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10-16-2007, 09:52 AM
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Love is confusing :(
I'm very confused right now...I have no idea how I feel about anyone any more. Apparently my old girlfriend wants to go out with me again, but i don't know how I feel...i'm not sure but I think I like this other girl now...I have no idea what to do...maybe I should just ignore it for a couple of years? Help would be appreciated.
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10-16-2007, 10:21 AM
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: Parkersburg, WV
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For how long have you been single? If it hasn't been too long, it sounds to me like you ought to enjoy the single life for awhile. Being in a relationship is great, but being single can be great too. Enjoy your freedom for a bit.
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10-16-2007, 01:47 PM
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You're too young to worry about anything like that imo.
Go crazy and enjoy yourself for awhile, then worry about love and a relationship
later on.
Hell, I'm almost 18, and I haven't had, and don't want a relationship, too much hassle. Plus everyone sucks.
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10-16-2007, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Valrys
You're too young to worry about anything like that imo.
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I FUCKING HATE it when people say that.
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10-16-2007, 03:09 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Originally Posted by Cyntrox
I FUCKING HATE it when people say that.
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You'll probably stop hating it when you're older.
I hated it too, and now I realize it's completely true.
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10-16-2007, 04:06 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Back in Wisconsin(thinking about invading the south)
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"Love stinks, yeah yeah" "love hurts" "love is a bitch" here is a good song for the occasion. http://archives.depechemode.com/temp...main_popup.php
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10-16-2007, 06:33 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: New England
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
You'll probably stop hating it when you're older.
I hated it too, and now I realize it's completely true.
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Quoted for truth.
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10-16-2007, 06:54 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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I've put love on hiatus for four-plus years now. I've had offers, request for dates, etc and turned them all down. Right now, have started opening myself up to dating, however I have no need to rush into anything, and if anything I just want to meet new people.
Chill, life can be long, and you may have plenty of time to deal in such matters.
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10-16-2007, 07:11 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Back in Wisconsin(thinking about invading the south)
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Dammit, the Depeche Mode website is not direct link friendly
http://archives.depechemode.com/vide...videos/43.html
(please play the first version)
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"Never overestimate the intellect of someone so foolish that they would exploit and perpetuate stupidity in the people around them, for they create their own damnation as they tear out and sell the pillars that support society as a whole, bringing it crashing down upon them."-me
“I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.”- Einstein
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10-16-2007, 07:14 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2005
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Originally Posted by LadyLucretia
Quoted for truth.
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You forgot the 'muthafucka!'
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Originally Posted by George Carlin
People who say they don’t care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don’t care what people think.
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10-16-2007, 08:35 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: New England
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Originally Posted by Godslayer Jillian
You forgot the 'muthafucka!'
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::ahem:: Quoted for muthafuckin truth, muthafucka!
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10-16-2007, 09:23 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Originally Posted by Metabolik
I'm very confused right now...I have no idea how I feel about anyone any more. Apparently my old girlfriend wants to go out with me again, but i don't know how I feel...i'm not sure but I think I like this other girl now...I have no idea what to do...maybe I should just ignore it for a couple of years? Help would be appreciated.
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1- How do you feel when you are with A and how do you feel when you are with B? ... Who moves you? Who cares about you? Who can you trust? Can you give her back enough?
2- What do you expect of both relationships on the future?
If you can answer the questions ,then the answer is easy : Take A or B , and don't let the chance go .
If you can't , then leave both (and yourself) alone , until you can decide .
I guess the problem here may be that you gave someone hopes , and this someone is just wondering what do you want from her ...
but ... well I don't know the real situation , and that's just my opinion ...
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10-17-2007, 10:45 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Ok, thanks for the suggestions guys...I guess I'll stick to palm ville for a while...lol...(all girls ignore that joke please...unless you don't want to ;D)
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10-17-2007, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Metabolik
Ok, thanks for the suggestions guys...I guess I'll stick to palm ville for a while...lol...(all girls ignore that joke please...unless you don't want to ;D)
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Sometimes it's painfully obvious that you're 13.
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10-17-2007, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
Sometimes it's painfully obvious that you're 13.
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Nothing so true has EVER been so funny...lol
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10-17-2007, 11:20 AM
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xD hehehe...
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10-17-2007, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
You'll probably stop hating it when you're older.
I hated it too, and now I realize it's completely true.
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Alright, so let's replace love with another emotion. Depression. So if a unworthy 13 year old is depressed, he's just supposed to ignore it because he's too old to worry about such things?
Not only that, but you're able to say it about all 13 years old, or at least someone you've only had a brief relationship with, if at all, through the internet.
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10-17-2007, 01:15 PM
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Join Date: May 2006
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Nothing wrong at all with being 13/14. Enjoy your youth while you've got it. What the grown-ups say is true: Youth is wasted on the young.
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10-17-2007, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Cyntrox
Alright, so let's replace love with another emotion. Depression. So if a unworthy 13 year old is depressed, he's just supposed to ignore it because he's too old to worry about such things?
Not only that, but you're able to say it about all 13 years old, or at least someone you've only had a brief relationship with, if at all, through the internet.
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A. Not all emotions are the same.
B. I didn't make a claim that no 13 year olds could experience love.
Your logic is completely absent.
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10-17-2007, 04:35 PM
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Ironically enough, when you are 13 you worry more about love than when you are older.
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10-18-2007, 03:37 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
A. Not all emotions are the same.
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I believe they are close enough to be compared.
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B. I didn't make a claim that no 13 year olds could experience love.
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Yet you claim that it is true that a 13 year old is too young to worry about love.
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
I hated it too, and now I realize it's completely true.
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10-18-2007, 08:42 AM
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Fuck it, I may aswell give it another go while i'm young. It's gotta be more fun than it is when your older...isn't it?
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10-18-2007, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Metabolik
Fuck it, I may aswell give it another go while i'm young. It's gotta be more fun than it is when your older...isn't it?
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Well, smoking kills but only love can break your heart. 
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10-18-2007, 09:02 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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I have no heart to break...XD
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10-18-2007, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Cyntrox
I believe they are close enough to be compared.
Yet you claim that it is true that a 13 year old is too young to worry about love.
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A. Ok, I don't. I'm giving enough credit to emotion to know they're all completely different.
B. No, I didn't claim a 13 year old is too young to worry about love. I said you probably won't hate it when people say "you're too young to worry about love" when you're older. There's a difference.
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