over sexualized teens

[Graveyard.Crow]

This maybe kind of unusual to some people, but it's been pissing me off for a while. IT's like teenagers are just way too obsessed with sex. They like to get drunk and make out with random people, maybe even screw random people. This isn't only some of my friends, but just a lot of people I know in general. And they are just SO proud of it. Then I'm considered a prude or something for not doing the same bloody thing. Well I'm sorry for being classy and actually needing to have feelings for someone.

[Nevan]

Shallow is as shallow does.

I see the same thing all over here as well, and it's really sad that these teens have nothing better going in their lives than screwing around - when you grow up you realize how you wasted your life on something that is actually so pointless when in fact you had the perfect opportunity to develop yourself into someone great.

I'm kind of thankful that I was like the 'school reject' back in the day because everyone thought I was weird or whatever. At least I didn't have to leave school because of an unwanted pregnancy, like a third of the girls in my class did.

The whole relationship thing also gets to me - I see a relationship as something that is special and should have potential to be lasting - how can you find that when you're fucking every next best thing that walks past you? You're wise for not following the trend.

[dark_dragon_of_ice]

Sex is pointless..Barring the fact we need to reproduce. Its also fun.

[Post Modern Girl]

Originally Posted by dark_dragon_of_ice

Sex is pointless..Barring the fact we need to reproduce. Its also fun.

You just gave two valid reasons to condradict your opening statement.

Teenagers just love sex because it's new and exciting and all that. Your hormones are going crazy and sex sems like a good way to express those hormones.

Personally, I also think teenagers need to wise the fuck up. I know 3 pregnant girls and 3 with babies, all of whom are in my year at school. It's ok to have sex, just use contraception!

[dark_dragon_of_ice]

Originally Posted by Post Modern Girl

You just gave two valid reasons to condradict your opening statement.

Teenagers just love sex because it's new and exciting and all that. Your hormones are going crazy and sex sems like a good way to express those hormones.

Personally, I also think teenagers need to wise the fuck up. I know 3 pregnant girls and 3 with babies, all of whom are in my year at school. It's ok to have sex, just use contraception!

Exactly to the first point.I was trying to be funny but failed...
And I agree with the safe sex part..
Apart from that I don't really care about how much people have sex and with how many people.

[Tha Duckman]

A few months ago, three teenagers were seen having sex across the road from a pub, on a little green behind a wall. Must've been 'bout 14 or 15. Little fuckers. I had to wait until I was 18 to lose my fuckin' virginity.

And I fucked it up, too.

[Apathy's_Child]

What's so "classy" about not having sex?

I agree about people who provide way too much unsought information about their sex life (those people are annoying and usually think they're proving something), and people who call others things like prudes, but that's not 'cause they're oversexualized. I'm sure they'd be jerks even if they weren't getting any.

[Tam Li Hua]

Yeah, I think that's a pretty common problem; I think it was like that at my high school back in the day, but I decided to opt out of those kinds of social circles.

I tend to think college is worse as far as the amount of sex that goes on, but better in the pressure to do so. [meaning there is less pressure to do it in college than in high school...though I could be wrong..]

[Valerius]

Mmmm... teens. Tasty. I'm afraid I'm too biased to post anything of sense in here, but I can share one little bit of information that I hope can shed some light.

Teens are generally stupid. Their brains aren't fully developed, and yet, what with all those hormones coursing through their blood it's easy to fall into some rat race where sex and popularity is all that matters.

They'll wizen up when they get older. But until we fix the way media glamorizes sex, shallow attitudes and tacky bling we'll always have shit like this.

[Tha Duckman]

Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua

Yeah, I think that's a pretty common problem; I think it was like that at my high school back in the day, but I decided to opt out of those kinds of social circles.

I tend to think college is worse as far as the amount of sex that goes on, but better in the pressure to do so. [meaning there is less pressure to do it in college than in high school...though I could be wrong..]

If you don't do it in college, there's a pretty good chance you'll be branded as "That Person" forever. I know a guy who was a virgin through college, and he's had sex twice since then. Dude's in his late thirties now.

[Post Modern Girl]

Originally Posted by Tha Duckman

If you don't do it in college, there's a pretty good chance you'll be branded as "That Person" forever. I know a guy who was a virgin through college, and he's had sex twice since then. Dude's in his late thirties now.

