (I'm assuming your cut your arms.), and things of that nature.
Overall, I suggest you try your best to ease off of the habit. If you don't want to stop cutting, and want to hide it, I suggest cutting your upper legs.
You can also always use makeup to cover the scars.
As for bleeding, apply pressure with something that's clean and doesn't have little fibers that will come off and get stuck in your wound.

An Eccentric Cellist · 03-15-2007, 01:34 PM

A multiple friends of mine cut or used to cut my girl friends use/d bangles the guys always wore jackets or long sleeves. Then a few friends cut where no one could see without them knowing they were looking.
I suggest stopping. Everything gets easier, as an ex myself, my life significantly improved after stopping. If you need to talk eccentric.cellist at gmail(dot)com is my email. I check often, and I'm pretty good about responding.

Viper that's unbelievably immature, don't harass the girl(If you're a boy: sorry nondescript user name).

kimaru · 03-15-2007, 02:27 PM

I don't know if this will help but you could try some of that scar removing cream to make them less noticeable then they'll be easier to hide. You should stop cutting though, I'd suggest gradualy(sp) doing it less and less. If you just stopped cold turkeyit could cause more stress. When I stopped I felt much better.

Moth_Cake · 03-15-2007, 02:39 PM

From what I've heard, try taking frustration out another way. Someone suggested pressing cold spoons against the skin, but that might not work for you. Just make sure you release your emotion in a healthy manner, rather than damaging yourself.

Overall I'd say wear long sleeves until the wounds have healed & start using vitamin E skin cream for the scars. I really hope you get past this & stop. Believe me, you're probably hurting others around you (if they know about it) more than you're hurting yourself physically.

Dark Templar · 03-15-2007, 02:54 PM

I had the exact same "problem". Cutting your self is not good but i know that it's difficult to stop. Have you tried to write down your frustration in a diary or trough poetry? Anyway, the best thing to cower up scars is to wear a sweater whit long sleeves and or wrist bands!

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-15-2007, 03:32 PM

Stop injuring yourself is one way to help yourself. Trust me I use to self injure all the time but it never really helped, you may think it does, but it doesn't. I mean now look at yourself. You have to cover up what could be natural beauty.

But if you do need something to help cover...

Arm warmers, long sleeves, wrist bands, bracelets, and using Mederma or Scar Zone to lighten the scars helps too.

MollyMac · 03-15-2007, 05:03 PM

Use bacitracin zinc with peroxide (like neosporin, more peroxide), or aloe with lemon juice. That is is you are lighter skinned. For darker skin, mederma works better.

DO NOT USE BRACELETS OR WRIST CUFFS- They will chafe, cause infection, and draw attention to where you don't want it. if you *must*- use gauze pads and clear tape then a cover like bankles and the like- just don't let them be restrictive.

You have to heal, in more ways than the physical.

Get to a point where you realize that it is not healthy and ytou want to stop, and then look for help. It won't do you any good until then. Best of luck and wishes to you.

Lucretia_my_Reflection · 03-15-2007, 05:20 PM

I use to be a cutter so i know where your coming from, if its too deep i suggest you see a doctor about it ASAP, for covering it up if there not risen scars cover them with make-up, but if they are have you tried using Bio-oils. They work really great with fading stretch marks, shallow scars, etc . But for the deep ones that you can't get rid i suggest either some beautiful opera gloves or a long sleeved shirt . Something you should think of is investing in some high quality medical tape and some patches for your wounds infections aren't pretty. And theradicalviper stop being an ass have a little heart

c130 · 03-15-2007, 07:01 PM

1) Stop cutting
2) Massage vitamin E oil or "Bio Oil" into the scars
3) Continue until scars fade

killer_asian_Dax · 03-15-2007, 07:34 PM

Stop cutting. When you get the urge- go to the gym and work yourself to exhaustion. Or something. Just stay away from the sharp objects.

To hide: long sleeves, gauntlets, bangles, bandannas, whatever. Just remember to properly dress the wound first lest you invite infection and attention.

To fade: NEOSPORIN!!!!!!!!!

Good luck.

shelldoo · 03-15-2007, 07:49 PM

I had 5 arm surgeries last year (shoulder) I have a pretty nasty looking scar from one of the operations, I started using a vitamin e&c oil on it, and the color has started to fade, it is still somewhat sunken, when i reach the 1 year point i am covering it w/ a tattoo. The docotor told me to keep it from the sun and to massage it to help break up the scar tissue, so I would assume the same stuff would help other scars.

PersephoneX · 03-15-2007, 10:33 PM

Ok, this is a topic that hits home for me. I started cutting when I was 12 as a result of some very traumatic events. It’s no joke. And if you’re doing it for attention I suggest you go outside and slam you head in a car door right now! It’s not fucking cool. It doesn’t make you Goth or fascinating. People that do it have a REAL problem. You wouldn’t fake having cancer would you?

For the cutting: I have to wear a rubber band on my wrist and pull it and let it go when i want to cut. Also try keeping an ice cube on your tongue, it hurts like a whore but it’s a good deterrent. Don’t be stupid. Stop now while you can. People make judgments from seeing your scars and it can affect your chances of getting a job, things like that. If you have a real problem, speak to someone who can help you.

Aesthetics: I have worn 125 black rubber bracelets on my right wrist since my worst episode which was 6 years ago. The scars really are hideous. As a result my wrist stopped growing under them and the skin is very pasty. I won’t take them off, for any reason. I did not just cut my arms. I also cut my legs, chest, torso, hips, thighs, neck. Anywhere I could find open skin. I wear long pants all the time. I generally keep my body covered. Even in Summer. I am reluctant to wear a skirt unless it covers my feet. I’ve become incredibly self conscious. I have developed severe issues with my body. It causes friction between my boyfriend and I, too. You should try using vitamin E oil on your skin for the scars. And Tea Tree oil as a good anti-bacterial. Don’t show them off. It’s not something to be proud of. They aren’t trophies.

You often don’t think of the implications of you actions until it’s far too late. I sometime still do it. But my family and friends are helping me. I saw what my actions were doing to the people around me. Its not worth it! If you have any questions, my MSN is in my profile.

HumanePain · 03-16-2007, 03:24 AM

Wow Persephone. I want to give you a hug. I think I now understand why affection might be difficult for you, and why it might occasionally generate friction for you and your boyfriend, because of the self conscious aspect.
Thanks for providing the insight to the rest of us.

theradicalviper · 03-16-2007, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Lucretia_my_Reflection

theradicalviper stop being an ass have a little heart

i dont think i can, i need to find a way to make myself laugh about anything...even someone dying...wich i do best