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06-17-2008, 04:09 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Amidst a shallow grave
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Originally Posted by Splintered
The reason she didn't tell me, was because early on in the relationship I warned her that I have a tendency to get jealous. I'm slowly regretting that. It doesn't really bother me that she hangs out with her guy friends, but she thought it would, so that's why she lied to me.
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Sorry for the double post, but I'd be mad. She ruined her chances to see you again and prolonged the time. That'd make me wonder how she really felt about the relationship.
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06-17-2008, 11:48 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 3,332
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Originally Posted by Delkaetre
Well. That's very unpleasant indeed.
I knew Sweden tended to be quite well-watched, what with the taxes and wide range of social services making that necessary. But it always seemed like benevolent shelter, a teacher watching kids in the playground in case one of them hurts his knee, rather than this kind of vile and voyeuristic viewing.
Poor Meth.
Also, fuck. There goes my desire to move to Sweden when I try to get out of Airstrip One.
Oh, and it's 11.45pm and I have to be awake at 6.30am.
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It's ridiculous. A government should fear the people, not the other way around.
When even most of our secret police is against the law then you know something is rotten in Sweden.
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"Meow. Mew. Mrow. Maow? Miaox." - Lovely Delkaetre speaks cat.
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06-18-2008, 12:19 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Out of my mind.
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Okay, I have a question.
My girlfriend and I have gotten in to a few fights recently. I want to keep talking about what's going on and try and fix things, and she tells me she wants to stop talking about it.
Should I stop talking about it, or press to talk about it?
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"My irlelaulsiitoyn!."
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06-18-2008, 01:01 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: In La-La land.
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(Personally, I would catch her in a quiet mood and hold her close. Talk about what you need to talk about but be sweet and understanding.)
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06-18-2008, 04:15 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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Originally Posted by Splintered
Okay, I have a question.
My girlfriend and I have gotten in to a few fights recently. I want to keep talking about what's going on and try and fix things, and she tells me she wants to stop talking about it.
Should I stop talking about it, or press to talk about it?
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It sounds to me like she feels she's in the wrong. If she genuinely thought she was right, surely she'd want to have her say and would be glad that you want to initiate dialogue. I could be wrong about this, but in my experience that's usually the way it works with people who just want all arguments dropped.
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06-18-2008, 05:02 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
Posts: 8,001
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Originally Posted by Splintered
Okay, I have a question.
My girlfriend and I have gotten in to a few fights recently. I want to keep talking about what's going on and try and fix things, and she tells me she wants to stop talking about it.
Should I stop talking about it, or press to talk about it?
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Explain why it's important for you to talk about it, and don't make her feel like she's a fuck up, because she already feels that way. Ask her why she doesn't want to talk about it.
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06-18-2008, 11:37 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
Posts: 6,909
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Originally Posted by Splintered
Okay, I have a question.
My girlfriend and I have gotten in to a few fights recently. I want to keep talking about what's going on and try and fix things, and she tells me she wants to stop talking about it.
Should I stop talking about it, or press to talk about it?
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Sweety, I know you don't want to talk about it, so I wont push the issue, but for the sake of having a good bond with you, I'd like to understand why it bothers you. I care about you and I want to do what I and WE can do to make this relationship strong. I find it very worthwhile being with you. So it would be in my best interest to understand you the best I can.
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Not all beliefs and ideas are equal.
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06-18-2008, 12:06 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
Posts: 8,030
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Right now I am a bit fed up with the dryer in my apartment, I know that it is something minor but it doesn't buzz when it is finished, it just kind of stops, which I don't notice unless I'm specifically concentrating on the dryer which means that I can't do anything else unless I don't mind my clothing sitting in there, getting all wrinkled. I guess I could just set a timer and use the timed setting but the sensor setting is so much more efficient, oh well I guess from now on I shall use the timer
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06-18-2008, 12:27 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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I'm in a rotten mood.
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06-18-2008, 12:47 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,687
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Originally Posted by Splintered
Oh, BTW, I saw you in Encyclopedia Dramatica under "Goth". Congratulations, you're e-famous.
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Heh, what a dubious honor.
God, I hate that picture.
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06-18-2008, 01:36 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
Posts: 8,030
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Originally Posted by korinna5555
I'm in a rotten mood.
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Any particular reason why are you in such a nasty mood?