I hope you arn't making a connection that if you don't do it aqt school, you never will. Mayeb the guy you know is simply not putting it out there properly.
I'm not saying the guy is ugly, I know lots of ugly people who are never done banging. Makes you sick actually.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by Tha Duckman

If you don't do it in college, there's a pretty good chance you'll be branded as "That Person" forever. I know a guy who was a virgin through college, and he's had sex twice since then. Dude's in his late thirties now.

Unless you go to Christian college, in which case not having it is praised, and having it means you are made to feel horribly guilty. :P

But if you're talking secular, then yeah, definitely! XD

[Tha Duckman]

It's pretty much the same in the Western world, and some of the Eastern. He's clueless when it comes to females, even more than I am, and I'm partially retarded. It'll make you unsure of yourself and the opposite sex, and it's the perfect time and environment to "Get yr legs" as it were. I'm not saying fuck around with as many people as you can, but if you're gonna do it for the first time anywhere, college is the perfect opportunity. Take it or leave it, just don't bitch about it or argue.

[BlkGothGrl]

Originally Posted by Valerius

Mmmm... teens. Tasty.

now THAT made me laugh.... then I felt ashamed cuz I've seen some children that I shouldn't have (pushing the pedo in me back into the closet)...

Teens are generally stupid. Their brains aren't fully developed, and yet, what with all those hormones coursing through their blood it's easy to fall into some rat race where sex and popularity is all that matters.

Truer words never spoken.

My kid is a teen....he hasn't done much in the way of the 'wicked' world. Before you all come out of your corners yelling, trust me. I was one of the most wicked people on the planet; I know how to scam, plot and scheme and for now my pal hasn't done it (the sex word) yet. My spouse bought him a packet of jimmy hats and had 'the talk', but my son is too much into WoW and Spongebob to really be 'skirt chasing'--which is amazing to me considering the clevage and leg action *I've* seen at his school (chicks with bigger racks than mine 0_o)

[Tha Duckman]

It's a ploy to hide the dark secret that he's already married and has two kids with different partners.

[AngelikDemonik]

I didn't have sex until after I graduated from High School, and I didn't get drunk until I was 19 years old. Why risk so much when you're so young?

[Tha Duckman]

Because it will make you look cool.

[Cen0bite]

Originally Posted by AngelikDemonik

I didn't have sex until after I graduated from High School, and I didn't get drunk until I was 19 years old. Why risk so much when you're so young?

Amen!

i didnt have sex til last year, months after i graduated.
although i can't say the same for getting drunk.

[Tam Li Hua]

Still haven't had sex [my choice], still haven't gotten drunk [also my choice XD ].

The no-sex is because I'm paranoid about disease and pregancy even with all the birth control and controceptives available [though I -do-..er...self-pleasure fairly often], and the no-drunk is because I've seen enough people drunk enough times to not really want to go there [though I'm not opposed to having a drink now and again].

[JCC]

Use a condom. Your problems are solved.

Teens will fuck. There's hormones, along with the fact that it's fun. Sex doesn't have to be something for in-love twenty-somethings that want to express their love. Two people should be able to come together, release some stress and have a good time without needing commitment.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by JCC

Use a condom. Your problems are solved.

Not necessarily; if the condom breaks, or is the wrong size, then there could be a -very- big problem.

[Mir]

Wrong size would result in? Elaborate.

[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by Mir

Wrong size would result in? Elaborate.

From what I understand [and admittedly, this is from what I've heard from others rather than personal experience], if it's too big, it will slip off, and if too small, it won't work properly.

But, I could be totally wrong. Just something I heard once.

[tickingstitch]

This whole world is resting on sexual powers. It's fun, exciting something to explore... Sexuality that is. However, I am not a teen and am only into very safe sex. Condoms and tested partners, who I have relationships with, not necessarily monogamy but friendship, communication and trust.

I had sex during the HS years and I have never regretted it, not randomly of course, but respectfully. However, I think exploring ones sexual nature is important and I think one should do that however one is inclined to, but be willing to pay the consequences. Sex without friendship and sex without protection has consequences and if someone is willing to accept these then please, Fuck on and Fuck often...

Besides, has anyone read Bukowski's poem..."How to be a great writer"?
It starts out... You have to fuck a great many woman and write a few decent love poems :~)

Get messy for all I care!

[tickingstitch]

Condom size does matter