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Old 12-05-2007, 05:41 PM   #1
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A Truth That No One Wants To Hear...

" Sex is truly the death of love."
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Old 12-05-2007, 05:41 PM   #2
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No, it's not.
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Old 12-05-2007, 06:12 PM   #3
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Meth's right. It's not. Love can be expressed through sex.
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Old 12-05-2007, 06:16 PM   #4
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Old 12-05-2007, 06:24 PM   #5
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Sex is just sex. It's nice when love is involved and all and it makes it better, but in the end...it's just sex.
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Old 12-05-2007, 06:45 PM   #6
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Sex is just sex. It's nice when love is involved and all and it makes it better, but in the end...it's just sex.
I agree. I think some teenagers (not all) only date for the sake of sex, or having a boyfriend/girlfriend.
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Old 12-05-2007, 07:57 PM   #7
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Sex is soccer. An intensive sport that you can play with anyone who knows how to not get off sides. It's occasionally a team effort.

Love is chess. Small calculated moves from the past to the probable future; trying to figure out the other party; focused solely on itself. For the most part, it's just the two of you. (I have never managed to be in love with more than one person at a time, but it can happen, and is just as real)

I can fuck anyone without a second thought; but love is nothing but second thoughts, and third thoughts....

And, in truth, one is typically better without the other.
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Old 12-05-2007, 10:08 PM   #8
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And, in truth, one is typically better without the other.
Obviously you've never played SOCCHESS.
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Old 12-05-2007, 10:14 PM   #9
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Sex can be the death of love if neither of you are ready for it or if it causes you to put love beneath lust. If you can maintain the relationship, then sex can be amazing and fun. Personally, I don't believe in friends with benefits or random hookups and am of the mindset that to enjoy sex there must be mutual caring. Obviously pre-marital sex is fine!
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Old 12-05-2007, 10:23 PM   #10
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MollyMac - so insightful. Why is it that I can be excellent at chess, but suck at love?
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Old 12-06-2007, 07:21 AM   #11
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Hell no! sex rocks =D, even more if you're in love
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Old 12-06-2007, 07:52 PM   #12
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Obviously you've never played SOCCHESS.
That just sounds hard. Knight makes goal on h4. GOAL GOAL GOAL!!!

Yeah... sounds like a nice and slow break in the neck.
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Old 12-06-2007, 08:25 PM   #13
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Old 12-07-2007, 10:04 AM   #14
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Sex and love are entirely compatible. I'm *very* much devoted to Boyfriend, and our sex life is flourishing as a result. I think it's our devotion to and trust in each other which allows our experimental apparoach to things to work so well- he knows that I'll not run off with a pretty girl just because I've spent some time with her, and I know the same of him.
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Old 12-07-2007, 10:41 AM   #15
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I love sex...sex sex sex...
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Old 12-07-2007, 03:46 PM   #16
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Sex and love are entirely compatible. I'm *very* much devoted to Boyfriend, and our sex life is flourishing as a result.
What she said, except I replace Boyfriend with Girlfriend, whenever I get around getting one again. True devotion and trust in a relationship boosts the sexpart of it to tremendous heights probably unattained otherwise.
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Old 12-07-2007, 07:30 PM   #17
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I agree with all. Sometimes sex can just demonlish the relationship that you had. Love is based on emotions and sex is just...well sex. My boyfriend and I have never had sex once and we've been togather now for like 3 years. And, honestly, I think if we just would have sex, I think we wouldn't feel what we feel NOW about eatch other.
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Old 12-07-2007, 10:34 PM   #18
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That just sounds hard. Knight makes goal on h4. GOAL GOAL GOAL!!!

Yeah... sounds like a nice and slow break in the neck.

GREAT. Next time I have sex I'll be thinking "GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAL!
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Old 12-07-2007, 11:34 PM   #19
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I agree with all. Sometimes sex can just demonlish the relationship that you had. Love is based on emotions and sex is just...well sex. My boyfriend and I have never had sex once and we've been togather now for like 3 years. And, honestly, I think if we just would have sex, I think we wouldn't feel what we feel NOW about eatch other.
Yeah...me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half and sex has never come into it, it'd completely ruin the dynamic of the relationship.

You love with your heart and soul...not with what is inbetween your legs.
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Old 12-07-2007, 11:39 PM   #20
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Both sex and love could be made better with earth shattering kabooms
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Old 12-08-2007, 06:53 AM   #21
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When I actually get in a relationship, I want to wait. Weird as it may sound I want to love my girlfriend, not just have sex. Sex is not one of my priorities now, I have other things for focus on. But when that girl does come along, I want it to be her choice when we do have sex.
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Old 12-08-2007, 10:13 AM   #22
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Yeah. Usually when you really love someone sex seals things so the relationship will grow stronger. However, you need to call. It is really the acceptence I think you are thinking about.

You get more from people before having sex, but that's not real love. There are still many more loving experiences to be had with someone who is great to be around.

On the other hand if someone is just trying to have sex, because they feel used and let down, the love already stopped a long time before then and they will leave you afterwards. Sex amplifies emotions and there is a fine line between love and hate. After realizing the sex is not enjoyable because of other issues, it is easy to leave.
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Old 12-08-2007, 10:56 AM   #23
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Rarely......
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Old 12-08-2007, 01:18 PM   #24
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Sex and love are entirely compatible. I'm *very* much devoted to Boyfriend, and our sex life is flourishing as a result. I think it's our devotion to and trust in each other which allows our experimental apparoach to things to work so well.
I agree so much with this. It's exactly like this with my boyfriend.
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Old 12-08-2007, 04:59 PM   #25
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ok I am a...virgin
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But I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful things in the world
and being the romantic I am
I believe that it acually strenghtens the relationship

But If you have sesx with someone just for the sake of it its kinda sad
Because u dont get to experiance that love
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