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06-18-2008, 02:20 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
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God, I hate that picture.
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Keep your cape on! Lulz.
I am just irritated in general. It definitely has something to do with my parents feuding and my brother getting away with everything..
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06-18-2008, 03:00 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: a sneeze away from San Francisco
Posts: 2,144
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Arg! Stupid hormones!
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Originally Posted by Joker_in_the_Pack
At some point, you need to look yourself in the mirror and realize that what other people did to you does not define you as a person. You and your actions define who you are as a person. It's up to you to be a good person, in spite of all the evil you've faced. In fact, it should be because of the evil you see that it's good you do. Be the change you want in the world. Next time someone tells me that they're an asshole because they've had a bad life, I'm stabbing them in the eye with a spork.
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06-18-2008, 11:25 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 3,332
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Originally Posted by Methadrine
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...and they did it! The bloody morons really did it! They really, really friggin' did it...
http://yro.slashdot.org/yro/08/06/18/2044243.shtml
*shakes head* Oh well.. 'you know, good sir, that this... means WAR.' *quite angry*
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"Meow. Mew. Mrow. Maow? Miaox." - Lovely Delkaetre speaks cat.
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06-19-2008, 03:33 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: the concrete and steel beehive of Southern California
Posts: 7,449
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Originally Posted by Methadrine
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Thanks to technology, we all have faster visibility of what happens in the world and can unite from anywhere in the world. Unfortunately so can governments.
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06-19-2008, 05:00 AM
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: Oslo, Norway
Posts: 1,830
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Ugh. Remind me not to go online when visiting friends over the border... Seriously, this is frightening. Especially since it wouldn't surprise me if Norway follows suit. (In which case I would go home to Germany without looking back.)
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However far away I will always love you
However long I stay I will always love you
Whatever words I say I will always love you
I will always love you
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06-19-2008, 06:28 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: In the broken temple bells, in the ringing...
Posts: 5,979
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I never thought that would get passed through. Unbelieveable. No more dirty phone calls for you guys eh?
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06-19-2008, 01:58 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Out of my mind.
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Do you ever have one of those days, where things seem like their backwards?
So, I got my grades today. I passed all of my classes with higher grades then was mathematically possible.
Because of the good grades, I got online registration access back, so I can actually get the classes I want now.
Because of the online registration, I get to have the math classes I want next year, and take all IT classes.
Because of the good IT classes, I'll get to spend more time with my dad this summer then I thought I would.
Best of all, because of all of the above, and because of my girlfriend negotiates well with her parents, she'll be here tomorrow morning.
And, I got a really nice lighter.
A month of suck is negated by a day of uber.
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"What have I taken away from you?"
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06-19-2008, 03:43 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,687
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I just had an epiphany.
The reason for which I stay in unhealthy, almost certainly doomed relationships is intrinsically tied to the profound fear of failure that colors nearly all that I do.
I always need to win, and to walk away from a woman is to admit defeat.
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06-20-2008, 05:53 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
Posts: 8,001
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It doesn't have to be that way.
If someone is treating you poorly, it's winning to have the strength to leave the relationship.
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06-20-2008, 07:34 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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Why is it that I had to go and sprout hips and huge tits?
I went from a 34B, size 7 jean to a 36DD and a size 13 jean in less than a year. No change in diet/exercise.. anything. Just.. poof! And now I am fat. I hate being "curvy". Some days, yeah. I like it. But when I can't fit into pretty clothes that don't make my waist disappear.. I am having a major fat day.
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06-20-2008, 07:45 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 3,360
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[rolls and passes you a joint]
Get some fucking perspective.
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06-20-2008, 07:45 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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I need more than just one of those joints.. lets two two or three, and I'd prefer glass, if you have a pipe I could borrow.
Perspective?! HOW.
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06-20-2008, 07:50 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 3,360
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Well, you're obviously not starving and MANY people are. You've got a roof over your head and your parents are pretty much paying your way.
[packs a bowl and passed the bong]
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06-20-2008, 08:14 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
Posts: 8,001
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Originally Posted by korinna5555
I need more than just one of those joints.. lets two two or three, and I'd prefer glass, if you have a pipe I could borrow.
Perspective?! HOW.
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Just a tip--maybe lay off drugs and go running.
As for perspective, realize that in the grand scheme of things, you--and your weight or body shape--are NOTHING.
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